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Guys Need To Realize That Girls Don't Want Chivalry or "Nice Guys" (Page 3)
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There is a big difference between chivalry and being polite. I hold doors open for women and I have had women hold doors open for me. That is just good manners. There are also still many women that still seek an meaningful realtionship. The only thing is these days an realtionship often comes with many rules and expectations. Far more than say 20 years ago so the chances of a guy being hurt by a woman are far greater than ever before.
Are you a woman? No? Then why are you talking about what we want with such authority? Take multiple seats
Tbh girls tend to be even worse "authorities".. always going off like they're speaking for all women when they're really just speaking for themselves.
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Aaaand now you’ve resorted to sexism. Good job.
@lumos I wish I could like this multiple times. I nearly died at "take multiple seats!"😂
@ScienceGuy4242 how did he resort to sexism? All he needs to change about hus comment is say it about every human ever and not just women lol
@ScienceGuy4242 Okay then, Sir Lancelot. 🙄
@BaileyisDarcy A fair point.
I'll offer to pay, but if you don't let me, you'll be gold in my eyes and I'll pay the next or will find a way to compensate it to you (maybe I'll buy you a nice present later).
If you treat me good, text me and tell me sweet things, I might just fall for you. You showing is a turn-on, so your post is really out of place.
Be Draco Malfoy? A wimpy little brat?
What a disgusting attempt at decrying gentlemanism.
Chivalry will never die. I act as a gentleman as much for myself as for the women I have been raised to respect, being chivalrous does not mean you're meek. No one pay any mind to this mindless postmodern drivel. Only weak men oppose chivalry!
Ah you're a Beta-Male. I see.
Apart from the Girls Aren't That relationship Orientated part your mostly right. Women are mostly relationship orientated. Women will often be in a relationship with a guy they aren't really into while looking for a better guy. Often they will stay in a relationship with a guy they aren't into so they aren't single when there's a big wedding coming up or Thanksgiving is coming up or Christmas or New year's or Valentine's day or their birthday.
Nah girls just want sex really.
Yeah and you can have more sex in a relationship than single
That is sick and wrong... Women want a man to be a gentleman they also love a man’s man, and a man protects and provides for the lady in his life. I have never met a woman worth having that does not like having the door opened for them, the chair pulled out and treating her with respect and letting her know she is special. This is now and always will be a turn-on (girls do you agree?)
Girls want you to bend them over and give them rough sex. THAT's what girls really want.
Hmmm... you're a bit confused sonny. Oh well. Maybe you'll figure it out.
And don't confuse 'nice' with 'kind'. A strong alpha male isn't an asshole to people.
What girls REALLY want is for the guy to lead. They want to respect him, be in awe of him. If he's not worthy then it just never gets there, and all you'll get is the 'meh' reaction.
nice guys though -- they bore me
I like the type of guy who will even treat 80 year old woman like woman and not like a "grandma" -- I think that sort of behavior is a real man's behavior, they never forget what they are, and that just radiates with pure eroticism and it's soooo delicious.
Please don't speak for my gender again... just.. don't. Speak for yourself by all means but don't tell men that this is what women want. This is what you want.
There's a huge difference between what girls like in guys and what girls choose to reward with sex.
Being chivalrous is a good play if you're tall and handsome, but otherwise, you're just wasting your time. Girls will only lead you on.
Girls are not chivalrous.
its true... I once heard a girl not choose a guy because she said it was too perfect... no downs...
it seems some ups and downs in the releatioships keeps her more interested... so if you are too perfect it could also be a problem...
--> the idea that she needs something to work on... it allows her brain to send her mind signals of reward and accomplishment... that basic human mechanism keeps her fulfilled... so she comes back for more, to fix some more...
Nahhh. I'd love a guy to treat me well and i an relationship oriented
i can say u are true in that , girls dont like a normal male that loves them
they love to get beat up every day and abused verbally and physically
they love to get cheated on , they love to get their heart broken and cry for next 2 months
let us all guys be like this
Dating is a fucking landmine these days.
- He didn't take out my chair. What a douche!
- He took out my chair!! I'm a independent woman, i can do it myself!! Don't need you to hold my hand every few seconds!!
- He didn't pay!!
- He said he was going to pay the whole meal!! Like i'm some helpless idiot!! What a sexist!!
Fuck this. There's a lot of reasons why i have felt no rush getting into the dating scene, and this is one of them.
Do you even know what chivalry is... its about knighthood and their duties... the fucking generations have misinterpreted this term.
And the thing you described under being chivalrous is called being foolish on the guy's part.
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And i agree with the second one tooooo 20000%
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Even the 3rd one...
And i sorry if my opinion may have made you feel a bit disrespected but i ain't going up there and editing it hahaha
Eh...
Why are you speaking for women on this? And clearly not speaking correctly either? There are lots of women who want those things but there are also lots of women who don't...
The only thing I would really venture that the majority of women don't want is men who tell them what women want
Everyone has a different preference. Sorry to be the one to say it but some girls like nice guys. This is just your opinion so I didn't really understand why you were trying to speak on every woman’s behalf because we don’t all feel this way.
Of course this is written by a male. Why is it so weird to think that women are different from each other? But wait if you generalize males like this, men would be tripping over each other to say, "not all males."
Hey, not all males would say not all males.
A lot of nice guys make for a great friend zone right. Yep wanna know why? Your not women enough to handle a nice young man that is willing to do anything for you and be there when you are crying be there when you need a ride home from the bar be there for you when he breaks up with you or gets your pregnant or at least you thought you were, be there for you when you lost your job and had no where to go. YEP. that's a good guy for you I guess no women wants that around.
Not all girls are the same in the same way we guys are not. One thing i would agree is that most girls (not all mind you) do in fact text or date 6 or 7 or more guys in the same time. Simply because they will always have a lots of guys chasing them regardless or their looks or personality.
So i think your advice to guys who text a girl and lose their head over her is on point.