for me it took me a year and a half... because he was my best friend first of all and we'd spend so much time together... he'd flirt w me and stare at me.. i feel like he rejected me bc he was scared... haven't talked to him all summer but he asked for my schedule before during the middle of the summer... but he never responded after i sent to him... i dont really care anymore... dont wanna sound cocky but im getting so much attention from other guys so i feel happpy lol
It's a mistake to be friends with him. You're kidding yourself if you really believe you'll be able to simply shut off your feelings for him and be nothing more than friends.
Actually, it's not for me. People react to situations differently; I am completely over him and we're just friends. I never just "shut off my feelings for him..." I was working on getting over him for months--him saying no was just the last thing I needed.
I disagree. There are many forms of heart break. I loved him, although he didn't love me back. You don't necessarily need to be together to have your heart broken.
That's lust, infatuation, and obsession. it has NOTHING to do with love kiddo. true love is described by the apostle: "If I give all I possess to the poor and exult in the surrender of my body, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking (emphasis here, the exact opposite of these "heartbreaks"), it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs (here as well). Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things (emphasis in ALL), believes all things, hopes all things divine (not mundane), endures all things (without whining), Love never fails". So what has this Love have to do with what you guys describing? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
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Everyone in their life do face the rejection at some stages
Thank him. Your crush cleared up the air for you. Mine did not :(
I'm glad you moved on :) thanks for the tips
Of course <3 and me too!
Wow that's mature. I would be petty and never even consider being friends. I'm glad you could start over :)
Thank you, that means a lot! I had actually thought about cutting ties but realized I really did enjoy spending time with him :)
That's good, I wish I could do that but I can't stop acting awkward
Thank you for this... how long did it take you to stop thinking about him?
I'm not sure exactly, maybe a week or so? He still crosses my mind, but not in the same way. I'm glad I could help <3
for me it took me a year and a half... because he was my best friend first of all and we'd spend so much time together... he'd flirt w me and stare at me.. i feel like he rejected me bc he was scared... haven't talked to him all summer but he asked for my schedule before during the middle of the summer... but he never responded after i sent to him... i dont really care anymore... dont wanna sound cocky but im getting so much attention from other guys so i feel happpy lol
love the mytake.. been looking to do what your photo is...
I dont see the point in getting sad cause some girl didn't like me there is always another one
well written and good foresight.
As I like to say : The end is just another beginning.
It's a mistake to be friends with him. You're kidding yourself if you really believe you'll be able to simply shut off your feelings for him and be nothing more than friends.
Actually, it's not for me. People react to situations differently; I am completely over him and we're just friends. I never just "shut off my feelings for him..." I was working on getting over him for months--him saying no was just the last thing I needed.
at least ur crush ccleared up the air, my crush was an asshole.
I'm sorry :/ Yeah, he's a great friend :)
You will become stronger and stronger as time passes...
lol you have no idea what heart break is. he couldnt break your heart since you where never together in the first place... .
I disagree. There are many forms of heart break. I loved him, although he didn't love me back. You don't necessarily need to be together to have your heart broken.
That's lust, infatuation, and obsession. it has NOTHING to do with love kiddo. true love is described by the apostle:
"If I give all I possess to the poor and exult in the surrender of my body, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking (emphasis here, the exact opposite of these "heartbreaks"), it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs (here as well). Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things (emphasis in ALL), believes all things, hopes all things divine (not mundane), endures all things (without whining), Love never fails".
So what has this Love have to do with what you guys describing? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
Although we don't see eye to eye, I understand where you're coming from. Thanks for sharing your opinion!
thanks honey. i m glad that you can see the truth. most people can cause its programmed in our consciense.
That's called getting closure.
Nice, see life moves on. :)
Good for you keep your head up
Good for you!
Thank you! <3
❌It's not their loss - you weren't good enough for them 😂. I hate it when people say that.
Its great you were able to move on
Thank you <3 <3
Yup thats the way it is at times
thanks for sharing