Why do girls just stop talking?

[Anonymous]

I'm not referring to dating but an example, a girl who used to hit on me and I didn't respond because she was ditzy. We did a sport together for quite some time. Anyways I messaged her several years later to inquire about something she's familiar with and she asks how I have been n all. I reply with a few questions and she doesn't respond back? I've had two other acquaintances that were the same way one male one female. So why do they even bother asking questions or in some cases reach out then just act like they want nothing to do with you? Are people just that bad at communication? Or understanding social interactions? I feel like they live life as a tik tok clip. It's very annoying.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, chicks are so weird sometimes. I feel your pain, bro. Like why even bother asking how I'm doin' if you ain't gonna reply? Rude.

My guess is a lot of girls just don't think things through. Like they'll hit you up on a whim but got short attention spans. Or maybe they realized they didn't care what you been up to after all.

Social media ruined people, I swear. Now convos gotta be all instant gratification or folks lose interest quick. She prob just expected you to entertain her for two seconds before she dipped out.

But who knows, maybe she's busy. Don't waste your time stressin' over it. Her loss, dude. You seem chill.

Lesson here is don't get your hopes up over random chicks textin' first. Respond polite if you feel like it but don't invest energy til they prove they ain't flakes.

Live your best life bro, real ones will stay in touch. The tik tok types are all hat, no cattle anyhow. You got better stuff to do!

[hahahmm]

Generally speaking, people don't want to be contacted by someone they haven't heard from for ages just to be asked how they can help that other person achieve some goal or get something for free. Especially if they've seen a lot of people pull this same move before. Although if you are a giving type person who hasn't been treated like a gift basket before it's hard to understand because you think to yourself, "if they contacted me looking for help I would gladly help". On the other hand if you contact someone to say congrats for a life achievement, to catch up (both people) of theirs or asking them something benefits them (because they are a salesperson) there's never a problem.

[askthis56]

May be She wanted use you

[Asker]

Guess that's a possibility. Just having that shallow personality of mingle and importance of self image?

[askthis56]

May be I dont know