Why girls/women are amazing

[Starfishlover]

Yes, I am posting an antithesis of my previous posts. But this take is long overdue as I have done a take for why guys are adorable and why I appreciate them.

Now it is the girls turn.

1) Women are badass

They are born survivors. Women make the most out of any situation and just keep going.

2) Women are badass

We bleed for a week and keep going on about our business

3) One more time...Women are badass!

We put pointy things in our eyes every day to look presentable (mascara, eyeliner), wear stilts DRUNK, put up with men, (sorry men, please don't kill me... I SAID NICE THINGS ABOUT YOU TOO!! YOU CAN'T HAVE EVERYTHING!!) bear freezing temperatures in the name of fashion, and abuse our hair with hot tools every day. And we look amazing.

4) We are capable of creating a life and suffer the most unimaginable pain in the process.

Need I say more? But isn't he cute??? Totally worth it.

5) We learn better

A study done at the University of Georgia and Columbia University found that women are better learners—basically, we have a better approach to expanding our minds. And, according to researchers, women tend to be more attentive, flexible, and organized. So at work, you're more likely to understand the task at hand better than your male coworker. Booyah.

6) We are loving an nurturing

Women are better at communicating and connecting with people. They use language to feel close to people not confront them. They are warm and loving.

7) We don't take up as much space and resources

Women are generally smaller than men, requiring less food and smaller clothes, and therefore using up fewer of the world’s limited natural resources.

BUUUUUUUUUUT I wouldn't say that about the closet and the bathroom space

8) Multitasking

Face it, I am happy that I am a woman. I get more stuff done throughout my day!

So there you have it. Appreciate the women around you.

[ThisDudeHere]

All right, it's that time of the day to be "fun at parties" again.

"They are born survivors." So are men. We are the ones who "go out hunting" and endure the the elements.

"We bleed for a week and keep going on about our business." Ok, good for you. This I won't argue with.

"We put pointy things in our eyes every day to look presentable [insert other things you do]" - no. Overcoming obstacles is badass. Inflicting unnecessary obstacles on oneself is not badass. It's something else but I won't mention what. But it is not something deserving of respect.
Imagine a soldier who went into the battlefield and got shot and survived. That is heroic. What you're doing is basically shooting yourself and calling that badass... it totally isn't.

"We are capable of creating a life" yes you indeed are, not going to argue with that either. But it takes two to tango...

"We learn better" misinformed fact. Neither gender learns better but each gender has their way of learning things. The reason women excel in education is because the education is geared towards them. Girls are more favored in schools over boys. That's a fact.

"Women are better at communicating and connecting with people." When two former female friends have a fallout they will almost never be friends again. And girls in groups diss outsiders almost always. And yet when to male best friends have a fight they will more often than not come back together and become even better friends. And males, yes, may diss outsiders but once the outsider earns their respect, they're not an outsider.
Girls are pretty friendly with their friends but there is nothing in the world that could beat the bond between two real bros.
"We don't take up as much space and resources"
"requiring less food and smaller clothes"
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Excuse me? Was that a joke or what? Women? Less clothes? xD

u funny

"Multitasking" don't know the validity of this so not gonna argue it.

"Appreciate the women around you." Ok yeah, sure.

[Starfishlover]

Kindly please check out why guys are amazing too as I have pointed everything you said.

[ThisDudeHere]

I didn't see where. I was just answering what was written here.

[drkrose99]

I'm a woman but I actually found your answer hilarious... There were some true facts, like how we bleed or how we give life to another person. But some other points were just stupid, like putting pointy things in our eyes or "requiring less food and less clothing."

[drkrose99]

I too laughed with Nicolas Cage.

[GirlsLie]

lol, have to agree with most of what you said honestly.

[MyAnacondaDoes]

You absolute Legend @ThisDudeHere.

Now I don't need to write my opinion because THIS is it :)

[ThisDudeHere]

@MyAnacondaDoes thanks, dude :)

[Azara]

Make up is not inherently female nor is masochism. Both are cultural, and really nothing to boast about.

