Talking is like pulling teeth, what's the deal? Girls please

[Anonymous]

Right so there's this girl and we've been dating about a month. Pre-dating in the whole flirting stage we would talk a lot. I could wake up and find text's on my phone, or I could text her just about any time and we'd talk. Now that we've started dating, I feel like I ALWAYS have to start the conversations, to test it I even stopped talking for 2 days and I got nothing. And about 30% of my texts are just flat out ignored. Which makes trying to plan a time to go out with her very frustrating. But when we see each other in person, things are dandy, I can't get her to stop talking, and she's all cuddly. But when she ignores my messages I feel like I'm being ignored, then I start wondering if we're ok, and if I did something wrong, etc. Any girls have an idea about what the deal is/what I should do about this? It's really starting to make me think if I should even bother with her.

[Similipoulette]

Tell her that when she doesn' t reply to your texts it makes you feel ignored and ask her why she doesn't reply. She may have a good reason, she may not. But you should make it clear that she needs to treat you right. It's not fair to you that she ignores your texts but then acts all cuddly when she sees you, because then you don't know where you stand.

[xXThisIs4RealXx]

i feel that some girls do this as a test in the beginning of a relationship to see if you really care. Talk to her about it and ask her what's up. it may be her way of seeing how much you are willing to put up with and how much you care.