I don't mean what the basic definition of the word is.
I am asking what is your goal in having girl talk with someone else? * What does it take for you to have girl talk with someone? * Is it something you can only have with another woman, or can you have it with the right type of guy? * Is girl talk just code for needing time to be vulnerable with someone else you can trust or relate too? * What does it take for you to be able to open yourself up to someone and share your thoughts and secrets?
Ladies, how do you describe "girl talk"?
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Girl talk is not something that we can have with men no. I would say women talk about health issues a lot between each other like our periods or for pregnant or having bleeding or what the doctor said.
I mean I guess it's a little bit different if you're not married or you're not having kids or whatever the case may be but women talk about health issues a lot.
Some it really all depends on what kind of friends you have as well some women only talk about clothes or whatever the case may be but yeah it's just usually it's not like very on topic. It wanders from here to there and everywhere.
We talked about our relationship issues or men. We'll talk about our significant others a lot like what how he's messing up and then what particular fashion he's screwing up the relationship that particular day.
We also like to talk about bargains and how to get things we need it at a good price.
I completely understand that men can't relate on a lot of medical issues about being a woman. But for other topics, wouldn't you be more open if you were talking to a man who was genuinely listening and empathic?
Yes, of course but it's just simply not the same. Our way of thinking and processing things emotionally even if a man is in Papa the vibe is just not the same. When I think of girl talk I'm thinking of like at least four women all sitting around chit-chatting. A lot of men get lost in this type of conversation because it's like this hexagonal tennis match is going here there and everywhere and it's just a little bit hard to follow.
If you're talking about a one-on-one conversation with someone who's genuinely interested the person they're speaking with and that person happens to be a male your then absolutely, yes!
But girl talk implies that it's like a group of women chit-chatting over some type of beverage or food.
I was talking to my ex tonight, and she meant up with her female best friend. And she used the word girl talk, and yes it was over food and drinks. And so I asked what the difference was between talking to her and talking to me.
If I felt like I was lost it would be because I was not as informed or inexperienced on the topic. But I would need more exposure.
(Side note: I really appreciate you for being so generous with your opinion.)
For me it is just something we are doing just to get away from guys for a bit. doesn't have to be special conversations about any particular topic, just means we don't want a guy as part of it.
Now if we have gossip to share we call that tea time.
What does it take for you to have girl talk with someone? - A topic might come up or something happened. *Is it something you can only have with another woman, or can you have it with the right type of guy? It's something I can only have with another woman. Sometimes men don't understand certain things because it doesn't happen to them or because they have a different body. * Is girl talk just code for needing time to be vulnerable with someone else you can trust or relate too? I don't think so. To me girl talk can be anything only a woman understands. It doesn't have to be a sad or a sensitive topic. * What does it take for you to be able to open yourself up to someone and share your thoughts and secrets? It takes a long time and I also need to see how they think and act in order to figure out whether I can trust them or not.
I can talk to male and female friends about “girl talk” things. When I talk to male friends I sometimes feel I have to explain it a bit more and with female friends I think they understand from personal experience. Where as male friends are learning it for the first time from my perspective.
No we don’t make period jokes and discuss episodes of Friends.
That’s not girl talk.
Girl talk is pep talk, just one girl confiding in another to discuss life issues.. doesn’t necessarily have to be gossip or about men are on their lives.
I only asked that because I know men don't like to talk much and especially about their feelings. But I am the opposite of that. I do like talking and listening. So I was just trying to find out if girls are more inclined to talk to me then.
I would mostly definitely come to a woman first about my personal problems. I want to talk it out with someone who won't be dismissive about my issues. I hate coming to a guy to talk about my problems. Their answer is typically "just suck it up". And that's not helpful at all.
Well it is a discussion processing girl to womanhood. And it’s every day conversation that involves women information you can go anywhere from learning about your parent to dating to marriage to how to handle every day situations it can go in depths of race and ethnic city and sexuality. Girl talk talking about men anything that involves a woman standpoint. It could be very simple to technical.
It depends on your friend group with the girls like we don’t know a lot of things that goes on with men so you might not want to be in some of those conversations. Especially when it comes to certain subjects guys tend stay away
I think I'm more open with women. I feel a bit more comfortable talking to them. Men seem unpredictable to me so I'm less likely to get personal with them.
I usually pick up on little things during conversations, if I see any red flags over time then I usually won't open up to him the way I do with my boyfriend or close female friends. I really have no reason to be open with men anyway lmao. The only time I think I would open up is if he opens up. When I give advice I often use personal experience. But yeah, we aren't in a perfect world.
What do you mean by "open with him"? If you don't mind me asking?
Relationships is most common topic, tell each other your problems. Even try on clothes, shoes and show each other new underwear and even put it on and ask the others opinion. Work issues, and just talk about guys also, everything about them and yes even dicks
I understand there can be some challenges with talking about underwear (trying it on) and talking about ducks with guys involved can give them bad ideas and make things awkward for you ladies. But would you still have a problem with that if you found s guy who could remain respectful to you as a person?
It's not just about tqlk, yes you can talk to a guy too. It's about spending time with friends. What's happening here, you want to be included in girl talks? Are you gay?
A real man does manly things with men. They don't go around wanting to act like woman and buy underwear and clothing. Gays do that, just admit you a sissyboy.
It comes overtime as comfortability and trust is built and if there's a connection. Of course there would be respectful line of boundaries if either of us is in a relationship. That would change the course of conversation.
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