. All human beings can be nurturing and learning us accomplished when one works at it so it doesn't really matter what you're natural tendency us. More important that you're not lazy.

Multitasking is accomplished by anyone who works at being good at it. The more expected of you in a shirt time the more you're going to be able to do it.

I'm not sure what you mean about using language to feel close not for confrontation. How do you confront someone without language-- your fists? And there's a lot of other uses for kanfusge that women utilize.

Yes historically women have been resilient we've had to be as has aNy oppressed group. No choice but to fight.

We do make babies which is not just awesome it's completely essential. but not all women make babies.

And lots of men are small.

[DeltsBrah]

Lots of men are small? Yeah the ones whose balls never dropped and haven't produced testosterone.

[babu_001]

3) One more time... Women are badass!"1) Women are badass - They are born survivors. Women make the most out of any situation and just keep going."

Sure, agreed. They deal with all these jerks & get raped/molested sometimes but they have to live with that.

"2) Women are badass - We bleed for a week and keep going on about our business"

Disagree. I wonder why girls miss their classes & go on leave if working in offices when they have their periods?

"3) One more time... Women are badass! - We put pointy things in our eyes every day to look presentable..."

WTF? That's called the basic girlyness of bitchyness. Not badass.

"4) We are capable of creating a life and suffer the most unimaginable pain in the process" - Agree

"5) We learn better" - I agree but they never make use of what they learn. At the end of the day, they want a dick.

"6) We are loving an nurturing" - Incorrect. Girls who are pretty, treat other people like sh! t.

"7) We don't take up as much space and resources" - YEAH! SURE! That's why you take a small version of your home in your suitcase/bags/luggage wherever you go. Girls need at least 10/15 pairs of dresses if they were to go to some place for 1 day/night stay.

Multitasking - Agree but again, you do many things at a time but never excel in one.

[promiscuous-petal]

Shut up and just be nice.

[babu_001]

you shut up.

[JuicyBrain]

I don't think this was all meant to be scientifically accurate. It's just an ode to women...

[PrincessTashaaaa]

Dude, just because you're vice captain of the Friendzone doesn't mean all pretty women are bitches and we all just want dick. Smh.

[Jakesusername]

I agree with you.

[Nicole9356]

You sound mad ;-(

[Phoenix98]

Sorry I can't really agree with all of this, some of these only really apply to certain types of women or just certain individuals really, these aren't really gender wide traits or characteristics.

Don't get me wrong some women truly are amazing, I've known some that are but I have also known a lot of women that carry little if any of these traits and practically all women I've known are not survivors in any sense of the word.

Childbirth pain does not =equal being a survivor, come back to me after you've been a pow or lived off the land.

And you may wear smaller clothes but you buy way more of them, then men which actually in the end, adds up to being way more then us.

A good mytake a bit biased but decent none the less.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

Oops meant to up vote this

[Phoenix98]

@T-shirtsandkneehighs Lol no worries.

[bryon]

<<<<< Applauds your take on women , well placed praise as well. It is true that most women are more organized than the male counter part , they do in fact handle multi tasking more effectively than we guys do. And when it comes to the monthly monster , well I'm proud to be just one of the guys. And the Child birthing , Ohhhhh hell no , I venture to say there isn't one man that could go through it little long choose to do it multiple times.. So all in all women do deserve a hell of a lot more respect from us guys than they get... Thumbs you from me on all you Ladies do..

[KempisMC]

I am so happy to be a man , not because we are better, more the opposite , because for me , it means looking for a life partner from the amazing world of woman,
I would hate to be a woman, not because they are great , but stuck with a man , I can't
I try to be the best I can , still being in love with a woman who loves me, is just AMAZING,
I could write books on how woman are so great , some of which was presented in the article.
There is a lot more to be said

[promiscuous-petal]

Hey @babu_001, take some advice from this guy. Just be nice :)

[babu_001]

I agree that girls are amazing, because they have tits, ass & a pussy. Not for the above 8 points MYTAKE owner mentioned.

