I don't know, I feel like it comes down to what we all experienced ourselves. When it comes to our bodies, I don't expect them to understand, but to cope. As for the victim blamers... screw them, their opinion doesn't help things. The nice guys expecting something cause they bought you a drink? Yep, screw them, they're not worth the time. Manipulators in general are just people we should all avoid. Just keep in mind that there are good people out there as well.
@JosyJosy Women aren't worth the effort anymore. They haven't been worth it for a long time. Its funny seeing a lot of them asking where are all the good men. We are all good men. We are just ignoring you like you did to us in highschool. The difference is women lose power as they age. Men gain power through wisdom. Wisdom can only be gained from experience and learning from your mistakes. Many women don't learn. They keep repeating the same mistakes expecting different results. That will never work.
@jellybeanyoghurt damn someone is salty about their unrelated highschool experience. If women aren't worth the effort for you then shut up and don't insult them.
@Subarugirl have you ever put up a post that’s empathetic towards men and/or critical of female behaviors?
Admittedly I have vented plenty on here about my frustrations towards women ESPECIALLY “modern” feminist women. However I do own up to my mistakes. I wrote an entire post about the past mistakes I made and how I improved since then.
But seriously have you ever once admitted being wrong about something?
Lies! Being women is a privilege. I envy how easy their life is. Men are treated by society as ugly, unwanted, expendable, worthless, second class citizens. The world is gynocentric. Even nature itself designed women to be superior than men in a hierarchy of entities.
Your not telling us anything new or surprising what you've wrote is pretty much a copy and past of every article on how women have it worse then anyone else that we've seen countless times before.
And what do you think we have just such easy lives or something? Grass ain't any greener on this side of the fence.
OMG…stop the man bashing please…. You must be PMSing 🙃 or spotting 🩸 with all the negativity🤪 Silliest rant ever over-looking designedBlessing as self-preserver childbirth. Why do women not value this? I’ll never understand, especially, since most want to self-preserve in some form of continued living upon death (AFTERLIFE).
Even though is both Self and Others excessive, she worships herself. Creature worships herself focusing solely upon Self’s body. What about Self’s spirituality❓
@Violetsunshine6 No, go cry to Mommie and stay there or get out in the 🌎 🌍 🌏 AND move on about yourself. 😫. I’m so troubled in the richest country in the world because I own vagina🤨. 😩
They do not complain like that whiny rant in Developing World. MOST PEOPLE PRAY TO HAVE YOUR PROBLEMS.
UKRAINE for a here and now SE Asia for last 30 years‼️
Lol ohh how terrible... you know what men got throughout history. We got to work ourselves to an realy grave. Go down with a sinking ship. Have a rifle / sword / whatever shaped into our hand and marched off to due a brutal death. We got to to hall the hard manual labor to build all your cities and roads and plumbing and electrical wires and everything else that makes your modern convenient life so enjoyable. Suddenly them cramps don't seem so bad do they
Those men kept women from being able to fight. The moment women could join the US military, they did. How odd! You can't really say all that when women weren't allowed to do that, even if they wanted to.
@Femphile_xoxo you are so right, before women were allowed to join the military they would disguise themself to join, that happened a lot during the civil war specifically
Is they why when the female draft was getting considered feminist organizations came from all over to try and stop it. Face it ladies your not they only people who had it bad throughout history. At any point throughout history you could have fought for equal rights. Strange that only when technological progress has eliminated much of the risk associated with those rights that you now want them
Sure! We're definitely not the only ones who had it hard in history. Plenty of groups have faced discrimination time and time again.
Before technology, there were still plenty of women's rights movements. You might not hear about them because they were easier to shut down without a way to constantly shout it out loud.
Every time us gals talk about sexism and our life as women, we're not putting down those other groups. We're simply talking about the problems we face due to sexism and misogyny.
Actually if you take a look, it was the Conservative party who shot down the bill that would also require women to register for selected service… that was just last year
@Femphile_xoxo They made women exempt from being drafted to protect them, not to oppress them. It was also a hundred years ago when society and the family dynamic were a lot different.
