This may be true, but you are not taking into account women who don't have sex right away. I don't unless I'm already in a relationship and have feelings for the man
YOu are correct. I would say that the women who dont have sex right away take longer. But most polls and studies show that people have sex within 3 dates. I can only make mytakes based on the majority of people not exceptions all the time.
Nice post. If a guy doesn't bring up wanting a romantuc relationship from the beginning, I will view him forever as a friend... That sex thing is off the list for an uncommitted relationship.
ROFL. That applies only to shallow desperate sluts that'll fuck anyone. Obvious by how pathetic they act within 2 months - possessive, an indication of mental instability by wanting to know where you are, etc.
That's why I'm waiting for marriage, I don't my oxytocin going all over the place. I get easily attached to so that's why I keep distance from the guys I know will never be relationship material.
And than there is me.. Hoping that one day one girl would fall in love with me
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sorry this made me laugh so if i we dont have sex with you i will friendzone cus i dont love enough? you then you know nothing about girls nor relationships. imagine teens reading this huh? so what ya saying no sex no love wtf man. i am honestly disappointed with men that think like this i should probably turn to girls. sex isn't like important to fall in love we can fall mentality did ya know that?
Bro, if you have a fuck buddy who is "way out of your league", you have arrived my friend. Really hot women are crazy as fuck, so just enjoy the ride and let the other guys who are "dating" her put up with her insanity.
The mytake was general advice. Not about my experience. But no matter how hot she is... if she agrees to have sex with you. take that opportunity. My advice would be to play it cool with a hot woman and just have sex with her for fun. Be that guy she goes to when she needs her fill. Dont act needy. Dont give her drama. Dont even message her unless she messages you first. Eventually over time body memory will develop. her pussy will throb for how you feel inside her. By two months she will be confused because she will be emberrased to date a guy that isn't a hotty but will realize she is starting to fall for you. Or a lot of times she will be in denial and start demanding relationship type stuff. Take it gradual. play it cool. She will poke and prod to get you to ask her to be in a relationship. ignore it. Make her beg you to be exclusive over time. If she every freaks out and just wants to be friends. say no. walk away. within two weeks she will be missing your dick again and come back even thirstier.
Without sex it takes much longer to fall in love. That is a very important thing that I noted in my mytake. That is because sex and orgasm release dopamine and oxytocin. The dopamine is like the drug high of pleasure that you get from sex. and oxytocin is the bonding "love" feelings you get from sex. So without sex it is harder to have that intensity of connection. Of course you are young so its not necessarily a bad thing that you didn't have sex. Its probably a good thing that you waited. Just know in the future after you graduate college and meet with guys in your 20s-30s you will be experience intense connections with sex.
You have sex when you feel comfortable. Its great you are having intimacy and deeper connection without it. However as an adult in the world after school. Most women who are dating a guy for 6 months without having sex are either super religious or are playing some game where a guy where they have friendzoned him and are just leading a guy on for attention.
I don't even understand the concept of "Fall in Love." Is it emotions? Chemistry? Don't know because it has never happened to me. I consciously choose to love, but to me emotions and hormones are really infatuation or lust. Or perhaps an addiction.
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You're a funny looking guy. I'm sure you can find a girl as long as you are realistic about your expectations and don't try to shoot out of your league.
Yeah I could see that. There's a huge difference between having a crush and falling in love. I've know my current crush for about two months and I already feel like I love him.
haha. I hate to break it to you.. but you are falling in love with him. especially when you use the L word. But falling in love happens in the honeymoon stage. after that is bigger things like committment.
By releasing oxytocin it creats a pair bonding. What if the relase of oxytocin is because she orgasms from using a dildo or a vibrator on a so called consistent basis?
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Jesus girls are slow! I fall in love with about 14 different girls in one day.
This may be true, but you are not taking into account women who don't have sex right away. I don't unless I'm already in a relationship and have feelings for the man
YOu are correct. I would say that the women who dont have sex right away take longer. But most polls and studies show that people have sex within 3 dates. I can only make mytakes based on the majority of people not exceptions all the time.
Nice post.
If a guy doesn't bring up wanting a romantuc relationship from the beginning, I will view him forever as a friend...
That sex thing is off the list for an uncommitted relationship.
This is a load of bullshit. There's no specific time frame when anyone falls in love, it could be a month or it could be years.
This is a general timeframe. This does not claim that its an exact science. It is a bold declaration that "most" people fall in love within 2 months.
ROFL. That applies only to shallow desperate sluts that'll fuck anyone. Obvious by how pathetic they act within 2 months - possessive, an indication of mental instability by wanting to know where you are, etc.
