with my family my siblings are all "grown" with their own little families now. My parents work hard every day so it's rare we have a family get together. It will be once a month or two we will have one.
Usually my boyfriend family and my family plan events the same day. I go to mines and sometimes try to make it to his family's. he doesn't do the same and it makes me sad and look bad. Often they always ask where is he.
His stepdad is planning a vacation trip a weekends get away two hours away which is the same day as my sisters birthday...he will miss another family event. He snapped and was like "fine! I won't go to my step dads!"
I said I didn't tell him not to go but he should consider my feelings and he just said "ok" but I feel like this "talk" didn't make me feel better. I asked "do you understand me where I'm coming from though?" And he just said "yeah"
I wanted to talk more but I guess he felt our talk was done
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