That's because the conflict was in our home territories and not in some distant land. And I think it's great that some women did this. Life was also harder in so many different ways for all people back then. Trying to assimilate it to today's standards would be quite absurd.
Do you think husbands and fathers, whether they're representatives or just normal citizens, are gonna risk alienating their wives and daughters by voting for a bill that would possibly put either of them in harm's way, especially if the opinions of the women in their lives match what more than half of the women are saying on this post alone?
Don't forget, there are more women than men in this country by about two million. It's not wise to piss off the majority vote.
Don't forget menopause , it only gets worse with the change of life and some have early onset , have no problem with both men and women being confronted if they are not the correct weight , with regards to " Slut walk " , a little common sense in presentation makes sense , association is everything..
@babygirl_s Thank you. I have been saying this for years. The white woman has the least of all issues yet complains the most. All she wants is attention because she knows people will give it and put her on a pedestal.
Yes! I completely agree with you! But the really very serious problems you stated are man made. Trust me, guys in India are really working on themselves. Agreed that constraints are put on girls by the society, but good guys are also putting self imposed constraints to equate the bar. Not all guys are the same.
The author is writing about natural problems. What we, guys, can do in that? Even you cannot control it, nobody can! And to be honest, all of us do not even have any option.
Plus, there are many girls/women who do not think the way our author does. Except for some points, many girls/women do not and would not agree with our author. She is just cursing herself for being born a female.
yet even in western countries there's "serious issues" like rape, acid attacks and shit. well done, trying hard to invalidate other people's experiences... yikes.
Your and others experiences have been invalidated because they are invalid.
No woman is oppressed in the west. Not one. They have more power and influence then men, who no longer have a voice in the west. In fact so much power and influence that they can boldly and shamelessly make statements like: “believe women” with no one batting an eye or raising a voice in objection…at least not anyone with power. Believe women huh? All of them? Just believe all of them? Just automatically believe all they say particularly on the subject of rape just because they’re a women and a woman would never lie, no, no. Why they’re not even capable of lying and manipulation.
Think how bold one must be to make such statements based on an obviously false concept that is plain to see….. and yet barely anyone with any political power or clout or societal influence raised a voice in objection. In fact the only person with any measure it influence that publicly objected to such a concept was the comedian and now actor Bill Burr.
No one has invalidated the experiences of western women better than western women themselves because only they have the audacity to wield such societal influence and political power to make such declarations with very little opposition and still…. still claim to be oppressed…and furthermore lie so well they believe their own lie. That they are oppressed. Gtfoh!
Oh @Subarugirl sometimes you let your irrational fears get to you. If you actually get put into the real world, most people respect each other and don’t have this narrow minded view of the world like you claim… come on now, you’re a smart person… think sometimes girl…
When’s the last time you had someone harass you in public? Because that happened to me last week on my way from the grocery store to my car. In the real world a rape case was completely dropped because the woman was wearing red underwear…
@Subarugirl about 3 years ago. And I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s awful and nobody should go through that. And as far as your claim about a case being dropped because of red underwear whatever that has to do with it, there’s probably more to the story than meets the eye… don’t believe everything you see on the internet.
@Subarugirl so a shitty judge or two speaks on how society treats western women? Come on… being a woman in a western country is one of the biggest privileges any young woman can ask for…
@Subarugirl maybe women should just never date men ever again? I think the most empowering thing women could do for themselves is just distance themselves from guys completely… women over there, men over there and just let society crumble faster than it already is…
@Subarugirl no I live in reality and this unicorn fairy tale world that people like you try and say is possible, will never happen! There’s always going to be racists, sexists, and all the isms and ists in between… so if we really wanted to correct this, maybe everyone on this planet should commit mass suicide, that way there’s no possibility of these kinds of people to exist anymore… I think that’s honestly a great idea… don’t you?
Women face difficulties throughout their life be it being a daughter , wife or mother, least we could do is give boys a good upbringing and teach them to respect women around them
A lot of men are given a good upbringing. How come we never speak about women being given a good upbringing and are taught to respect the men around them. How many boys were told to never hit a girl? How many girls were told never to hit a boy? My personal poll has confirmed to me that most boys were taught just that, meanwhile most girls weren't told any such thing. A few of both were told never to hit others, which is the correct advice.
