I want to ask her out but I can't!

[Anonymous]

Long story short, there is a girl I like in school, and I know she likes me, and will almost definitely say yes if I ask her out. I've been flirting with her for about 2 weeks fairly intensely, and really want to ask her out, but the issue is that I am at the moment so damn busy that I would be unable to meet up with her outside school, let alone in school, because we hang out with totally different people! (I got to know her well through texting, etc.)

So yeah...Now would really seem like the perfect time for asking her out, but it would be weird to do so and then say, actually I am busy for the next month! Then again, I'm scared that if I don't do it now, I'll lose her, or won't be able to maintain her interest for a month. Its either ask her out and not meet up properly or just leave it.

[Adidas12]

I think if you really want to ask her out, you will make time for her. I've been really busy before with school, working and playing sports, and still made time to go out because I really liked the girl. Essentially, if you like her, you will make time for her. Then tell her sometime that you are really busy and if she wants to go out again, you will tell her when you aren't busy. If she cares about you, she will wait a couple weeks- its not that long, its not like you're making her wait a few months.

[Neubauten]

Tough dilemma.

I think you have only 2 options:

1 -Clear a few hours on your schedule so you can have a date with her.

2 -Curse the bad timing, and move on for now.

I vote for option 1. Even with all the end of school stuff, I'm fairly sure you can clear enough time for lunch with her...

[Asker]

Yeah its a tough call thanks for the help

[kcgirl22]

I say go for it. If you really like the girl and if you really think she likes you, then chances are she does. You might be busy, but I'm sure you can find one night with a few hours where you can do something with her. If you wait too long you might lose her. I know that if a guy shows interest in me, but never does anything about it, eventually I think either I was imagining it or he wasn't actually into me. I think your best bet is to at least give it a try. Good luck! :)

[Joeycat]

You could just explain what you just said. I'm sure if she liked you she'd understand and she'd wait for you. but I do agree with Adidas12 , if you REALLY wanted to go out with her, you could make some time in your scheduel :)

[Anonymous]

Can you take time to meet for a few minutes at a cafe or where ever you hang out?- you need to eat sometime. Don't get in a rush and texting is a whole lot different from being face to face. A package may look great, but you have to see what is on the inside. Make sure it is some one you have something in common with. Good luck.

[roadkingp]

hey man just ask her out, or someone else will hijack her.

[thatplayer89]

ask her out...cuz if you don't do it someone will...ME