33% of women go on dates for free meals. What do you think of foodie calls?

[marish01]

Girls, have you ever done it?

Guys, would you go on a date with a foodie call?

[blueonblack22]

This statistic sadly doesn’t surprise me. This bs has been done to me in past and it really pissed me off. It’s one thing if I asked for the date quite another when she asks and then expects everything to paid for. That’s horrible but many women see no problem with that crap.

This is why I never do a dinner on a first date. Maybe a quick coffee date. Maybe drinks if she drinks (which can add up). But never ever a full dinner. It lets me qualify her true interest level.

For all you feminists out there you can do equality a favor and call out women who do this crap. Sure you yourself (hopefully) might split the bill or pay for something else after dinner (coffee or drinks). But when you hear of other girls doing this then you need to speak up about it. But I doubt few of you do.

This really isn’t a money issue but a principle issue. And again it’s one thing if I ask a girl on a date and then pay for it. Completely different story if it’s her idea and I am stuck with the tab.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s an inaccurate stat

[blueonblack22]

@BarryLiverstone do you have an accurate stat from somewhere?

The interesting thing is a woman posted this not some random so called “incel”. Women rarely post about negative stereotypes about females on GAG.

I don’t know about you but I’ve have this crap happen before.

[BarryLiverstone]

Not sure a completely accurate stat would exist however I looked into the study the Asker used as a source and it’s not accurate that 33% use dates for the food.

[Strong_Warrior]

All feminists are misandrist. What are you talking about. The solution is masculism. Every people should be masculist and support mens rights. Otherwise men will be discriminated more and more.

[Strong_Warrior]

I would not give even 1 single penny to any feminist (misandrist) bitch. They should pay us. I hate feminism and feminists. Feminism fucked the society completely. There is a war between genders because of stupid feminism.

[Strong_Warrior]

Thank you for liking my comment. And plus I want to add that we need masculism in this world. More and more people should be masculist. Men and women, all of them should be masculist and support mens rights.

[marish01]

Feminism doesn't unite men and women. It makes then enemies

[Strong_Warrior]

Thank you.❤❤❤ I wanna see more and more women like this. We need more women who support mens rights.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Wait, people really do that? Haha, I thought that was a joke; I cannot believe some people actually go out with someone just for a free meal: wow. That's bad and kind of pathetic.

No, I've never been out with a guy just for food. Hell, I can barely get guys to take me out as is; I wouldn't do that to anyone! You're basically using them for food and/or their money.

[marish01]

It's petty and immature

[ChillaxingLove]

Yea the fear having that happen is why men push for the 50/50 rule.

[Cynicaldreamer]

@ChillaxingLove Which I'm fine with! Paying half, or one person pays, the other pays next, ensures you're not just dating them for a meal... or whatever.
Anytime someone takes me out- male or female, I offer to pay my own way! That's just common courtesy

[FeelingGroovy]

This is 100% true. Free food and booze.

[Daniela1982]

That is why dates should be a dutch treat - everyone pays for their own meal/entertainment. That way these leeches who take advantage of men would be eating a can of beans at home instead of ordering lobster.

[marish01]

So true. Such women disempower all women.

[dinojames22]

Agreed

[Pinay_ako]

I try to split always but the guys usually insist in paying. I don’t mind paying at all at least for coffee later? Free food is good but I still want to pay for something as a nice gesture. Can’t be a free loader

[RandomGuy1030]

Yea you can...

[Daniela1982]

Good for you. :)

[MysteriousDarkness]

@RandomGuy1030
Spoken like a true freeloader

[coachTanthony]

There can only be a foodie call if you have stupid men that keep doing a terrible job at vetting the person they are with.

[serious_miss419]

Yes 🙌

[Avicenna]

A waste of time. That's what I think of them.

[AviatorTom]

Do the other 67% pay for the meal... in some way?

[marish01]

At least they are interested in the men

[Daniela1982]

At least until the meal is over.