@Screamsgutter no the girls were busy being taught to cover up because if there were showing skin when they were sexually assaulted they were asking for it.
@Violetsunshine6 Because we earn it. Women expect it and think they're entitled to it just because they're a woman. You must do something that will earn the respect of someone you want it from. Don't ask for it. That's like a man going up to a woman and saying "will you be my girlfriend?" Its pathetic and weak and no man would do that. As its begging. No one respects beggars.
I’m not a feminist honey, and if you didn’t relate or like my Take, you could have don’t one of two things. Dug deep and found a scrap of empathy to think about where someone else is coming from or just scrolled on….
This is what it's like to be a man from the point of view of a woman who lived as a man for 18 months. She decided that she liked being a woman better. "I think it's more privileged"
@FriesPlz We do. It's just not all privilege. Bill Burr has a good bit where he says that women look at equality like it's a buffet. They cherry pick the privilege and don't take the responsibility.
Easier to be a woman than a black man. Hell woman even have guys approaching them. Guys don’t unless you’re dressed in a suit on a constant basis and women think you have money. Happened to me because I love to dress well and I love to test gold diggers.
just read the rest of comments. ouch... sorry for you going through hell. Good thing I don't have a female friend so no one will falsely accuse me of sexual assault. My friend goes to the prison last year cos his ex wife report it to police that he'd sexually touched his son. He swore on his son that he didn't. Guess female creatures can be unpredictable and dangerous. So... i'd better stay away from them. Yup, I gonna die alone Yay!
I don't know what's more evil, lying to the cops with a fabricated story involving their son and sexual abuse or the fact that she let him go to prison on that lie. A vindictive nature isn't exclusive to women, but they employ it more frequently and like a craft.
Ever hear women described as honorable... or having integrity? Only when she's a judge have I heard the word honorable before her name.
Or was there none? They just took her word for it? She just made it up?
If that's all it takes I can just make up false accusations about politicians. Say they did something unsavoury to a female sibling. And that would be the end of them.
Or I could say that a female politician did something heinous and that'd be the end of her.
That is why I have never trusted the government and the justice system. It only benefits those that can monetize it. Everyone else is screwed.
the mark of a reasonable girl is that she will find a reason for whatever she already wanted to believe. if you choose to see all that as what's happening that's your fault. it's not true. it's biased and ignoring all the benefits you get in EVERY situation... but you don't care
Just because I talk about the disadvantages doesn’t mean I don’t recognize the benefits. The interesting thing here is that you’re trying to tell me that I haven’t experienced the things I have experienced… feel free to tell me which part you think is false
Like what’s a good day? I didn’t get raped or sexually assaulted today, yay. I wasn’t objectified because I have a vagina, yay…. I’m talking about a specific type of issues that affect a specific group of people. If that doesn’t apply to you, you are welcome to just move along. However if you are offended it is most likely because you feel attacked…
Oh stop with the exaggerated likeliness of being raped or sexually assaulted around every corner. Objectified... people will see you however they want to see you. You'll never have control over what people think in their head or how they view you.
Oh absolutely. Words and actions can be heard and seen. How someone sees you, what someone thinks of you and how you're viewed by others are internal. I guess I was thinking of a more subtle form of objectification.
@Snsl153 44 year old man is way different than a 40 year old woman. Women's value decline exponentially w/ age. Men's value go up. I think marriage is silly for a man to begin w/ but I certainly can't imagine why any man would want to marry a 40+ year old. That's nothing against them I bang plenty of the but marriage? Seems pretty unrealistic.
I'm always pleased to see people talk about this. I don't hear enough how women really have to live. The second to last section especially; I don't remember asking mens opinions on how I live ever but yet we'll always doing something wrong to them
I am going to catch a lot of shit over this BUT the lady is right. She hit the mark on everything. I know that it does not fit 100% of everything but darn close. Now come the thousands of reasons of why I am wrong. LMFAO!
