There are many women in society (not all) who are responsible for creating controlling boyfriends or vagabond boyfriends who refuse to commit. It is the flirty girlfriend who has guys hitting on her at night clubs, clubs, at events, out on the street...these women are giving out their phone number to random guys.
Other than work or someone already in the friend circle they have...there is absolutely NO REASON why a woman should be accepting or giving away their number if they are in an exclusive relationship. NONE.
There are many women who are making excuses. The number one excuse you hear which is pathetic is:
"He kept badgering me and I wanted him to leave me alone."
That is still not a legit reason to give a guy your number. Guys, don't fall for this lie if your lady tells you this.
A respectable woman is NOT a child. She is not some little girl. Women have every right and a RESPONSIBILITY to say "NO" to men.
They must tell these hounding guys that they have boyfriends. She is a grown and independent woman. This is the 21st Century. As your lady,
"If a guy came up to you and begged for sex. Would you open your legs for him?" Exactly. Of course not. So how is it any different from a guy begging for a phone number or a date when you are in a relationship?
You also hear the excuse, "I was scared to confront him. So I gave him my number." No. Dont believe this phony nonsense. A woman gives a man number because she wants to. If she can't stand up for herself and say she has a boyfriend then she is not mature enough to be in a relationship.
Guys, your ladies are flirting with other men behind your back and packing numbers to line up the next guy or lead guys on as potential fuck buddies when they are emotionally vulnerable in the relationship. Never accept a grown woman playing the innocent little girl card and pretend she couldn't say no to a guy or she felt forced to take a guy's number. Baloney.