[KempisMC]

@babu_001 its comment like yours that shame the males that have balls enough to show intelligence and respect in how they use their brain, the one above the shoulders.

[JustANormalTeenGuy]

Gotta agree with @KempisMC on this one. Although my girlfriend does have all three of the things that babu mentioned, that isn't why I'm dating her. It's because she actually gives a shit about me and treats me like a human being. She has her own opinions and ideas and because of that I am into her. Not because of her physical appearance even though that is definitely a bonus.

[ArabianPwincess197]

I only agree with one point on your take. The giving birth one. Otherwise the rest can be debated upon. As a woman I can say that there are women who fit in the points you mentioned and women who defy the points you mentioned!

- women can be mean and not nurturing
-they can see giving birth to as a hassle, give birth but give the baby up to be look after by a nanny (how is that nurturing and caring?)
-there are women who do eat a lot more than men
-not all women can multitask
-no one asks us to wear makeup -most women do because they want to wear it!

[JuicyBrain]

Women sure are awesome ! Well, most of them...

I think that #5 has a lot to do with the way guys are taught. I think that the way we teach things do work better for women. If we were to find better ways to teach to males and actually encouraged them to not drop out, guys could do very well.

[mangaka92]

It was around the 1980's when school curriculum was becoming more catered to girls and the emphasis was placed on their success.

[JuicyBrain]

Yes. It's very possible, but I am from Quebec, so I can't talk for the US. I figured it must've been pretty much the same in the US.

I am not mad that it happened. It's great that we made room for girls, but we should be careful with the boys or it won't take long before it becomes a serious problem. We can already see the damage by the number of boys dropping out of school because they were never properly intellectually stimulated

[JuicyBrain]

@mangaka92

[mangaka92]

@JuicyBrain: Totally agree.

[SakuraChii]

Incoming bitter male opinions...
I hate generalizations, yes no one is perfect but there are still women out there who are like this yet are not your sterotypical "mean girl". The same could be said if this was a male mytake, not all men are pigs. No one is saying that one gender is better than the other, its not a contest. So people need to get out more and discontinue this bitterness of generalization.

[VincentValentine]

Yesss!

[takumii]

1. duh
2. duh duh
3. duh duh duh
4. Ya , try doing that without sperm.
5. You learn better because you got so much to learn, we know more than you, so obviously you'll learn more things but still have lesser knowledge than boys.
6. forgot something here, loving and nurturing bitches.
7. Yaa, probably why wifes complain all the time they need a bigger house and more makeup. My s/o has so many shoes that if i try to sell them on the street I'll get my annual income back.
8. Ya you don't need to be a human to multitask, you need to be a woman?

"Appreciate the women around you. " - You want appreciation? Cook me some good food.

[YourFutureEx]

Actually, some of your points are 'scientifically' wrong but I don't want to ruin this take so, all I'll say regarding this :-

Why girls/women are amazing?
-- Because my mom is a woman <3
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[Aeon_Flux_21]

Oh Starfish, my sweet lady that never smiles.

"Women are better at communicating and connecting with people"
Yes and no, Women lack depth of communication. Men speak less but say more in depth important things.

"Multitasking"
Because of this women lack quality when producing a product. Men focus on one thing at a time allows for perfection.

"We are loving an nurturing"
To your child yes, To men no. When was the last time women spoke up about male issues? Barely or never.

"We learn better"
No, you learn differently. School systems are feminized and boys learn better in more masculine schooling.

"We are capable of creating a life and suffer the most unimaginable pain in the process."
You are designed to do that. It's like saying men are awesome because we can ejaculate.

"Breasts cancer old women are badass"
Nah, they become less sexually attractive. Like it or not looks matter which is why you dress sexy in your avatar.

