If a girl flirts and likes you when she already has been in a relationship for 3 years, would that consider to be cheating?

[Anonymous]

Obvious signs of flirting:
1. text with smileys and winkies
2. want to meet up
3. hides bf's photos before inviting me to her bedroom
4. strong eye contact, hair toss while staring at you
5. wants to stand really close face to face, leaning in

[Anonymous]

I've had a similar situation, and the girl still has the pictures of her bf up all over her room. She said they are broken up, yet she didn't tell the guy about me. Also, said that she has a dry season with your bf and they are no longer together. Pretty much clear indicator she wants the D. Especially if she get's physical with you at her house. It's not cheating if they are broken up, you might become a rebound though if she recently broke up with her bf.

[Asker]

She is still with him, but complains about him. She always looked her best when I showed up

[Opinion Owner]

She's thinking you maybe better than her current bf. Watch after a few weeks she might broke up completely with her current bf and go for you. The girl i'm seeing complains about her bf, about when they are together the bf doesn't want to do anything with her. Of course she will seek another guy.

[JohnWhilkins]

Number 3 sign is strangely indicating she just wants to cheat with you.

There's always a reason for cheating, everything depends on the reason.

[Popeye123]

In my opinion though, I always felt like cheating just wasn't mature, in any circumstance.

[JohnWhilkins]

Agreed. Sometimes you don't know the other person is cheating on somebody else though. I never saw how it was fair for the other person to blame both people.

[Asker]

It IS strange because she already told me about her bf. She likes to plan things out. We're very comfortable with each other tho. Seriously, photos were hidden.

[JohnWhilkins]

That's like she's trying to make you feel more comfortable, in case you'd be bothered by the pictures.

[Asker]

To think that an attractive, educated girl would do something that silly... I mean guys would even think about doing something that's premeditated like hiding pictures

[Asker]

I meant WOULDN'T in the last comment

[JohnWhilkins]

Maybe. That seems like a spur of the moment thing too. Its like cheating versus planning on cheating and then eventually cheating. If you're planning on cheating. Thats pretty weird.