Last week @Wowgirl30q decided to do a list on real men,
Real men can do these five things
and i thought her list was harsh but fair. However, it's not the first time i've seen it done. Such criticism towards women however is hard to come by. So, after she nicely asked me to make a one for women, i thought "what the hell, i'll make one". And here we are... just don't shoot the messenger... or do, whatever. Enjoy.
1. Know how to be a nurturer
You are never going to be able to compete with men in any male domain and win. We're different, and that means some things men are just better at, and that's life. And the thing is, the male types of work that men are just better at, is work that keeps the lights on. If you want to compete with men you're completely free to do so, but you not only won't win against them, you likely won't win in the game of life either. In order for you to have kids and what not, you have to play a completely different game to the one men play.
Men play the direct game, where they take the risks and either rise to the top or fall to their death. Women's game is that of supporting the winning team and getting them to share the fruits of their risk and labour. You don't get the medal, but you don't fall to your death either. And you do that by knowing how to nurture.
They say behind every great man is a great woman, and that is the understatement of the entire English language. If you don't know how to recognise positional in men around you and how to bring it out of them, you better learn fast. For a real women knows how to bring out the best in their man, and to help and protect him in all the ways that only a woman can.
2. Know how to be seen and not heard
Lets all be honest, most women are not nearly as dumb as they pretend to be. They are capable of intelligent thought, they just choose to let it deteriorate, because it's in their interest to. Esther Vilar once humorously said that a beautiful woman could theoretically be as intelligent as a chimpanzee and still be considered an acceptable member of society... will anyone dispute that claim?
What use is it to a woman to say anything even slightly important if she has a man more than willing to do that for her? If anything, it's against her interest, because of point #1. Speak up ladies, and you'll find yourself in the position of competing with your man.
The only time it's of use for a woman to open her mouth for the purpose of speaking is;
-to display your interest or disinterest in this or that,
-to stoke your mans ego as a carrot,
-to drive your man insane as a stick,
-or to gossip as a way purging people from the tribe that are a threat.
In all other cases, speaking only acts against your interests. But that's not the same as just staying home and doing nothing. I mean, other than shopping for men and keeping them while they're of use to you, your job in society is that of moral arbiter... hence, you need to be near the action. A real woman understands that distinction quite clearly, which is why she seems to get what she wants, but is seldom heard of ever.
3. Know how to be a lady in the living-room, and a whore in the bedroom
No man wants a village bicycle to take home to his parents, but at the same time no man wants what is essentially and inanimate blow up doll that'll deflate if you're too rough with it. It's the catch 22 that women find themselves in, the old archetypes of the virgin and the whore.
The solution is simple, learn to keep all your filthy depraved thoughts hidden behind closed doors. As much as your naked body, keep it for your man's eyes and ears only, except for maybe your girlfriends as you're quietly chitchatting in the shopping isle.
The key is to cash in on your sexuality and get as much experience as you can while you're still young and shopping for your Mr Right, while keeping all of that behind closed doors and away from your reputation. But keep in mind, the clock is ticking, so you have to work fast... the older you get the lower value man you'll be able to trap into a relationship.
Now while you're engaging in all this deception that the "virgin" Mary mastered to a whole new level, it's really tempting to tell this lie to Joseph and God, that they're the best you've ever had, and "i've never done anything like this before", but i wouldn't recommend it. True you're taking a risk that if the relationship ends badly he can ruin your unjust clean reputation, but it'll likely cost you more to feed them the lie.
Unless we're talking of a beta that you're merely using for convenience, you don't want to hold secrets like this from that man you're genuinely interested in, otherwise there's no trust, and without trust a relationship will never last and not become dysfunctional. Trust me, men don't mind a woman with an experienced past, so long as she's discrete. Think of how a wife views her husbands women on the side... long as he's honest and discrete, and she doesn't need to fear being traded in, she really won't mind. The same way goes for how he views your kinkiness and experiences.
A real woman knows how to be a modest, pie making, pear wearing house wife, and a complete experienced animal in the bedroom, providing she's working just below his level. That is one of the reasons why a real woman doesn't have difficulty keeping her man excited with her sexuality, without scaring him off.
