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Why Guys Have The Idea Of "Badboys" All Wrong (Page 2)
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Sometimes I feel like I am the only woman in the world who, in no way shape or form, even wanted a "bad boy"?
I have never seen the appeal. Ever.
I'd rather be with a nice, submissive, sensitive, loyal, dependable, "boring" guy (basically the exact opposite of a bad guy, I'd rather have that extreme if I had to choose extremes) than with someone who has close to a 100% chance of breaking my heart.
The girls who love bad boys aren't worth my time tbh. Any girl who is addicted to that toxic shit deserves what she gets and I'm not dealing with any of that baggage. I'll still to the mature girls that can appreciate real shit. Got no time be playing games.
This is such a childish attitude about guys. I'm 18 and even I've grown past this phase. Guys are more than just a simple label--"bad boy," "nice guy," etc--just the same as girls. You people need to grow up and realize that guys have the same emotions and are every bit as complex as guys.
A woman giving men advice on how to be a man is like a serial killer telling normal people how to be empathetic.
Shut up."Good boys, don't be offended. I'm in no way saying that you aren't a good quality man. But you have great qualities that women wish the bad boys had instead. What you need to do is not become a bad boy, but become a real man."
A real man huh more like your ideal problem solver I'd rather throw a women like of a brige.
These are the same type of girls that gets sexually abused or abused period by their "SO" who they like whom is a so called "Asshole" or "bad boy" incoming downvotes for speaking the truth!
There are guys who are neither a bad boy or a good boy.
Like me.
I am at a stage where, I don't even really give two sh1ts whether you like me or not.
I have more important things to worry about, like, how to make enough money to keep myself alive and pay off my fcuking house.
I am like, if I am not your typical "bad boy" or tall and handsome or have that dominance or whatever the fcuk that turns you on, I don't even care.
Then you have the right idea and thats respectabke but don't put word in my mouth fr fr. I never said that bad boys turned me on and I didn't promote the perceived behavior of "baad boys". I'm trying to explain to these guys who always end up in the friend zone exactly why.
you see, i have been through enough stuff that i already know at this stage of the conversation, if i choose to go down the dominance and cocky path and carry on this conversation and argue with you in a witty and funny manner, you would probably consider this the dominance that you are looking for and find attractive.
But I won't even do that. Because:
1. I genuinely don't even care how you feel. It won't affect me in any meaningful way.
2. It just takes too much effort to care about someone else. And I am too lazy for that.
Read it how you will
see, that response right there, is what makes me act the way i do.
that sense of... callousness? from a woman? who could be the MOTHER of some children someday?
a CALLOUS mother? FCUK THAT!
because at the end of the day, when i act the way i do, most girls these days will just be like:
"yeah ok, you act that way, i don't care either."
i mean, fcuk me, i don't want a female in my life who "don't care", i don't want a woman who will say stuff like "read it how you will", you know what i mean?
But you said you didn't care. Why should I?
because women's natural role is to be kind and nurturing. that's why 99.999% of nurses are women.
women don't get to "not care", that's not a trait that you should have.
in the same way that men don't get to cry in public or show vulnerability or be submissive.
"Whereas a good boy will stop and wait for the red light to turn green, a bad boy is just going to go."
So don't respect her boundaries... or her.
"What you need to do is not become a bad boy, but become a real man."
How is it better to be a "real man" than a "bad boy"?
Western women are just toxic and should be avoided like the plague. I have zero respect for them and enjoy whenever their ass hole boyfriend beats them up.
Just curious: what exactly is so 'wrong' in your opinion about women in the west? I'm only familiar with teen girls and they seem fine to me ;p
@Dipsy What is so wrong about western women? Well what is right with them?
Well the women I've met in real life aren't toxic xD
Maybe in the uk its different though
@Dipsy you're 17.
hahahahahahaha that's so funny
Some women just like crappy mates, why is that so shocking?
if a women dates a man of poor quality she is not worth a "real man"
Oh, come on. Good guys and bad guys don't exist. There are just guys who get laid, and guys who don't.
"... but we love to follow the leader. "- exactly which is why you can't lead in the workforce.
What women get wrong about the 'bad boy' observation.
They assume men notice this after being rejected for a bad boy and build an entire argument around that false premise.
If they are 'real' men, Why do you wish they had better qualties? lol
I get what you are trying to say, But you confused about the whole real man thing. If you ever met a real quality guy, You would not want to change anything about him:P
The comments of this mytake stinks of bitterness. Well here my advise; stop putting woman on a pedestal. Treat them like you would your guy friends. its quite simple really.
they don't have a fucking pedestal and this is where i come up with this power struggle shit
Exactly why feminism fail, We are way more dominating creatures than any women. at least me lol and you forgot to count down flaws of "bad boys" lol
Have u noticed too that's lots of tough women love dominate guys? U would think it'd be the opposite, but I see this all the time.
@KawaiiPie67 Lol they can try :-p I believe in total domination on both fields. I do like tough women more because theyd actually give me little fight while they going down on bed ha
No that's what I meant. I wrote that incorrectly. I meant that lots of dominant women seem to really like being dominated by guys for whatever the reason. So u have seen that?
@KawaiiPie67 I mean I don't really ask em if they dominant or submissive lol but yea I guess
I had to look up comeuppance. Thanks. Learned a new word. So if I am a bad boy and a good guy all in one. Is this bad or good? Because that's what I am...
Pack mentality. Maybe women have the whole 'good guy' thing wrong. I know how alpha mentality works and its easy to fake and engineer a group, put down your friends in front of the hot girl. But id rather not manipulate like that. But I know the kind of fake, creepy good guy you're getting at. Quite confused writing
Wow. Apparently GaG is full of "good guys" who got rejected and have extremely emotional reactions whenever someone brings up the admiration for bad guys.
i'll say it time and time again. women don't necessarily love "bad boys" and "douchebags", they love confidence and dominance... and more times than not, a man with those qualities will often be kind of a douche