How to tell a girl that you like her?

[qstoffe]

How should I make it 100% obvious that I like a girl. Would you girls prefer to be told in plain words? Would it work to just tell her I like her and that I find her very attractive?

I guess I'm asking if I should just tell her straight up or if I should build it up by asking hinting questions, like if she's single etc.

[irishelen]

You can start by showing it (that you are interested): compliment her, but not too much. flirt a little (be a little silly. girls like that or. . I do), confidence, but not cocky.

After that you should have eye contact with her and tell her that you think she is pretty and that you like her, if she likes you she will smile shyly or giggle. Then you can pop out that you want to see her more.

Don't hint it, even if. . (if the girl like you, she will understand it), but girls like to hear it from the guy. It is sexy with confidence, so tell her straight up. :)

Good luck. !

[LizTheWeirdKid]

If you guys know eachoher and have talked to each other enough to be acquainted, then it wouldn't be so bad if you told her. But if you haven't gotten to know each other yet, it might be a little awkward if you told her straight out that you like her. Ask her to hang out some time and get to know her before you tell her how you feel.

[confugirl]

You could tell her, but if you don't ask her out right after that, she won't know what to do with the information. It's better to not tell her directly, but instead try spending more time with her and flirting, touching etc. She'd have to be blind and deaf to not catch that if you do it consistently.

[alltheabove1212]

You don't want to make it 100% obvious (by telling her). By hanging out, SHOWING her you are interested, and making her feel good around you, you are doing 100x better than if you just told her. Logically, yes it seems right to tell her and hope for the same. But girls aren't about logic, they're about attraction and feelings.

Read up on Robert Belland. He's a very intelligent guy with women and has been a user on here for years. Gives golden advice and has helped me through A LOT.

[whateverdude]

i agree with this guy good advice

[anonymousfille]

that's a good advice too,I'm glad someone understands that rejection is not personal.It's true we are all about attraction and feelings, we're different than men, I 'm not just gonna like you because you're good looking.

[blaze01221]

Just compliment her time to time but don't say she's beautiful, because she's probably heard that a hundred times so compliment her style or a accessory just pay attention to her.

[Anonymous]

Asking her something might get you unwanted responses, and she might not understand what you're trying to say. Expressing your interest directly will flatter her and give her a chance to reply to you clearly since she already understands what you mean. Let's face it who wouldn't be flattered by a compliment !

[anonymousfille]

People gave you different opinions, and I think you should go with what you think fits your personality the most. It also depends on how much you know her by now, or how direct you're comfortable being with her. Best of luck ;)

[tokioangel95]

Ask her to do something together with you, like hanging out, going to a movie...something like that, get to know her and then I love it when a guy can say I really like you, you know :)

[Anonymous]

Personally I prefer building up. I don't like it when the guy is really frank when I don't even know him that well...

[Anonymous]

Never tell them that you like them you put them on the spot and pressure them.

Just flirt with her and she'll get the picture once you start flirting.

[anonymousfille]

I think you put more pressure on them if you ask them if they are single because they might not want to share or they might lie anyways.If somebody asks me if I'm single,and I don't like the person or if I was caught by surprise sometimes I might answer:why would that interest you,or I might just answer it like any other question,and it might not occur to my mind that the person likes me. Plus,I've told people before that I have a boyfriend even when I did not so they would not take it personally.

[Rezzle]

If I was friends with the person and also liked them, I'd prefer to be told straight up. Flirting is great and what not but it plays to many mind games.

[DonnieDebbie]

I would say just say it in plain words. no games, no chasing around.

[Deviouscourage]

I would tell her in ways without the use of words.

[hotstudlovercupcake]

you don't lol but anyway you do it.

[Anonymous]

be goo looking