Why doesn’t my boyfriend share food with me?

[pinkfloyd222]

My boyfriend doesn’t like sharing his food and has a strict no when it comes to me eating any of his food. He even gets mad if I tell him I really like a hot sauce and I might finish it. I mean it’s just hot sauce… he can get another bottle right?

I always cook for him, make his lunch and feed him. And I feel bad when he is like this. Does he even love me? Isn’t this selfish?

[Genie23]

The fact that you cook and feed him and he can't even share a bottle of hot sauce... Shows he's really selfish. I don't know whether he loves you but I do believe that when you are truly into someone you want to make them happy and you want to do things for them just to see them smile and the fact that he doesn't make equal efforts as you do shows he cares about himself more.

[itsannalee]

Even my 2 years nephew sharing his food with people around, if he is an adult and gets mad over foods especially just hot sauce clearly he is selfish. Leave him alone.

[AI Opinion]

It can be frustrating if someone isn't willing to share, especially with food, something universally enjoyable. People's attitudes towards sharing food often reflect their upbringing or personal habits. It doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you, but maybe he's particular about his preferences or portions. The key might be communicating how you feel about the situation. Sharing meals is indeed a common gesture of affection, and having an open discussion could help strengthen your bond. 🍜❤️

[slatyb]

I find that really weird. Is he refusing to share food on his plate, or to share food in his home? One may be tolerable, the second definitely is not.

[Nikki1989]

Not being able to share is a mental illness with some people.

[jazzy34]

That's a red flag. I'd break up with him, if I were you.

[msc545]

He probably buys all the food and figures that this is enough.

[In_Trance]

Ask him why

[Anonymous]

Is he fat?