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I don't know, I feel like it comes down to what we all experienced ourselves. When it comes to our bodies, I don't expect them to understand, but to cope. As for the victim blamers... screw them, their opinion doesn't help things. The nice guys expecting something cause they bought you a drink? Yep, screw them, they're not worth the time. Manipulators in general are just people we should all avoid. Just keep in mind that there are good people out there as well.
@JosyJosy Women aren't worth the effort anymore. They haven't been worth it for a long time.
Its funny seeing a lot of them asking where are all the good men. We are all good men. We are just ignoring you like you did to us in highschool. The difference is women lose power as they age. Men gain power through wisdom. Wisdom can only be gained from experience and learning from your mistakes.
Many women don't learn. They keep repeating the same mistakes expecting different results. That will never work.
@jellybeanyoghurt damn someone is salty about their unrelated highschool experience. If women aren't worth the effort for you then shut up and don't insult them.
@jellybeanyoghurt for something you don’t think is worth the effort, it would seem you’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about it…
Exactly
@Subarugirl have you ever put up a post that’s empathetic towards men and/or critical of female behaviors?
Admittedly I have vented plenty on here about my frustrations towards women ESPECIALLY “modern” feminist women. However I do own up to my mistakes. I wrote an entire post about the past mistakes I made and how I improved since then.
But seriously have you ever once admitted being wrong about something?
Lies! Being women is a privilege. I envy how easy their life is. Men are treated by society as ugly, unwanted, expendable, worthless, second class citizens. The world is gynocentric. Even nature itself designed women to be superior than men in a hierarchy of entities.
Your not telling us anything new or surprising what you've wrote is pretty much a copy and past of every article on how women have it worse then anyone else that we've seen countless times before.
And what do you think we have just such easy lives or something? Grass ain't any greener on this side of the fence.
OMG…stop the man bashing please…. You must be PMSing 🙃 or spotting 🩸 with all the negativity🤪 Silliest rant ever over-looking designedBlessing as self-preserver childbirth. Why do women not value this? I’ll never understand, especially, since most want to self-preserve in some form of continued living upon death (AFTERLIFE).
Even though is both Self and Others excessive, she worships herself. Creature worships herself focusing solely upon Self’s body. What about Self’s spirituality❓
you are basically telling us to ignore pur serious problems?
@Violetsunshine6 No, go cry to Mommie and stay there or get out in the 🌎 🌍 🌏 AND move on about yourself. 😫. I’m so troubled in the richest country in the world because I own vagina🤨. 😩
They do not complain like that whiny rant in Developing World. MOST PEOPLE PRAY TO HAVE YOUR PROBLEMS.
UKRAINE for a here and now SE Asia for last 30 years‼️
so u assumed I'm from a developed country. surprise I'm from a developing country.
Lol ohh how terrible... you know what men got throughout history. We got to work ourselves to an realy grave. Go down with a sinking ship. Have a rifle / sword / whatever shaped into our hand and marched off to due a brutal death. We got to to hall the hard manual labor to build all your cities and roads and plumbing and electrical wires and everything else that makes your modern convenient life so enjoyable.
Suddenly them cramps don't seem so bad do they
Those men kept women from being able to fight. The moment women could join the US military, they did. How odd! You can't really say all that when women weren't allowed to do that, even if they wanted to.
@Femphile_xoxo you are so right, before women were allowed to join the military they would disguise themself to join, that happened a lot during the civil war specifically
Is they why when the female draft was getting considered feminist organizations came from all over to try and stop it. Face it ladies your not they only people who had it bad throughout history. At any point throughout history you could have fought for equal rights. Strange that only when technological progress has eliminated much of the risk associated with those rights that you now want them
Sure! We're definitely not the only ones who had it hard in history. Plenty of groups have faced discrimination time and time again.
Before technology, there were still plenty of women's rights movements. You might not hear about them because they were easier to shut down without a way to constantly shout it out loud.
Every time us gals talk about sexism and our life as women, we're not putting down those other groups. We're simply talking about the problems we face due to sexism and misogyny.
Actually if you take a look, it was the Conservative party who shot down the bill that would also require women to register for selected service… that was just last year
@Femphile_xoxo They made women exempt from being drafted to protect them, not to oppress them. It was also a hundred years ago when society and the family dynamic were a lot different.