[LuckyLittleLucy]

Hahaha, seriously? This is just an appreciation of women! Dude, this is correlations and results form studies that prove these things about women.
Men are great communication, I'm sure. Women have been proven to be better- deal with it. Also, women speak with a lot of depth- perhaps you just don't sense it? For example, take Jane Austen and the Bronte sisters, all women. They challenged and changed views of entire societies through fiction and fought for people's rights- all through less than 300 pages of fiction. So I would say there's depth there.
Anyone can multitask, it's just been proven women are better. Women can also focus on one thing at a time to produce high quality results. Also, there's no such thing as perfection.
Women are loving and nurturing- men are too, but this take is about appreciating women- you've probably just had some bad experiences.
We do learn better, once again, it's literally just a fact from studies- including schools that are all male.

[LuckyLittleLucy]

And you're right, we were designed to reproduce, but that doesn't mean it's easy. Please don't belittle unstoppable processes. I'd quite happily put you through the 9 years+ of constant bleeding, cramps, bloating, headaches, clumsiness, leaks and low self-esteem almost every woman deals with. Because on average women have 480 periods- assuming they're all a week long, every female spends over 9 years suffering from those symptoms. also, carrying and giving birth to a child is extremely painful- we may be designed to do it, but that doesn't mean it's easy.
Also, any cancer survivor is pretty bad ass if you ask me. Just because you don't find them attractive, doesn't mean the person they are in love with won't. Looks do matter. To you.

[fiodor99]

for the depth thing. yes most great scientist, thinkers and philosophers were male. but guess what they were forever alone!

[pavlove]

yeah, i don't see this going over well with the community.

i like it though... even though i was born only 23 years ago i don't think women so uniformly felt empowered by their gender. This is a great time to be living in... I feel happy that more women finally feel proud of themselves.

[RexCatholicissimus]

I still have no clue how you achieved Editor status.

[Starfishlover]

Well sometimes I am half arsed with my takes and don't actually write paragraphs upon paragraphs on a subject. I find simplicity is best to try and attempt to capture majority of GAG users. Kindly read my other takes and see. I didn't want to go overly philosophical as I understand that there are a lot of basic people here. Including yourself. I mean, who wants to read an academic journal?

[Scrambledagain]

I think women are amazing. Really I do. To put up with all of life's shit like men, children, social stigmas and double standards and still be caring and nurturing!!! some men are cool too.

[Pat8707]

I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but it seems as though you have come down with a case of... VAGINA ENVY!

[Scrambledagain]

@Pat8707 ... your comment is so... tiresome. You realise you just reinforced my outlook.

[amiha143]

virtually giving you a high five.

[James19]

Lifes shit like men? Hello

[VictoriousSausage]

I respect this, i think it's good to take pride in your gender, there are lots of things in the past and some still in the present that make me ashamed to be a man, but i always think men can be great when we uphold honour and dignity and try to keep control of a situation, studies have shown, and this is just a study, that in a situation, men are more likely to be able to domineer and control it than women, Both Genders are absolutely fantastic, and its great that you're taking pride in yours

[Anonymous]

Caring and nurturing... im sorry, i just can't agree to this.

I won't tell you why and make this "all about me time" but... it just makes me so sad how no woman will treat me like a human with feelings past a certain point. It is just impossible. When it happens... i feel like less than a person, like no one will ever care of i love or die, and after i do I'll still be a joke.

I'm sorry. .. i just can't call women caring if no girl will ever care about my feelings.

[angelling]

Aw, sorry for your experience but rest assured not all women are like this.

[promiscuous-petal]

Just cause a girl doesn't want to fuck you even though you're "nice" doesn't mean a girl doesn't care about your feelings. Boohoo

[Opinion Owner]

@promiscuous-petal you don't even understand what i was talking about.

[PrincessTashaaaa]

Try being a woman! No man really cares about you, you're just the third wheel in a relationship between your boyfriend and your titts/ass! Yay!

[Opinion Owner]

@princesstashaaaa well that one's true too. and i hate it. I hate feeling pain and emptiness, and if you really are hurting, i feel all of my empathy for you. I mean that sincerely. You caught me venting but this isn't my only side.

