How much physical contact is too much?

[Dakoin]

I mean when you are in a relationship? I'm just worried that I might touch my so too much... :-)

[eHeart95]

I'm not a very physical person and I let people know that.

I'm going to assume that you mean touching in public/without intentions of sex, so I'm sorry if I'm answering this wrong.

I don't like hugs and I don't like constantly being touched.

I'm perfectly fine with holding hands, or having a hand on my thigh (or vice versa) but I'm not big on anything else. I think it's fine to have your head on their shoulder or arm around their waist or shoulders if you're sitting down and close to one another (spacial wise.)

Still, I tell people this. Everyone close to me knows that I don't like to be touched because I say so. I'd argue that if he hasn't said anything, he's fine with it so don't bother stopping or asking unless it's uncomfortable for you.

[Ingrid422]

When I can't keep a proper conversation with the person because he's touching me so much all the time that I feel distracted and suffocated. When I feel like the person cares more about how he's fondling me and touching me than what I'm saying. When I can't walk by myself most of the time because he has both his hands on me. When he stops me out of the blue to make out and such. When he keeps me from sleeping because he's touching me all over. Basically, when I feel like my body space is always occupied by his hands, it's way. too. much.

[SunshineLelek]

hmmm I guess it varies based on the couple.

Some people are really just not affectionate and physical contact makes them uncomfortable. My big sister is like that to the point where even ME, her baby sister, AS A CHILD, couldn't give her hugs without her acting all weird. And she knew me since day one of life! Some people really just do not like to be touched so for them, minimal physical contact is too much.

Personally, I'm one huge cuddle bunny and I never think physical contact is too much unless I'm in a crabby mood.

[kangaru]

if you are already into relationship then nothing is too much I guess

[ryanrhino]

It's what you feel comfortable with.

My fiancée likes my hand on her leg when I'm driving, but, just today, my hand started to get sweaty and she said to keep it there, as she didn't mind.

Also, when we hold hands while walking, my right and her left hand will be in the lock, and she'll ask that we switch sides when our hands get too sweaty.

But, that's her telling me that she wants me to touch her.

For me, I would only ask that she stop touching me if I was angry and didn't want to be near someone.

Touch unites two people as much as a kiss sometimes, such as a massage or a simple hug.

[Red_Arrow]

People in a relationship will push the bounds of "physical contact" (sex). If you are okay with his advances, then you have not reached your definition of what is too much. And you will push bounds with him and as long as he is okay with it then things are fine. When things are getting too far for one or the other, that person needs to say so and the other person needs to respect that and back off. If someone refuses to back off, then it is too much.

[Cromartie]

If they literally begin to die from smothering that's about a good measurement of /// O a, tpp tored tp type this. You get it.

[maiez]

Theres not too much, and if you feel like you are bothering him, just ask him.

[Anonymous]

If you two are open with one another I think it would be up to them to let you know if your crossing the line

[SexyCountryGirl101]

There's never too much physical contact until he/she indicates that they're uncomfortable with it