Going Out With Other Couples Good For Relationships

[GirlsAskGuys]

We've all heard about it - "The Honeymoon Phase." It's the beginning of a relationship when things are still fresh, exciting, exhilarating, and fun.

But what happens when the honeymoon is over? Sometimes couples experience boredom and mundane routine. A recent study conducted by Wayne State University shows that "couples that integrate other couples into their social lives are more likely to have happy and satisfying romantic relationships." In other words, couples with friends that are couples are happier and more fulfilled!

Going out with other couples is great for your relationship!

Assistant professor of psychology Richard B. Slatcher, Ph.D. conducted a study called "When Harry and Sally met Dick and Jane: Experimentally creating closeness between couples." The study followed 60 dating couples in a laboratory setting to learn more about the friendships between couples, and how it affected each couple's relationship.

In-depth conversations with other couples left everyone feeling happier & more fulfilled!

The study showed that those couples who disclosed more personal details about themselves to other couples not only formed stronger friendships, but it also resulted in the couples feeling a stronger connection within their own relationships. Having these in-depth conversations with other couples left everyone feeling more positive, more fulfilled, and happier overall. The couples who only engaged in small-talk didn't experience any of this.

How can you meet other friends who are couples?

Meeting other couples isn't always easy - everyone has busy schedules and their own set of friends. However, a second look around can provide multiple opportunities for meeting new people.

• Many churches and synagogues have a young couples group.
• Interested in the arts? Most of the museums and other arts (symphony, opera, etc) have an "Under 40" group that has social and cultural events each month, plus opportunities for travel. They can be pricey to join ($500 or more per year per couple), but most events and parties are free once you join.
• Volunteer! Look into Habitat for Humanity, Gods Love We Deliver, Big Brothers Big Sisters, Boys & Girls Club, etc.
• College Alumni Groups. Check out your alumni club for events & monthly happy hours.

Lastly, be open to making couple friends from all ages & backgrounds. You never know what kind of friendships you may form. If you're attending a work function, don't discount your boss and her husband - they may be older in age and live in the 'burbs, but they may also be looking for a little youth and vitality in their lives!

As Slatcher said, "Having fun with another couple may help make your own relationship more satisfying." Give it a try and see if it works!

[Phoenix1991]

Interesting, usually when the honey moon phase is over I would try to apply most if not all things that life as to offer into our relationship. I always viewed my girlfriend like a best friend =)