There is a man whom I've known for a few months (we are both dating other people and this man is about 18 years older than me.) At some point I began to notice that he seemed to be flirting with me. He glanced at me often, smiled a lot, seemed to be shy and nervous around me (despite being very outgoing normally) and I caught him checking me out once. To test my theory I made eye contact with him, at first I could tell he was taken off guard but he quickly relaxed into the eye contact (did not break it) and had a huge grin on his face. His eyes were even shiny/sparkly as it went on. I became kind of shy after this exchange and the next few times he looked at me I looked away. I didn't see him for several days and now he seems to be avoiding me. For example he will stand far away from me if we are in a group, or will almost hide if we are in the same vicinity. Do you think he is avoiding me due to sexual tension (which is likely to remain unresolved as we are both dating other people) or was I mistaken and he was never interested to begin with. Unfortunately I can't get this man out of my head.
"The next few times he looked at me I looked away." From that, he thinks you are uninterested in him and/or uncomfortable with his presence, which is causing him to want to distance himself from you.
And, yes, he is into you.
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how did the eye contact end? did you guys smile at each other? how did you guys break it?
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