[Guy13]

That is silliness from my experience.

[FeelingGroovy]

It happens all the time.

[Juxtapose]

This is why I take my dates out for coffee from now on. Congratulations, you ripped me off of $4 or whatever for a fucking coffee. I hope the hours you spent setting the date up and then talking to me were worth cheating me out of $4 🤞🤣

Gold diggers don't have shit on me.

[TruthBringer]

Precisely! If you lose, you might as well lose a little bit. Not the price of a full-course meal and then get ghosted or friendzoned. What's funny is that a woman who GENUINELY is interested in getting to know you will be okay with a simple coffee date or a walk in the park. Only the ones with bad intentions will next you for not wanting to take them out on a dinner date or anything that requires $$$.

[FeelingGroovy]

Ask a question about who should pay for the first date, and the simps on this site and others will come out of the woodwork.

[Juxtapose]

@FeelingGroovy being a slave to sexual pleasure is one hell of a thing. I feel sorry for those guys.

[FeelingGroovy]

The last time I was on this site, I gave guys advice for what NOT to do in bars. They hated me. I said that simps are the reason women don't need to bring money to bars. The simps empty their wallets, and the girl leaves with the bad boy that didn't spend a dime. lol They hated to hear that.

[TruthBringer]

@FeelingGroovy Exactly. I blame simps first and foremost. It's because of them that the dating market has become as it is today. If men in their collective grabbed their balls and started putting their foot down, then women would act right. But no, it's thanks to these desperate idiots that we got things like Only Fans and women using good guys for their money. The only way to stop it is for men to have an ounce of self-respect and refuse to allow themselves to be used.

[Juxtapose]

@TruthBringer precisely right!

[FeelingGroovy]

@TruthBringer

I was on a porn site, and accidentally clicked the wrong button. It took me to a camming page. I knew about camming, but I had no idea it was free. The camming competition is so fierce, that the girls don't even charge. They make their money off of tips. So dorks will buy tokens, and then they get the honor to chat with the girls. They actually believe these girls like them. It's hilarious. I get that the guys are shy, but where do they think this will get them?

[Juxtapose]

@FeelingGroovy man, I'm autistic and even I know better than that. Are those guys really that socially clueless?

Rhetorical question.

[FeelingGroovy]

@Juxtapose

I feel sorry for these guys. There must be a million sites/apps they could go on and talk to girls who are lonely, but they spend their money on these pros. It's hard to explain. Maybe they think if they buy enough tokens, these girls will pop out of the screen and marry them.

They're wasting their money and mental energy on a pipedream that will never happen.

[TruthBringer]

@FeelingGroovy Only Fans is no different. The reason why so many simps pay for an Only Fans is because they think they are actually chatting with the girl. When in reality, the one who is chatting with them is some underpaid Filipino dude lol. It's really scary how sexually deprived men are. Social media really ruined the dating market for everyone. The majority of women are chasing the top 20% of men, leaving out the majority of men to be practically invisible. The most irrelevant village girl in some remote area can still be flown out to Dubai if she has a smartphone and an internet connection. She wouldn't even see the men in her own area standing. All thanks to social media.

[TruthBringer]

@Juxtapose It's the illusion they are paying for. They intellectually know they are being ripped from their money, but they want the illusion. It's like a drug which gives momentary pleasure. You got Japanese guys paying women to be their girlfriend for a day. Many are looking out to get into AI to fill the void of a real woman's love. Prepare yourself, shit is going to get far worse than it is today

[Juxtapose]

@TruthBringer to be fair, a sentient artificial intelligence that you could program to be anything you want would literally be the ideal lover. You could put it in any type of body you want that in the future, will look just like a woman.

[Juxtapose]

I've been told the type of women I want are extremely rare. I like women that are crazy loyal towards me and also crazy horny towards me.

[TruthBringer]

@Juxtapose That's exactly why it is going to BOOM. It's exactly because of its programmability. Sadly, nothing can replace the warm touch of a woman who genuinely loves you. Sadly, that's something most people won't experience.