I already told you how my heart breaks when i feel devalued and less than human. My heart breaks the exact same way when i think of it happening to other people. It feels like dying thinking about their pain, and that does include yours too. I just want you to know that.

[JustANormalTeenGuy]

@PrincessTashaaaa just as @angelling said that not all women are like that, not all men are like that either. I know a guy who would literally die for anybody that he loves. He would have died for his girlfriend until she broke his heart. There are good guys out there, stop generalizing men and maybe some men will stop generalizing women. If you want a certain type of guy, figure out what that certain type of guy likes and try to do things to attract them. If you're only attracting assholes into your life, then change yourself and see what happens. It's only psychology. You're never going to get what you want if what you want doesn't want you. So instead of generalizing the general populous of men, try something new.

[R3d_Anonymous]

@promiscuous-petal just shut the fuck up.

[Nicole9356]

Aww sorry to hear that :-( but not all women are like this.

[Opinion Owner]

So here's a summary of this thread.
Sad guy feels devalued and emotionally ignored, nice girl comments, 2 other girls say "boohoo" unironically, guy tries to bring in positivity, two more guys try to start a hate party, one more girl shows empathy.

Can we all just take a step back now, collectively take personal responsibility and admit that about 80 percent of us acted retarded today, and admit that deep down we love each other?

Ok thank you.

[Anonymous]

the learning thing is true because of the things taught. here's a video on it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFpYj0E-yb4

[DisastrousQu33n]

"Zero out zero tolerance" LOL my school is so proud to be zero tolerance, they have it on posters every foot of the hallway. And the problems listed aren't only boys, although mostly. And as a tomboy Up until I was 11, I was more like a little boy than a little girl, appearance aside, and it did cause problems to the point where my mom homeschooled me until high school whereas she probably wouldn't have if I was a boy.

[MyAnacondaDoes]

This is exactly it.

The school system seems to favour girls in every single way. I was going to post this exact video.

[ThatBritishLad]

Can't hear you over my testosterone.
Also Resident Evil Afterlife? Really? That's like me drawing from Flubber to explain why men are amazing.

[Byakuyarko]

Women are meh... They spent the last 1000 years totally aloof from anything of consequence,(not by their own choice but that hardly matters) And with the advent of feminism, women seem to have scaled down their own expectations about their ability and achievement. Women don't want to be economists, scientists, or pioneers anymore. Nowadays, women are content with misbehaving, bossing everyone around and avoiding their responsibilities as adults and venting their man hate over the internet.

[youknowitt]

You can say the same about yourself but you're definitely hating on women.

Lasiness and lack of inspiration does NOT depend on the gender. It really depends on the PERSON.

[Byakuyarko]

No. I do am not hating on anyone. Women are just as capable as men and have the same opportunities as men. At least in the Western hemisphere. But women seem content with their secondary position in human endeavour. That is not something to be angry, hateful or contemptuous about. Women are in general very passive about just about everything. Never wanting to lead but desiring all the perks of being a leader. Women, as a result of social conditioning or whatever, just aren't able to step up in the face of criticism and ridicule. They're quick to cry discrimination or cruelty when their fragile authorities are challenged. In a desperate bid for respect, some women emulate the worst behaviours in men like bigotry and brutality.

[KDA20]

Good take - I will do my best to appreciate women more since in all honesty I didn't think of half of the stuff you mentioned - In a weird way I don't try to think of men and women - When I click with /am attracted to/fall in love with a ( I say to myself it is a person ), it is just a quirk of nature she is always a woman so in essence treat/respect/appreciate everyone the way you expect to be treated/respected/appreciated yourself.

[GreatnessPersonified]

While I think they are awesome, it's not for the reason you listed.

1, 2 and 3 are redundan..--- oooh, I see what you did there. lol. :D

#4, ever been tortured like POWs in ME countries for years, I think that pain beats out child birth a little, and you know what the POW gets for it? NOTHING!!! LOL.

5 If you learn so well, then why do y'all still date the same asshole. At least, date a different asshole. lol.

6. I agree.

7. -_- really. :P