How do you feel when you see another woman getting something for free (coffee, drinks at bar, free meal, etc.)?

[brakelightdance]

[Abbycado]

Well, it is hard to tell if they got it for free. How would I know? I have never seen it happen, but then again, I cannot go to bars yet.

[brakelightdance]

Doesn't have to be just at bars. I saw a woman at Starbucks get her coffee order for free. I know because I heard her talking to the barista and saw her give him her number.

[Abbycado]

I don't really know that I would think much of another woman getting something for free.

[brakelightdance]

Not jealous or envious

[Abbycado]

Nah, wouldn't really think twice about it. Tho, never seen it happen.

[Persephone02]

I have before with my best friend. We got free mimosas. So I don't honestly care if other women do. It's good for them if they do.

[brakelightdance]

It's funny as a guy I get kinda jealous when I see a women getting free stuff

[Persephone02]

You shouldn't let it bother you too much. Many women do especially very attractive women.

[brakelightdance]

Oh it doesn't bother me. I work in retail and have had a few customers get their orders for free.

[brakelightdance]

I just feel bad for the woman who are maybe less attractive but with a nice personality

[Persephone02]

Oh ok. That's good that it doesn't because it happens a lot.

[Persephone02]

Yeah me too but it's just how it is unfortunately

[brakelightdance]

Happens a lot to you or happens a lot in general?

[Persephone02]

Happens a lot in general

[brakelightdance]

Do you flirt with them? Give them your number? Go out on a date?

[Persephone02]

No. I rarely go out to the bar. That was like a one time thing.

[brakelightdance]

It must happen outside the bar... I saw a woman at Starbucks get her order comped.

[Persephone02]

Yeah we weren't even at a bar but a day lounge.

[brakelightdance]

If you ever want to pm we can talk about other things

[Persephone02]

Ok great

[Nikki1989]

Good on her.

Why would that trigger anyone?

[brakelightdance]

Some people get jealous/envious when they see someone else getting special treatment

[queenofcardio]

Good for her , I'd probably ask her to hook me up too.

[brakelightdance]

Honestly as a guy I wished it worked for men too.

[brakelightdance]

Life is just as expensive for men.

[laraWM]

I don't remember, it almost never happened

[Anonymous]

I’ve never seen that.