My crush sits behind me in maths! How do I catch his attention/or talk to him!;*?

[beatlesbummer123]

Right!... I Have this Crush on this guy... And he sits behind me in my maths lessons... I don't know what to do.. I start shaking and then my heart starts to raise and i Start acting weird.. Im a very shy person i don't think i could start a conversation with him i would prefer him to start or even start flirting... I also think his best mate fancys me what do i do? Please help me what to do before tomrrow:(

[Paris13]

Sweetie, with all your "shaking and baking" he is Not going to know you are even alive if you don't at least do Something---even if it is eye contact before, during or After class.
Although your shy, and I am sure sweaty palms and all, I can well imagine that having this "cutie crush" even Staring at the back of your pretty little head has you all full of silent "laughs and giggles."
Now you are saying his other "stale mate" Might even take a shine to you as well. Maybe this is because you have not shown any initiative of acknowledging his presence, and have inconspicuously just been this "apple at the top of the tree hardest to grab." Isn't that Just the way it goes...
Rome wasn't built in a day, as they say, and with you being the "shy fly" doesn't help speed things up any faster. But I would suggest Again, try Something, even if it is to ask a simple question about a Math problem, with a small Smile Added In. Anything to get his attention and let him See You are interested in him knowing you are "Not weird and all giddy," but a nice"reddish apple"(shy), who fancies Even his opinion.
See what happens next. Good luck. xx

[beatlesbummer123]

I Love this... And it will help me a lot THANK YOU.! XOX you don't understand how much this helps me... But his friend is right next to him on another table he should see me :s

[Paris13]

I love your school spirit, sweetie.. Good luck.. xx

[ColdFeet]

That's how I got with one of my exs. He used to sit in front of me in maths. Early on he turned around to ask me something about what we were doing and then started chatting. I liked him but I liked maths more so I was caught between being polite and not missing anything the teacher was saying. But once the ice was broken he was free to chat to me during breaks.

So break the ice. Ask for to borrow a pen or if you don't get something ask him.

[beatlesbummer123]

Awww thank you! I really should. I really need to get out of this thing of being shy?

[Da_loo]

Ask him for help on something! If he makes a joke laugh a little, give a bashful look! This is what I do!!

[beatlesbummer123]

Thank You!:)

[Popeye123]

That's hard because if his best friend fancies you, we act a certain way, us guys I believe. If our best friend or friend tells us they like someone, we tend to do our best to think of them romantically, instead we try to help them in that relationship, that girl becomes out of bounds to us (or me at least).

Considering that, I don't think anything will happen fast, first thing is if his friend likes you and you know, you'll have to show you're not interested (be nice though or this dude will back off).

Just be yourself, tell your friends how you feel and see if they can help, if not then if you hear him express difficulty in a question, offer help, just put your book on his desk and smile and point if you must.

Other than that you could express that you're finding a question difficult to him, just think of it as building a friendship at thing, you're being completely innocent, so there's no reason to be nervous.

You can do it, it all depends what goes on in class.

Best of Luck.

[Popeye123]

"we tend to do our best to think of them romantically" I meant *not to think of them romantically.

[beatlesbummer123]

Daww! Thank you! ... His friend sorta flirts in front of my crush and then my crush just looks at me... :(

[beatlesbummer123]

I guess in soo shy...

[Popeye123]

Yeah that's what I mean, even if he was interested he wouldn't act on it. First, you would have to show his friend you aren't interested, his friend may just like to flirt, in which case, maybe you could use his flirting to initiate something with this friend you like.

Something like;

Friend: "Wow, you look good and you're good at math, what more could a guy want ;)"
You: "I don't know, I think it might not depend on things like that."

[Popeye123]

CONT.

then look at your crush
Friend:"Well for me, I would love a girl like you."
You:"Well I hope you manage to find one someday."

Something like that.

[beatlesbummer123]

Yes that's really good. I will definitely try that's... We don't really talk like that its more he makes me laugh...,

[Popeye123]

Then stop laughing!!!

Kidding... I think at the moment it's fine to just try and use any opportunity to get the other guy involved, maybe ask him how he doesn't find it funny haha.

If it ever gets to the point where you get the opportunity to tell him you're not interested, you could, like if he elevates his behaviour at all.

Honestly though, good luck.

[beatlesbummer123]

Yes!... Im sorry he just makes me laugh soo much! But your right i need to tell him to back off in front of my crush
. I feel he hates me for a reason?:(

[Popeye123]

I wouldn't assume anyone hates you unless you're told or HEAVILY shown. Its speculation, you'll worry more because you'll focus heavily on his body language, I think you just need to be natural, try to get in a chat with him, then show your interest gradually.

[beatlesbummer123]

Well his friend (the one that fancys me ) said he finds me a bit annoying :( what dose that mean?

[Popeye123]

Nothing. Don't believe the words of others, just keep an eye on it.

[beatlesbummer123]

I know but that if he is right? What if he dose hate me... I wouldent look stupid trying to talk to him and he ignores me :(

[skippertod1]

guys compete over girls genrally so hid friend fancying you not matter. where a short skirt and lean forward, so he sees your panties, or low slung jeans and a g string so he sees your bumbum

[beatlesbummer123]

Ahaha I Do Wear Short Skirts... ((in kinda a slut))

[beatlesbummer123]

I Already Do Wear Short Skirts... I hopes he's intested in that?

[skippertod1]

breast rubbing against him works too, or maybe short skirt no panties.

[beatlesbummer123]

Ahaha i really wish i could get that close to him!;) and we have to wear tights;((

[skippertod1]

haha! where in uk are you from?

[beatlesbummer123]

The North East

[Casper286]

That's not a good way to get a guy to like you. If you do this than he'll only want you for your body. Please don't degrade yourself like that.

[DutchAtheist]

Wait until the teacher says "... Plus 1", turn around and say: "want to be my plus one?"

You can also wait until your teacher says "58008" and show your boobs doing a handstand but chances are much slimmer of that being an answer at some point.

[beatlesbummer123]

Ahaha we have to wear uniforms ahaha:)

[alliebabe27]

easy ask him for a pen or paper or a pencil! make sure he doesn't see that you have it if you do hahaha just be slick about it

[beatlesbummer123]

Oh yes thank you! I will decently try that, But in soo shy i don't know... :(

[Thatguy321]

Agreed, you can also turn to him and say like "what did you get for number #?"

[Popeye123]

Exactly, look for any opportunity.

[OrangeFire22]

write a note and show it over your shoulder "I+U=<3" Hehehe i am so a math whiz ;)

[beatlesbummer123]

I wish i could but he is behind me :( ... I might just drop it in his book or something ahahaha