So if a girl says yes when you ask her out, what is her reason?

[Anonymous]

This is a strange question I know, but girls if you accept a guy's offer of a first date, what are your reasons? Do you ever feel obligated to? If you say yes does that mean you find him cute?

I recently asked out a girl that moved into my apartment complex. She's really talkative and friendly, and I saw signs that she liked to talk to me, so I asked her out and she said yes. I even said the word date. So is there any chance that she said yes because she didn't wanna hurt my feelings? She's also become part of my friends and I's social group and niether of us have told them about our upcoming date night. Any thoughts would be appreciated!

[Anonymous]

it depends on the girl honestly.

some girls WILL figure he is nice, give him a shot. sometimes they do feel obligated. but I don't think most girls would say yes if they had absolutely no interest.

personally I say yes if I find him attractive and I know enough about him to think there is potential for a relationship (we have things in common, etc)

[SarahP]

For me personally, I only agree to a date if I have interest in the guy and would like to see where things could go with a guy. However, you do get some girls that feel bad about saying no, but in that situation, you would definitely be able to tell by her body language. She would be more closed off than if she genuinely does want to go on a date.

[Asker]

Do you think that you have to be physically attracted to him to go on a date with him? Even if you really don't want to?

[SarahP]

Being physically attracted does make it easier for some people to say yes, even if they're not really interested in doing so.

For me though, I go more for personality and common interests.