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I've always been for paying half. I see people using the argument of he is a man, he must provide, he must show me that he can provide. Paying for your meal is the equivalent of buying two meals for himself, one for today and one for the day after.
something is wrong with those women
and to answer your qs - no
Yes very wrong. They are embarassment of my gender
This is her Litmus test if you're a Beta or Alpha.
If you agree to go on a date with a bytch she's gonna see you as a simp beta provider. If you just straight up tell that bytch you wanna phuck, she may not always be down, but she'll understand that you're not a push-over and most of the time she'll wanna phuck too. I speak from lots of experience.
Foodie calls are usually sluts. So yes if you say you want sex and nothing else then they might even ask you for dinner and pay for your meal too.
I wouldn't call the dates I paid for (fully & partially) "free meals" and I'd be insulted if anyone likened me to any woman who go on dates for free meals.
I thought for sure the number would be higher. I wonder how many answered "no, I'm genuinely interested in the man" simply because they don't want to seem that petty.
That behavior humiliates the woman not the man. It shows how low quality she is.
Unfortunately I became a victim of this thing in January. Now I just date women who pay for their share during first date. It's 21st century, so I thought I should finally treat women equal on first date. No offense, just had a bitter experience because money is hard to earn you know.
Because of these women doing 'foodie call' date men's response is the 'one drink' date, primarily the first date as they feel that a first date should not be a dinner date. The Video below shows how guys are thinking;
https://www.youtube.com/embed/5pvF4VS5UNsI generally don't pay for women who can pay for themselves or unless they are already having sex with me.
It's a decent policy, but one that less attractive guys probably can't get away with unless they want to remove themselves from the possibility of sex or a second date.
@Marked_Man lucky for me I'm pretty hot then
Right. If she works, then why to pay for her.
Never done it. When my boyfriend and I first started dating his mum would get us vouchers for dinner then we would split the rest. Now we either go halves or take turns
The moment i find out she is on a date with me for a free meal, i stick her with the bill ( i bail on her) let her have a taste of her own medicine.
These are often the same women complaining that chivalry is dead, and wonder why so many men go straight for sex. It's crazy how many women do this and don't see the connection to where we are today.
A foodie call don't deserve anything but loveless sex from men
There's no guarantee that it will be a free meal and even if it is a free meal, is it really a free meal? I mean I'm not say they pay with sex but women still have to fork out money for a date like what to wear, makeup do their hair and stuff and perfume which runs out and will cost more.
Then you have to think of the cost of travel if he's not picking you up at your place.
Or if he says "we should go Dutch" or "I forgot my wallet."
100% of women go on dates for free food. Hello. If someone invites me out and I have to pay, I'm not going.
Lol see how many would still want to go on a date.
Depends where she wants to go... I never take a new chick to an expensive place but if a broke girl wants to get a burger or something I'm down. If we jam maybe something happens if not I certainly am not hurt.
I can’t sit through a dinner with someone I didn’t like just for free food. I’d have to be literally going hungry to do that. These women are either extremely cheap or destitute.
This is why the first date shouldn't cost money. They shouldn't get any other reward than your company. And if that isn't enough, she doesn't want you, she just wants the treatment.
They can walk and talk instead of spending money at restaurants.
Exactly.
Nope never I can buy my own meal lmao, however if a guy offers to pay it's a green flag
But what if he said you should split the bill? A green flag?
I'd pay for him and would never see him again. Usually I pay for the guys who I'm not attracted to if it's a blind date. If he has so little interest in me that he's not even willing to pay 8 euro for my meal he can go fuck himself.
He could say the same about you. If you want him to pay for your meal then you have little interest in him
I don't think so. There's something as feminine and masculine energy and the man is supposed to be the giver and woman receiver. That's how the polarity works. It obviously was terrible for women in the past but modern society is messing things up too. Wars were fought for women. And modern "men" don't even know how to treat ladies. I call that pathetic.
Isn't it feminine to have kids?
I wouldn't say being a receiver is feminine. Femininity is a trait of a caring, loving and nurturing woman.
Do modern women act like ladies?
Guys wanna get laid: which is far more evil that a free meal. It’s funny when guys get offended. Like shit. They want sex and we’re supposed to want to too? 😝
Can I have a cookie sir for some nookie, please?
They treat us so poor and expect us to cave.
You just say sex is evil?
Maybe they just treat you poorly because of your attitude.
Guys will do anything for sex and including being rude to women.
That doesn't make sex evil, though, lol. I don't know who you've been having sex with, but most of the time, it's a mutually beneficial experience. Also, yes, some girls have a degradation kink, which is also not "evil"
Again, they probably treat you the way they do because of your attitude. If you go into dating assuming all me are the same, and deserve to be treated like shit, then you'll be treated like shit. funny how that works isn't it.
I’m kind and open minded but it is the same thing on the guys part. So I got sick of it.
Change your attitude, and you'll have better results.
Sex with guys is disgusting 🤮 and I can buy my own food. I’ll pass all together thanks 🙏
Good yes please stick to women.
@Pegases may she ruin women's lives lol
I stay away from both but thanks everyone for your loving support 🙏
@marish01😂😂😂
I haven’t and wouldn’t because the free meal isn’t worth the shitshow lf first dates. I think it’s fine though considering probably 80% of men go on first dates for sex 🤷🏼♀️
If im single and a guy asks me to dinner why not. I'm giving him a shot to whoo me. It's like when you take a car for a test drive just to see what it is like but decide not to buy it.