That's because the conflict was in our home territories and not in some distant land. And I think it's great that some women did this. Life was also harder in so many different ways for all people back then. Trying to assimilate it to today's standards would be quite absurd.
As for women signing up in droves, the US military is about 20% women, so let's not get carried away with womens' participation.
@Screamsgutter the Conservative party shot down the bill that would require women to register for selective service like men are required to do
That couldn't been in any part because a lot of women were in opposition of it, could it?
@Screamsgutter considering that majority of the of the party outspoken against is were male... I'm inclined to believe it's their fault it didn't pass
Do you think husbands and fathers, whether they're representatives or just normal citizens, are gonna risk alienating their wives and daughters by voting for a bill that would possibly put either of them in harm's way, especially if the opinions of the women in their lives match what more than half of the women are saying on this post alone?
Don't forget, there are more women than men in this country by about two million. It's not wise to piss off the majority vote.
Don't forget menopause , it only gets worse with the change of life and some have early onset , have no problem with both men and women being confronted if they are not the correct weight , with regards to " Slut walk " , a little common sense in presentation makes sense , association is everything..
Well in my country there are very serious issues like rape, acid attacks, dowry deaths etc. that are fairly common.
Thank God someone finally said this from personal experience, though I am sorry to hear this is your reality. Truly I am.
What’s your view on these spoiled western women crying about how oppressed they are? What do women where you are think of these types of complaints?
Western women are not oppressed especially white Western women.
Agreed.
@babygirl_s Thank you. I have been saying this for years. The white woman has the least of all issues yet complains the most. All she wants is attention because she knows people will give it and put her on a pedestal.
Yes! I completely agree with you!
But the really very serious problems you stated are man made. Trust me, guys in India are really working on themselves. Agreed that constraints are put on girls by the society, but good guys are also putting self imposed constraints to equate the bar. Not all guys are the same.
The author is writing about natural problems. What we, guys, can do in that?
Even you cannot control it, nobody can! And to be honest, all of us do not even have any option.
Plus, there are many girls/women who do not think the way our author does. Except for some points, many girls/women do not and would not agree with our author. She is just cursing herself for being born a female.
yet even in western countries there's "serious issues" like rape, acid attacks and shit.
well done, trying hard to invalidate other people's experiences... yikes.
@Snake
Your and others experiences have been invalidated because they are invalid.
No woman is oppressed in the west. Not one. They have more power and influence then men, who no longer have a voice in the west. In fact so much power and influence that they can boldly and shamelessly make statements like: “believe women” with no one batting an eye or raising a voice in objection…at least not anyone with power. Believe women huh? All of them? Just believe all of them? Just automatically believe all they say particularly on the subject of rape just because they’re a women and a woman would never lie, no, no. Why they’re not even capable of lying and manipulation.
Think how bold one must be to make such statements based on an obviously false concept that is plain to see….. and yet barely anyone with any political power or clout or societal influence raised a voice in objection. In fact the only person with any measure it influence that publicly objected to such a concept was the comedian and now actor Bill Burr.
No one has invalidated the experiences of western women better than western women themselves because only they have the audacity to wield such societal influence and political power to make such declarations with very little opposition and still…. still claim to be oppressed…and furthermore lie so well they believe their own lie. That they are oppressed. Gtfoh!
@SnakeBoop What acid attacks actually happen in Western countries?
@ManOnFire insteresting that you focused on that and didn't address her point on rape...
@Still-alive Because rape happens everywhere. Acid attacks don't, and she still didn't answer my question.
@Exterminatore Well said brother. Women will of course deny it or try and change the subject 🙄
@Jelly
Thank you sir and agreed.
Oh @Subarugirl sometimes you let your irrational fears get to you. If you actually get put into the real world, most people respect each other and don’t have this narrow minded view of the world like you claim… come on now, you’re a smart person… think sometimes girl…
When’s the last time you had someone harass you in public? Because that happened to me last week on my way from the grocery store to my car. In the real world a rape case was completely dropped because the woman was wearing red underwear…
@Subarugirl about 3 years ago. And I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s awful and nobody should go through that. And as far as your claim about a case being dropped because of red underwear whatever that has to do with it, there’s probably more to the story than meets the eye… don’t believe everything you see on the internet.