Doesn't mean anything.
That's why I'm waiting for marriage, I don't my oxytocin going all over the place. I get easily attached to so that's why I keep distance from the guys I know will never be relationship material.
And than there is me.. Hoping that one day one girl would fall in love with me
sorry this made me laugh so if i we dont have sex with you i will friendzone cus i dont love enough? you then you know nothing about girls nor relationships. imagine teens reading this huh? so what ya saying no sex no love wtf man. i am honestly disappointed with men that think like this i should probably turn to girls. sex isn't like important to fall in love we can fall mentality did ya know that?
Ditto. The guy is a complete ass and gives the rest of us a bad name.
I've read some rubbish in my time and this us right up there with the worst of it, absolute nonsense!
Bro, if you have a fuck buddy who is "way out of your league", you have arrived my friend. Really hot women are crazy as fuck, so just enjoy the ride and let the other guys who are "dating" her put up with her insanity.
The mytake was general advice. Not about my experience. But no matter how hot she is... if she agrees to have sex with you. take that opportunity. My advice would be to play it cool with a hot woman and just have sex with her for fun. Be that guy she goes to when she needs her fill. Dont act needy. Dont give her drama. Dont even message her unless she messages you first. Eventually over time body memory will develop. her pussy will throb for how you feel inside her. By two months she will be confused because she will be emberrased to date a guy that isn't a hotty but will realize she is starting to fall for you. Or a lot of times she will be in denial and start demanding relationship type stuff. Take it gradual. play it cool. She will poke and prod to get you to ask her to be in a relationship. ignore it. Make her beg you to be exclusive over time. If she every freaks out and just wants to be friends. say no. walk away. within two weeks she will be missing your dick again and come back even thirstier.
@Apope16 YES! Absolutely brilliant and SPOT FUCKING ON advice. I declare today APOPE16 day!
thats what i am here for bro.
Unless she fools around with other guys too
Other than that, I agree, sex is not just physical for most women.
Hmmm I have fall in love only 3 times, and all of that took my at least 6 months.. but with no sex tho
Without sex it takes much longer to fall in love. That is a very important thing that I noted in my mytake. That is because sex and orgasm release dopamine and oxytocin. The dopamine is like the drug high of pleasure that you get from sex. and oxytocin is the bonding "love" feelings you get from sex. So without sex it is harder to have that intensity of connection. Of course you are young so its not necessarily a bad thing that you didn't have sex. Its probably a good thing that you waited. Just know in the future after you graduate college and meet with guys in your 20s-30s you will be experience intense connections with sex.
Getting laid is a big thing and I find it hard to get tho lol
You have sex when you feel comfortable. Its great you are having intimacy and deeper connection without it. However as an adult in the world after school. Most women who are dating a guy for 6 months without having sex are either super religious or are playing some game where a guy where they have friendzoned him and are just leading a guy on for attention.
No it takes 2 mins if the girl is me
Really? Nah you must be kidding
I don't even understand the concept of "Fall in Love." Is it emotions? Chemistry? Don't know because it has never happened to me. I consciously choose to love, but to me emotions and hormones are really infatuation or lust. Or perhaps an addiction.
You're a funny looking guy. I'm sure you can find a girl as long as you are realistic about your expectations and don't try to shoot out of your league.
ouch, that hurt even my ego.
Says the woman who isn't showing her face.
You women are so predictable with your reactive ad hominem attack. Whenever you're challenged you just drop logic and go for school yard shit.
Yeah I could see that. There's a huge difference between having a crush and falling in love. I've know my current crush for about two months and I already feel like I love him.
haha. I hate to break it to you.. but you are falling in love with him. especially when you use the L word. But falling in love happens in the honeymoon stage. after that is bigger things like committment.
There’s a difference between infatuation and love
I was infatuated with my exes I didn’t love them!!!
By releasing oxytocin it creats a pair bonding. What if the relase of oxytocin is because she orgasms from using a dildo or a vibrator on a so called consistent basis?
From personal experience, i think this is ture about myself anyway
Besides the sex thing, id rather wait to get to know him and grow a bound before sex.
People i know who rush into sex early on in a relationship usually have more disfunctional relationships.
Although it is not completely true, I guess the main idea is acceptable.
I've also heard within the first 5 minutes in their mind they would decide if they would sleep with you or not
Hope you dont believe everything you hear.
well that's your opinion maybe you're reading this the wrong way anyway
I've heard it before, its a silly saying that has never been true.
But tell me how I read it wrong
Make a poll on here smarty pants and see
I'm not sure how I'm reading it wrong