2. If you want make up, you have to be very, very specific about what you want / like. Remember, we're not very interested in make up (at all, in fact) and remembering this kind of stuff is a bit of an ask. So if you get what you want, remember a GREAT deal of consideration went into it...
2.) What should a guy do to get you makeup if we don't know what you want or how to understand the different things? 3.) When you say cute, do you mean just say "good morning" is enough or do you want something cutesy or poetic?
(I apologize if my questions sounded defensive or offended you. I am genuinely and sincerely curious. Thank you.)
1. This is true for me sometime because at times I want him to say more than the usual Okay or That's good. 2. I don't wear make up. I usually use loose powder and lipstick. I'm not a fan of flowers. I do appreciate anything he would give. 3. True! 4. It depends I think. If I knew them then there is no reason for me to be jealous about them. 5. True! I want him to be with me most of the time rather than giving me a gift.
1. No! I will take your answer as your answer. Don't play with me. 2. I really hope you speak for yourself along with number 1 3. I am aware of that 4. Refer to number 2 5. I really hope so but today it's hard to find a woman, who thinks like that.
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What matters to women most:
1. LOOKS (Height/face) 2. MONEY 3. SOCIAL STATUS (Job status/social connection/popularity)
Any other thing is just misdirection. Betas will fail the shit test and listen to advice. Alphas will focus on these and get the girl every time.
I don't know, I think it's a skill developed over time. Too much influence when younger from peers, the internet, and other bullshit when women are still trying to define their own personalities. Plus, we are conditioned to ride the line somewhere between being too meek and being a "total emotional bitch." I have found it's much better to just say what you mean.
The other day, a friend did something I thought was out of character, so when we talked I told him point blank it was a dick move and here is why, and his response was yeah... I can see that, here's what I was thinking. And we had a great, objective conversation. But I like logic, and I like putting stuff out there to discuss. Not everybody does.
Sometimes it's a function of expressing it behaviorally before women can understand it logically. That's the mismatch. I think men are fully capable of emotional range, but in order to empathize, they need to understand logically how you got to that feeling you're having.
Also, this may just be because I'm old enough to have become extremely picky with brands and such, but... ahah the chance that a boy would actually pick the RIGHT makeup is approximately 0.0000 percent.
Totes agree tho. Almost as bad as gifting a Weight Watchers membership or some shit ahha.
@Bleh-___- you should ask for the shakeweight instead. gotta maintain that raging sex appeal, and then you can show it off at the gym and look cool doing it too
Oh that dreaded word "fine". When I hear that I know I'm in deep shit and it's just a matter of time before I get an earful, right after the silent treatment ends
"Would you like it we hung out with our hot male friends? I didn't think so. "
My girl tried that, and I told her, I don't care and still don't. I believe in fair, so if I do it, I cannot ask someone else NOT to do it. However, I do believe that hanging with the opposite sex should decrease when in a relationship.
Everything I read and everywhere I go it seems to be the same. Women are taught that guys need to earn them and do all of this stuff for them while the women do absolutely nothing.
Ya know, these are true. haha, especially 2, roses are for a week or two but mascara last a few months. :3 My boyfriend doesn't have hot female friends, but I don't like when he's always liking pretty girls pictures on fb.
Honestly, I don't dislike, or not get along with any of my partner's female friends. Someone being good looking is not a reason to dislike them. I trust them I trust him, and that's enough.
Really? Isn't that the first chapter of "Figuring out the Lady that you think you Love?" I do have issues with the 'make-up' one! I prefer her without all that phony Crayon sht!!
No. 4 I am your hot female friend buddy! At least I'm so much fun in the sack that you're too worn out to think about any other female that way, mfriend or not!!! = }
I don't know if number 4 is a healthy trait. I mean, suppose a guy was bisexual. Is he not allowed to be around anyone attractive because he might cheat? That lack of trust is a deal breaker.
1. Well that's nothing new 🙈 2. Eh... depends on the girl 3. Makes sense 4. Understandable 5. Sounds nice but I feel like most girls expect both (time and gifts).
1. I know that. 2. A lot of women would take that as an insult. 3. I've come to learn this as well. 4. Does it make a difference if said "hot female friend" is a lesbian? 5. I hope most women are like that.
Nope because 4 is bullshit and for anyone who it isnt? Do not date them. Imagine having to lose your best friend just cause your girlfriend decided she was too hot.
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1. Most men know about this one.
2. If you want make up, you have to be very, very specific about what you want / like. Remember, we're not very interested in make up (at all, in fact) and remembering this kind of stuff is a bit of an ask. So if you get what you want, remember a GREAT deal of consideration went into it...
3. Most men also know this.
4. Again, we get this.
5. Ditto.
2.) What should a guy do to get you makeup if we don't know what you want or how to understand the different things?
3.) When you say cute, do you mean just say "good morning" is enough or do you want something cutesy or poetic?
(I apologize if my questions sounded defensive or offended you. I am genuinely and sincerely curious. Thank you.)
