Why are you not telling females to risk rejection and pay!? They want it at least as much as US, but continue to be exempt from rejection and expense! Many of these women are'nt fit to carry my jock strap to the cleaners! Yet, they continue to think that THEY are gold, and I'm bronze, tin, or aluminum! Sorry, but it's exactly the opposite! Let me know when you would like to compare resumes! Until then, stop undervaluing the HELL out of me, just because you think your equipment is superior!
@diabloknk Good clarification - I maent strangers, meaning women you've never met before. They don't have to be 'strange' meaning 'weird' (unless that's your bag, baby.)
@eldamien - you said that for a guy to get over his fear of rejection is to approach strange women. Do you mean "women who are strangers" or "women who are strange?"
@JackSparrow55 - good summary. I think most people need a little bit more of a step by step guide on HOW to get over that fear, but your sentence sums up the spirit of my article perfectly!
For the ladies - asking a guy for their number is fine, we're lucky if we get one girl asking per year (one WITH potential romantic interest).. As for the article, great job man - supremely impressed.
Good advice...but nothing groundbreaking here. Alan Currie covers this in his book mode one: let the woman know what you are thinking...which is worth a pick up-no pun intended.
thats the thing what you said is right but ASKING her is only 25% of it if you truly are a "good guy" then sure you get her..for a week b4 she's gets bored with you..sad sad truth
It's the 21st century. Women can do anything men can do right? So chivalry is dead, and there is no logical reason it should be a man's duty to ask a woman out. Why shouldn't this logic be equally applied to women?
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Why are you not telling females to risk rejection and pay!? They want it at least as much as US, but continue to be exempt from rejection and expense! Many of these women are'nt fit to carry my jock strap to the cleaners! Yet, they continue to think that THEY are gold, and I'm bronze, tin, or aluminum! Sorry, but it's exactly the opposite! Let me know when you would like to compare resumes! Until then, stop undervaluing the HELL out of me, just because you think your equipment is superior!
@diabloknk Good clarification - I maent strangers, meaning women you've never met before. They don't have to be 'strange' meaning 'weird' (unless that's your bag, baby.)
@eldamien - you said that for a guy to get over his fear of rejection is to approach strange women. Do you mean "women who are strangers" or "women who are strange?"
@JackSparrow55 - good summary. I think most people need a little bit more of a step by step guide on HOW to get over that fear, but your sentence sums up the spirit of my article perfectly!
For the ladies - asking a guy for their number is fine, we're lucky if we get one girl asking per year (one WITH potential romantic interest).. As for the article, great job man - supremely impressed.
Good advice...but nothing groundbreaking here. Alan Currie covers this in his book mode one: let the woman know what you are thinking...which is worth a pick up-no pun intended.
Just once I'd like to see an article above remedial school level, or at least without obvious generalizations. Keep at it ... :)
Well you have a very well written article here that I hope a lot of guys take note of. Hope to see some more in the future
Great article! Very well-written, I agree with every word.
@nemanameless: A lot of this stuff can be applied to girls, as well.
thats the thing what you said is right but ASKING her is only 25% of it if you truly are a "good guy" then sure you get her..for a week b4 she's gets bored with you..sad sad truth
@Drake742 you should post that as a question in the Flirting or Dating categories - you'll probably get a lot more responses...
It's the 21st century. Women can do anything men can do right? So chivalry is dead, and there is no logical reason it should be a man's duty to ask a woman out. Why shouldn't this logic be equally applied to women?
This can only be summarized in one sentence. The only way that you can get away from fear of women is getting over the fear of rejection, period.
why would women bother doing something that they don't have to do? that's the way I look at it as to why they never approach men or initiate
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Excellent summary - couldn't have written a better one myself.
I agree with h3lpm3plz! Guys shouldn't have to do all the work, but we're scared, too!
Very good article! Lots of great tips here to help those "nice guys" really get the women they deserve.
I did, a few people responded, would you be able to respond or message me?
the idea that girls get asked for their phone number up to 4 times a day makes me not want to even bother
Good article. Its hard for nerds to break their barrier of fear due to societies "lores", that only hot guys can get girls, or visa versa.