[Juxtapose]

So getting an artificial intelligence would be my best shot at getting my ideal love but that will never happen within my lifetime.

[Juxtapose]

@TruthBringer well if the machine is warm like a woman and genuinely has a consciousness, what would be the difference?

[TruthBringer]

@Juxtapose It can emulate some things of a woman, but not everything. AI being conscious is still a scientific debate though. But if it is 'good enough', then it is good enough. I simply find it sad that we've come to this point where a robot has to fill a void which normally should have been filled by a loving partner. Although I'm personally in a loving relationship, I still envy my grandparents for living in a time where they know what true love it.

[FeelingGroovy]

@TruthBringer

Not to make fun of the underpaid Filipino dude, but that is funny. You are 100% correct. The Internet destroyed dating. One of my heroes is Andre Segovia. He was known as the God Father of classical guitar. He played into his 90's. He was asked why after so many decades, he still has to practice. Andre said: "Without work, there is nothing." That's what happened to dating. Copying and pasting the same message over and over is not work. Women are too stupid to see that, and the hot guys love that women are too stupid to see it.

[Juxtapose]

In a truly advanced society, A. I can be whatever you want it to be. There's no reason why only carbon-based life forms can achieve consciousness.

Well when you're autistic like me and you know that the chances of you finding someone who is compatible with you to the deepest extent is next to nothing, A. I becomes a clear option if it is available.

[Juxtapose]

If I find someone I will probably have to settle, I probably won't find someone who will fight by my side and die with me rather than run away if we were attacked by monsters.

[Juxtapose]

Finding someone who truly loves you and will stick with you like you are a piece of their soul is very rare.

[marish01]

I pity men who pay onlyfan whores

[D_Bone_Steak]

Those same women call men cheap... but they whore themselves out for food.

Sure... they play it off and just giving the middle finger to men, but come on... we know they sucked some dick. They never want to talk about that part on their TikTok.

[marish01]

Lol. Those foodie calls are sluts.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@marish01 Where can I find one?

[EmmaMary]

Personally I could never, ever lower myself to this pathetic lowlife level... It would quite simply be 50/50 or "it's my turn next time"... Period.

I know, realise and appreciate that I have now been out of the dating scene for some ten years... I still find it somewhat hard to believe that this is still actually happening in real time!

[marish01]

I haven't gone to a date but spliting the bill or taking turns is what I will do when dating.

[cjmtherfcker]

Have you heard the crap these female rappers talk about nowadays? To them a guy is just someone to scam out of money to satisfy all their selfish material desires.

[EmmaMary]

@marish01

You will certainly not go far wrong with this attitude... Good luck for when you go on your first date. 🤞

[marish01]

Thank you. It is my independant self that doesn't allow me to take more than to give. I don't want to owe anyone anything.

[Mybeachlife8888]

This was something I noticed happening a lot. I make good money and was online dating when it became obvious that there were girls that were doing this for fun. Some would even admit it to me, and It wasn’t hard to see the truth in it all.

think about it……

guys like friends with benefits where sex is involved.

girls enjoy dates where they get a night out being wined and dined without commitment.

Trust me when I say I’m the guy who doesn’t mind paying on the first date, but I made it a point to the girls that I would not be paying for the first date just for this reason and they could either respect that or not. It was honestly the best move I ever made because it weeded out the girls who were gold diggers and showed me the girls who were understanding and flexible. The quality of the girls drastically improved and I didn’t mind paying on the first date anyway.

[marish01]

Gold diggers don't deserve $1. It's better tear your own money than waste it on such garbage.

[FeelingGroovy]

Only a complete idiot would pay for dinner and drinks on a first date. But there's no shortage of idiots, so my hat's off to the women who are taking advantage of idiots. A first date should be 15 minutes max. Take it or leave it.

[dynamicyandere]

Dang. 33% is high.



If they’re using me to just a free meal, that’s not cool.