1. This is true for me sometime because at times I want him to say more than the usual Okay or That's good.
2. I don't wear make up. I usually use loose powder and lipstick. I'm not a fan of flowers. I do appreciate anything he would give.
3. True!
4. It depends I think. If I knew them then there is no reason for me to be jealous about them.
5. True! I want him to be with me most of the time rather than giving me a gift.
1. No! I will take your answer as your answer. Don't play with me.
2. I really hope you speak for yourself along with number 1
3. I am aware of that
4. Refer to number 2
5. I really hope so but today it's hard to find a woman, who thinks like that.
There.
What matters to women most:
1. LOOKS (Height/face)
2. MONEY
3. SOCIAL STATUS (Job status/social connection/popularity)
Any other thing is just misdirection. Betas will fail the shit test and listen to advice. Alphas will focus on these and get the girl every time.
Why can't women just say what they mean? "I'm pissed and you'd better leave before I try to cut off your balls!" I can deal with that! :)
Woman make everything more difficult lol.
I don't know, I think it's a skill developed over time. Too much influence when younger from peers, the internet, and other bullshit when women are still trying to define their own personalities. Plus, we are conditioned to ride the line somewhere between being too meek and being a "total emotional bitch." I have found it's much better to just say what you mean.
The other day, a friend did something I thought was out of character, so when we talked I told him point blank it was a dick move and here is why, and his response was yeah... I can see that, here's what I was thinking. And we had a great, objective conversation. But I like logic, and I like putting stuff out there to discuss. Not everybody does.
Sometimes it's a function of expressing it behaviorally before women can understand it logically. That's the mismatch. I think men are fully capable of emotional range, but in order to empathize, they need to understand logically how you got to that feeling you're having.
Guys, don't fall for #2 if you don't want her to misinterpret your intentions as "your face needs makeup".
😂😂😂 ikr
Also, this may just be because I'm old enough to have become extremely picky with brands and such, but... ahah the chance that a boy would actually pick the RIGHT makeup is approximately 0.0000 percent.
Totes agree tho. Almost as bad as gifting a Weight Watchers membership or some shit ahha.
@redeyemindtricks I'd expect a cotton candy flavoured claire's chapstick at best from him. Lmao good comparison, that's so true
@Bleh-___- you should ask for the shakeweight instead. gotta maintain that raging sex appeal, and then you can show it off at the gym and look cool doing it too
@spnsfi I already own 2, 1 for each hand.
What's going on with your username
Lmao, yeah right, do they actually work?
I tried to quit twice, and now im sad cause i lost all that xper, was at lvl 6 gettin close to the big prize, the amazon card
Oh that dreaded word "fine". When I hear that I know I'm in deep shit and it's just a matter of time before I get an earful, right after the silent treatment ends
"Would you like it we hung out with our hot male friends? I didn't think so. "
My girl tried that, and I told her, I don't care and still don't. I believe in fair, so if I do it, I cannot ask someone else NOT to do it.
However, I do believe that hanging with the opposite sex should decrease when in a relationship.
Good myTake, by the way.
well i would say
1- disagree
2- yeah agree
3- totally
4-nope, disagree, i don't mind, in the end he is with me and not with that girl
5- agree!! Yes !
Great. 5 more demands women have.
Everything I read and everywhere I go it seems to be the same. Women are taught that guys need to earn them and do all of this stuff for them while the women do absolutely nothing.
Only childish girls do this.
Ya know, these are true.
haha, especially 2, roses are for a week or two but mascara last a few months. :3
My boyfriend doesn't have hot female friends, but I don't like when he's always liking pretty girls pictures on fb.
Honestly, I don't dislike, or not get along with any of my partner's female friends. Someone being good looking is not a reason to dislike them. I trust them I trust him, and that's enough.
Really? Isn't that the first chapter of "Figuring out the Lady that you think you Love?"
I do have issues with the 'make-up' one! I prefer her without all that phony Crayon sht!!
No. 4 I am your hot female friend buddy! At least I'm so much fun in the sack that you're too worn out to think about any other female that way, mfriend or not!!! = }
kinda
i would prefer flowers over makeup
and i don't even like him to HAVE hot female friends, of course he wouldn't spend time with her, not even a little
lol
I don't know if number 4 is a healthy trait. I mean, suppose a guy was bisexual. Is he not allowed to be around anyone attractive because he might cheat? That lack of trust is a deal breaker.
I don't know, your take is open for different interpretations, and points like second one is true half the time.
1. Well that's nothing new 🙈
2. Eh... depends on the girl
3. Makes sense
4. Understandable
5. Sounds nice but I feel like most girls expect both (time and gifts).
1. I know that.
2. A lot of women would take that as an insult.
3. I've come to learn this as well.
4. Does it make a difference if said "hot female friend" is a lesbian?
5. I hope most women are like that.
Nope because 4 is bullshit and for anyone who it isnt? Do not date them. Imagine having to lose your best friend just cause your girlfriend decided she was too hot.
@BaileyisDarcy I agree.