Ideas on Asking out My Bank Teller (haha)

[animalwithin]

So there is a really cute bank teller at my local Chase bank. I only see her on Tuesday's and we haven't really spoken much but every time I go in, she's always watching me. I went in this past Tuesday and I was at another window and I saw her looking at me from 4 windows over when she finished with the person she was helping. I once caught her talking to a few people behind the windows and when I looked over they all looked at me and smiled and she smiled then turned away. She's really cute and I'm assuming her behavior means she's interested. I was just going to write my name and number on a piece of paper next time she helps me out and tell her to call me but that might be too direct or a bit strange since we've barely spoken before. Thoughts on asking her out?

[loveisbeautiful]

I don't have a lot of dating experience, however my mom was a bank teller for

22yrs and she got hit on a lot (despite the fact the she's married to my dad lol).

She even have werid guys say sexual type things to her, hell she was even hit

on by a few lesbians lol. Not to mention, a girl she worked with that had the hot's

for a married man that came into the bank. And, as soon as the guys sick wife died.

That co-worker of hers started sleeping with that guy. Anyway, I do have a point here lol.

My point is, you totally have a chance of getting a date with this chick.

So, nextime (if you can and it's not to busy) wait to go to her window.

Or, just let people go ahead of you and tell them you're waiting for her.

Then, when you get up there hand her your transaction and make the normal

"how are you?" "Nice weather we're having", type small talk. Then you could casually

say " I don't know if you be interested, but I thought maybe sometime you like go out

with me and get a cup of coffee or something?" Then you could say "I don't mean be

so foward, but I think you're really cute. So, here's my number. Give me a call if you'd

like to grab that coffee with me, sometime". I know some people might disagree

with that, but you have to put it out there and whatever happens after that, at least

you know you tried, right? Good luck : )

[animalwithin]

Awesome answer, thanks so much!

[loveisbeautiful]

You're very welcome! : ) Good luck, let me know how things turn out for you and the bank teller chick.

By the way, sorry about all the rambling I did before I gave my answer lol.

[animalwithin]

No worries, I enjoy ramblings haha. I'll definitely let you know how it goes!

[loveisbeautiful]

Haha,okay. And, cool : )

[animalwithin]

Alright so I went in today, got out my money and deposit slip and went right to her window. We talked about New Year's Eve, what we did, etc. At the end of my transaction I pretty much told her what you quoted above, asking her out, and she turned red...gave me an almost painful grimace...and said "No Thank You". I walked out of there pretty shocked, I'm starting to think I asked the wrong girl out but I'm pretty sure it was her, although I'm terrible with faces lol. Weirdest reaction ever!

[loveisbeautiful]

Aww, I'm sorry : ( How many females work there?

[animalwithin]

It was the strangest reaction I've ever gotten lol. Concerning just the tellers, I've only seen 3. Every once in a while one of the office people jumps to a window but the main ones are the 3 that I know. I'm pretty sure it was her, I just can't believe she reacted that way. I wasn't really bummed about it, just shocked. Maybe she has a twin or something haha.

[loveisbeautiful]

Haha,maybe. Sorry, it didn't work out. There's always other banks and bank tellers lol. Maybe, you just caught her off guard or maybe she's shy?

[animalwithin]

I don't know, I'm still thinking whether she was the right girl lol. I'm terrible at remembering people and I've only seen her a couple times. Maybe she's another girl, maybe she's the right one and I caught her off guard, who knows. I normally don't go in the day's she works anyways so I can always go in another day :) Thanks for the advice!

[loveisbeautiful]

You're very welcome! Good luck if try again : )

[Rosesss]

hmmmm this is a very difficult situation! Writing your name and stuff at work is really not a good idea in my opinion. If I were you I would find out what her name was and where she likes to hang out and try to do what I can to spot her out with her friends. But that is a bit difficult.. where I'm from it's a small place and it's easy to spot people out and find out who they hang out with. Or else find out her name and surname from her name tag, search her on Facebook and add her or send her a private message ! BAM!

[ArabianPwincess197]

well when you are cashing in or withdrawing money/depositing money and she's there - along with the money slide in the paper that has you asking her out written on them and with your number. If she says no just say sorry I didn't realize that paper got stuck in the money - its for someone else. Same if a colleague sees it. And if she doesn't say anything and hides the paper you can expect a text from her.

Lol - I know I have this really cute bank cashier in the bank I'm with. And he is really nice and always smiles at me, sometimes watches too lol

[pheabs]

don't hesitate showing her your interest :) Be casual and confident about it ! make a small talk, be light, smile and show you're happy speaking to her! what you're thinking to do is not to direct! she will definetley appreciate it! even if it it turns out she wasn't interested... (which I don't believe)

I've been in a similar situation and I know the feeling!

if nothing comes out you know you 've tried :)

good luck !

[animalwithin]

Thanks for the great advice :)