If they genuinely are my friends and we actually enjoy each other’s company, and it’s not about what they can get out of me, I’d be happy to treat them to meals and more.


I’ll spoil my genuine friends ten times over before I spoil a gold digger.


I had an ex that once nagged me to buy her things all the time.


I barely spent anything on her.


Then I dated a girl (long term girlfriend) who never asked for anything, and I spent thousands on her.


I’m generous, to the genuine.

[misogynistic_pig]

I advocate the independence and isolation of men from women and society in general.

Women only look to men for their resources and that 33% of women date only for the free food, which would be an example of this.

As for the so-called foodies, it refers to a person who enjoys exploring and experimenting with food, and it does not necessarily imply that they are looking for dates just to eat for free.

However, women who call themselves foodies are also looking to use men for free meals.

It is important to note that these are generalizations and do not apply to all women or foodies.

Each individual is unique and has their own motivations and reasons for dating. In general, it is important to be aware of our own expectations and motivations when dating and to be clear with our partners about what we expect from the relationship.

[TruthBringer]

And women wonder why so many men step out of the dating game. So many women use good men for free food and the same evening are lying in bed with some asshole who treats them like garbage.

Gentlemen, this is why you don't take a woman on a dinner date. Keep it at a coffee or an ice cream walk in the park. Don't give them an opportunity to use you.

[whirled_up_girl]

Sure I've had men ask me out on dates and offer to buy me dinner. I wouldn't go on the date though just for the food. Once I'm in relationship though I believe in paying my own way, so I prefer to pay for my own meals, and provide my own transportation. Or at the very least take turns paying.

[Alessa13]

No way would I ever do that, going on a date with a stranger, risking my safety for a free meal. Totally not worth it, but I'm there is someone that does everything so no doubt some do it.

Now I will try to pay my part but many men say they would be offended if I didn't pay.

[TrueConfection]

Never have, never plan to. I can't imagine even enjoying a meal while pretending to be interested in someone I'm not. I'd rather make a PB sandwhich.

[marish01]

Well said.

[loveslongnails]

The sole study floating around on this from "The Society for Personality and Social Psychology" involves 2 rounds of questioning. 820 women were asked in round 1 and 23% said yes. In round two, 327 women were asked and 33% said yes. However, I can't find information on where this study was done, what age group, what level of education, what level of income, etc.

In other words, not much of a sampling but I'd really like to know the age range and economic factors. I think that plays a huge role in the numbers. 25% isn't all that surprising, but 33% would be.

[miadee]

1) Men usually use women to spend nice time without promising anything

2) Men usually treat women just an "option"

3) Men usually see dating as an statistical game

There is no problem when women use men back to spend good time, vacation or food.

[Pegases]

If you think it's OK to treat men you don't even really know like a bag of money, then you can't complain about men that treat you like an object. Go heal. If all women aren't the same, then all men aren't the same either. Pick better men.

[Djaay]

Ah huh, women started this shit. Now it's a vacklash so don't flip the script to sound all innocent and right.

[miadee]

@Pegases I did not say all men same. I said "usually"

[Pegases]

Like I said, pick better men.

[ElGato31]

I don't do online dating anymore but when I did, coffee in a park. That's it for first dates. A dinner date when I don't even know someone, scares me, it's too full-on in the beginning.

Guys shouldn't do it. If a woman is interested in you, she will be happy to meet. Not happy to eat.

[marish01]

True. If she likes him she won't mind coffee dates lol

[NostalgiaSenpi]

That was three of the four dates I went on. They all already had boyfriends. Made me upset, but whatever. It is what it is. I think it's disgusting behavior.

[marish01]

I pity their boyfriends

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't.

[marish01]

Lol.

[lightbulb27]

It's kinda like using people, which is bad... so depends on the communication and expectations.

But it's ok to an extent. Guys need experience and it's a way to get that for cheap and without committing to that woman. So it goes both ways.

When there is a strong drive in place, that's problematic.