Should I take this as a sign to move on front my crush?

[bunnyboo364]

I’m aware of my crush being single. We haven’t talked yet but we have those
little moments ig? I was planning to talk to him in the future. Anyway, there was a girl at his table. Let me set a disclaimer, clearly he’s able to talk to anyone he wants but there’s really no point of me liking someone who’s interested in someone else. I was watching them talk and from what it looked like (don’t know if it’s true), it looked like he had a lot of interest in her. He also didn’t look at me at all. Should I take that a sign to move on from my crush? Before making moves on someone whose possibly into someone else.

[ohshee]

I think you can only do what your heart tells you to do. Not us you understand the situation deeper than we do and if the guy isn't going to make a move on you then you have to either make a move on him or walk away does he know that you like him that's the first thing just because you have a crush on him doesn't mean that he knows anything so that I would let him know that you have a crush on him and then try to go from there I don't know why you wouldn't look at you I mean I'm surprised you got staring at you I'm surprised if he knows you that whenever he sees you he wouldn't walk up to talk to you best purchase kind of curious

[OlderAndWiser]

You are correct that there is no point in pursuing someone who is not interested in you. Any clue about what she has that has captivated his attention?

[bunnyboo364]

I’m not sure since I don’t know her as a person but she’s very gorgeous

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't sell yourself short. You are a very attractive young lady.

[Tiptoetamm]

I say you just tell him how you feel. You never know what the response might be. Guess like being approached as well. If I were you. I'd just tell him leave the ball in his court if he's not into you move on that's all you can do

[bunnyboo364]

okok i might do it when i get back from spring break, i gotta plan how to ask though since i only see him when he’s with his friends

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah I'd make it casual walk by him at lunch and just say to him get can I talk to you. And go on and tell him how you feel. He may not answer right away and that's not always a bad thing boys especially teenage boys are can be shy about it.

[gabby100]

He could have his eyes on this girl. But has she got eyes on him.

[RealMarek]

It’s really difficult to know what sort of friendship he has with the girl at the table. Just try to get to know him and see if he shows interest in you. If he is pursuing that girl you’ll find out sooner or later. If you find out he already has a girlfriend then of course you need to move on.

[bunnyboo364]

My friend asked him yesterday if he was single and he said yeah but i’m gonna try to get to know him like u said

[RealMarek]

Try not to overthink it. I hope it goes well!

[TheMajesticKing777]

Damn bruh that's a bummer, I was really routing for y'all, I'd be most likely giving you bad advice if I told you to stick around considering in such a position I'd lose hope as well, I feel like that is the best choice at this moment, it simply wasn't meant to be.

[bunnyboo364]

Ohh this is my second crush btw😭 but yeah it’s probably not meant to be

[TheMajesticKing777]

Well Goodluck with the first crush I guess

[Interstate]

It doesn't hurt to say something anyway. For all you know, he could have just really gotten into the conversation. But also, you shouldn't ever try to draw conclusions based on facial and body language. They are easily misinterpreted (much like text), and sometimes some expressions are similar to others, depending on the mood and expression. Just talk to him and go from there. And if he doesn't reciprocate, then it is time to put him behind you and move on with life.

[Pterodon]

No. To find out if he’s interested in you just walk up and ski him if he’d like to go out sometime. If he says yes then get a firm date. If he gives anything but a firm yes then it’s a no and move on

[bunnyboo364]

I wanted to become friends first also if I ever asked that and got rejected, I’d never live that down. Like i’d think about it for a year

[Pterodon]

No. At least you’d know so you can stop wasting time and energy and move on to something better

[bunnyboo364]

you’re right but if he says yes or no, i wouldn’t know where to go from there. i’m not good at relationships and crushes. that’s why i wanted to build something first😭

[Pterodon]

Again,
Step one, ask him out
If he says anything but yes then it’s over
If he says yes then get a firm date
If you can’t get a firm date then it’s over
If you get a firm date then move to step two
Step Two, enjoy your date

[msc545]

Instead of trying to read what basically amounts to tea leaves like this you should still just ask him.

[bunnyboo364]

That’s honestly not a bad idea but the thing is all my crushes end badly once I told them I liked them or once they knew I was interested. So I had a plan on becoming his friend first so I can know him better.

[msc545]

I have to tell you dear I don't think that's going to work out very well for you. Just because bad things happened with other guys doesn't mean bad things will happen with this guy. Please try being a little bit proactive go ask him and see where gets you. Worst case, you wind up with nothing like you have right now.

[msc545]

Best case, you wind up with your crush. Wouldn't that be nice?

[exitseven]

I think you should talk to this guy. If he shoots you down at least you will have some peace of mind.

[HD1450]

I think you should talk to him quickly because if you don't you might end up kicking yourself in the ass if you don't and what do you have to lose.

[Jamie05rhs]

You never know. They could have just been having a conversation. That doesn't mean he's going to marry her. I wouldn't give up quite yet if I were you.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Maybe you should move on, it seems like a lost cause with him

[Amur8711]

I still think you should throw your hat in the ring. Tell him how you feel. Even if he doesn't feel the same for you, you will feel better knowing he knows.

[driven159]

ask him if he is interested in anyone at the moment

[Jltakk]

Why dont you just ask him?

[bunnyboo364]

Then he’ll know i’m interested, I also never have opportunities to talk to him alone

[Xtendable]

Its possible its a platonic friendship.

[bunnyboo364]

i hope so😭

[Xtendable]

Have you made an effort to talk to him?

[bunnyboo364]

nope i’m extremely shy, but i was hoping to talk to him after i found out he was single but i didn’t get a chance since he was with his friends and the girl

[Xtendable]

Nothing will happen until you make a move

[SignedAutographs]

Yeah

[bunnyboo364]

tyyy

[SignedAutographs]

Sorry

[dudeinohio]

Either move on or make your move on him now.

[Waldoe]

TAKE THE RISK... or regret forever

[Anonymous]

That's what it seems like.

[innerman]

Your shooting stars