4. Know how to handle a cock, and/or another vag
If it's not already clear, you play a completely different game than the ones men play. The ones men play give them their wallet and status to use as barter to get what they want. The game women play grant them to use what's between their legs and what comes out of them as barter, and boy is that a valuable commodity.
I hate to break it to you, but your bachelors degree means very little to a man... but your ability to suck his dick like no one else can, is worth it's weight in gold. Everyone loves sex, but it can't be denied it's far easier for a woman to go without it than for men. For men its practically a biological necessity, that if gone without will damage your health, both in body and mind.
Simple fact is you women have so much more leverage when it comes to sex, and if you're not using to its full potential, then you are wasting your full potential.
If you wanna say
"f that, i wanna be a female prime minster with hard work, not some house wife doing tricks to earn my keep",
then that's fair enough. If you wanna go into a male field, and compete with men climbing the greasy pole of success, in which you will need to sacrifice your family, your free time, and your personal life, then with a lot of luck, you might just become the next Margaret Thatcher. If you look at the statistics of women's happiness and you think you're one of the outliers that'd actually be happy being the next Thatcher, then you go right ahead. But most women? That is most women's idea of hell.
Most women have other prioritises, and in order to get those prioritises that means getting a man to finance them. And the best way of getting him to do that is by keeping him happy by using what you've got that he simply does not. The day that men on mass start learning how to suck their own dick is the day women will need to start really panicking.
Not to mention the valuable skill of knowing how to have sex with other women. Assuming you've trapped an alpha who's got women lining up, you will have to compete with them. And assuming he's high value enough, it's not just enough to be better in bed than them, you'll need to actually dominate them in bed, because if you don't he will.
A real woman is a master at this. She knows every inch of his body, and how to keep it satisfied at all times, providing he's doing his job holding up his end. She knows what types of women he likes, how much he enjoys her telling/showing him how much she enjoys watching and occasionally joining in.
She knows how to destroy her competition, by keeping them so close she can tell when they've had their last period. Taking charge of them in the bedroom, with her mans permission of course, making sure he's having his fun using them, and ending that shit soon as said other woman starts go past sex into more emotional stuff.
A real woman knows how to keep her man's body and mind satisfied in every way she reasonably can, and she can do it in such a way without losing him to another woman.
5. Know how to weaponize your vagina
The lord giveth the lord taketh away.
Feminism has to be right up there with Communism, in terms of the level of mental retardation. The idea that women as a group for all of the last 200,000 years where basically slaves to men as a group, up until about 50 to 100 years ago, is so retarded it's not even funny, when you consider just how many people believe this nonsense.
Women have the single greatest trump card in gender relations there is... they decide what the future generation looks like.
-Women decide what men reproduce,
-women decide what their children believe, since they make up like 90% of a child's upbringing,
-and women decide whether or not men get to partake in their favourite activity.
I mean, men on mass could just decide to start raping women, but no man no matter how powerful can force a woman to not "accidentally" fall down the stairs while pregnant with his kid. Not to mention there's always a percentage of "good men" in society that'll do what women want them to do, and by doing that if said husbands are oppressive enough, they'll be rewarded, by cuckolding said bad husbands raping their women.
The truth is men cannot reproduce without a woman's complete consent, and that is the unadulterated truth.
It's retarded to say women don't have this incredible level of power. Unless you want to be retarded, then you want to start acting like a real woman. And a real woman knows exactly just how much power she has, and knows when it is wise to use it, and when it's wise not to.
If she's to arm her vagina at Decon 4 and above, then she baits a man with sex and their ego being stroked, and she traps him with an "accidental" pregnancy. Then she slowly starts working on the children, if needs be they may be useful in a future conflict such as the threat of divorce. And if at complete Decon 1, there's always the threat of a false rape accusation, which men routinely die over, either by suicide or vigilante violence.
There's a saying that
"there is no virtue in not knowing how to commit evil, only knowing how to commit it and choosing not to".
.. and this is something that a real woman fully understands. She knows what side her bread is buttered, she knows what she's capable of, and she understands the importance of not using it unless absolutely necessary.
In the end in the same way men need women, women need men, and the best way of getting what you want is not by force, merely co-operation.
That is a real woman
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