Why do some guys be rude to women they find attractive?

[Anonymous]

One of my guy friends can be cold to me one day and then nice the next. He knows I’m attractive. Could it be maybe he’s insecure that he can’t pull a girl like me?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know with people who are like that. It may just be how he is. Some people are just depending on what kind of day they’re having.


Some people are nasty to people they find attractive and wonder why they chase them off or play “hard to get” which usally results in someone loosing interest and finding someone who is genuinely into them.


Regardless of why hee doing it. He sounds like a toxic person and maybe it’s time that you confront him and tell him if he’s gonna be a asshole without a cause. Then just leave me alone.


Do some people get angry when they can’t be with someone? Yeah some do. You may have seen him genuinely as a friend but not a romantic or sexual interest. So he became bitter over that. Instead of moving on and finding someone else.



I think it’s his atttitude that chases decent women away from him. If he wants to be married one day to a bitter old bitch. He can go ahead and do that. Because that’s the type of women he will find.

[MrOracle]

It's likely that this is just his personality - people who run "hot and cold" are usually either bipolar or are on the borderline of that, even if it's not as severe to be officially diagnosed.

But it's also true that many guys find success with women by being mean or rude to them. MANY (not all, of course) women find men who they can't manipulate to be very attractive.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't think it has anything to do with how attractive you are. If he blows hot and cold to you, then it is likely he does that to others too!

[superchan2011]

I think it's simply because their assholes and that's their min way of expressing themselves in general. That shit never made sense to me to be a jerkass to someone that you like.

[Sharkstealth]

"He knows I'm attractive" This is the most subjective statement ever I think. He's probably just frustrated.

[Asker]

About what? Don’t got to put it out on me.

[Sharkstealth]

Frustrated? Maybe he needs a woman bad and he is getting mixed signals so he can't control his emotions.

[Sharkstealth]

Have you ever seen the Canadian comedy strip "Play with his cock and balls"? That's what he needs.

[Asker]

Bro can change the attitude then because no woman wants a guy like only girls lololol

[Sharkstealth]

Nothing wrong with a little help once in a while correct?

[Asker]

What help? I never seen that comedy. He won’t get if from me

[Sharkstealth]

Your not a nice girl?

[Asker]

I was super nice to him but he would just be rude to me. That was in the past though but i guess you can say that now I’m rude to not just him but people in general because I’ll respect who respects me.😎

[Sharkstealth]

I think the comedy group is the kids in the hall.

[Sharkstealth]

I mean to say a nice girl would play with his cock and balls.

[Asker]

His coworker does that she’s an easy one 😆

[Sharkstealth]

A girl I new once said to me. "Dicks are ugly" and then her eyes would light up with a smile and say "but they sure are fun to play with."

[Asker]

No he told me his is small but he sure is attractive

[genericname85]

yeah pretty much. it's ego preservation. you can reduce the impact of a rejection on your ego by putting the person you're into down.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Depends what they say cause they cause sometimes the truth can be painful

[ProbablyClueless]

Because they're assholes. Assholes gon' asshole.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 what's funny to me is you call these people friends. Do you actually have any real friends?

[Asker]

I’m being for real.. no because they all jealous of me😌

[Opinion Owner]

Sure hun. 😆

[Asker]

Be a hater!

[Opinion Owner]

😁👍

[Paul09]

Maybe he's a "bad boy". Better stay away from him, relationship wise. Women seem the like them for some odd reason.

[DagonbroughtMehere]

Repressed sexual tension, hormones, show of dominance, lack of social skills or a combination of all.

[MrZameer]

an ugly man can have an attractive and sexy girl.
so I don't think so

[spartan55]

Yeah, that must be it...😂 😂 😂

[laly520]

cuz they r jerks