Are the majority of guys only polite to girls they're attracted to?

purpleballoons456
I wanted to know if guys will generally only be polite to women they are attracted to. In my experience, whenever I try to be polite to guys they always either stare at me blankly or make a weird face at me, and this is not my imagination.

For example, if I’m paying for something at a store, I’ll smile to be friendly. If the cashier is a guy he’ll just kind of look at me with a blank expression. I have also had times when I’ve walked near a person and they’ve smiled at me and I smiled in return. However when I do that to guys, they make a weird face at me. And it’s generally only guys that do this, women are friendly.

So I’ve stopped trying to be nice, I just kind of keep a neutral face. I asked one of my guy friends why this was and he told me that guys will generally only smile and be polite to women they are attracted to. Is that really the case? I then came to the conclusion that these men are confusing my attempts at politeness as hitting on them and they’re rude to me because they're not attracted to me. I’ve also noticed that when other girls try to be polite, guys are nice to them.

Are the majority of guys only polite to girls they're attracted to?
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