@Subarugirl and what’s the point of bringing up cat calling?
www.google.com/.../echr-criticises-italian-court-for-referring-to-red-underwear-in-case
Here is a good article that covers the details
Oh and don’t forget about Brock turner for raping an unconscious woman
www.google.com/.../index.html
@Subarugirl so a shitty judge or two speaks on how society treats western women? Come on… being a woman in a western country is one of the biggest privileges any young woman can ask for…
and yet still one in seven women will experience rape or attempted rape in her left time...
@Subarugirl is that a world statistic or the US?
Oh actually it’s 1 in 6 for the United States
@Subarugirl maybe women should just never date men ever again? I think the most empowering thing women could do for themselves is just distance themselves from guys completely… women over there, men over there and just let society crumble faster than it already is…
Or maybe, and this is just an idea… maybe we should treat the source of the issue instead of just the symptoms.
@Subarugirl no I live in reality and this unicorn fairy tale world that people like you try and say is possible, will never happen! There’s always going to be racists, sexists, and all the isms and ists in between… so if we really wanted to correct this, maybe everyone on this planet should commit mass suicide, that way there’s no possibility of these kinds of people to exist anymore… I think that’s honestly a great idea… don’t you?
Women face difficulties throughout their life be it being a daughter , wife or mother, least we could do is give boys a good upbringing and teach them to respect women around them
pathetic.
A lot of men are given a good upbringing. How come we never speak about women being given a good upbringing and are taught to respect the men around them. How many boys were told to never hit a girl? How many girls were told never to hit a boy? My personal poll has confirmed to me that most boys were taught just that, meanwhile most girls weren't told any such thing. A few of both were told never to hit others, which is the correct advice.
@Screamsgutter no the girls were busy being taught to cover up because if there were showing skin when they were sexually assaulted they were asking for it.
Really? They were taught to cover up when they're in early grade school?
Some women have no respect for themselves so how can they expect others to respect them? Others are strong and don't put up with bullshit.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/xwMOC5i2eRk@daniela1982 respect is earned not given. So many people on both sides don't understand that.
@friesandsauce True I guess.
yet i have never seen a man ask for respect the same way women does because guess what they get their respect
@Violetsunshine6 Because we earn it. Women expect it and think they're entitled to it just because they're a woman.
You must do something that will earn the respect of someone you want it from.
Don't ask for it. That's like a man going up to a woman and saying "will you be my girlfriend?" Its pathetic and weak and no man would do that. As its begging. No one respects beggars.
Nice feminist rant. :)
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NoWomansLand
I’m not a feminist honey, and if you didn’t relate or like my Take, you could have don’t one of two things. Dug deep and found a scrap of empathy to think about where someone else is coming from or just scrolled on….
It was really a good rant, though not as good as this one. :)
witchwind.wordpress.com/.../
This is what it's like to be a man from the point of view of a woman who lived as a man for 18 months.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ip7kP_dd6LUShe decided that she liked being a woman better.
"I think it's more privileged"
@MrtoddsWildRide men have privilege? Since when?
@FriesPlz
We do. It's just not all privilege. Bill Burr has a good bit where he says that women look at equality like it's a buffet. They cherry pick the privilege and don't take the responsibility.
@MrtoddsWildRide yea I've seen that. I've seen pretty much all his standup and talk show appearances.
He speaks so much truth its not funny. Its ironic that he's a comedian.
Easier to be a woman than a black man. Hell woman even have guys approaching them. Guys don’t unless you’re dressed in a suit on a constant basis and women think you have money. Happened to me because I love to dress well and I love to test gold diggers.
We all have different struggles and I am empathetic of the struggles you face
I wish I could find a silver lining in all this but you make it really difficult. I appreciate my wife every single day.
I’m sure she appreciates you also
just read the rest of comments. ouch... sorry for you going through hell. Good thing I don't have a female friend so no one will falsely accuse me of sexual assault. My friend goes to the prison last year cos his ex wife report it to police that he'd sexually touched his son. He swore on his son that he didn't. Guess female creatures can be unpredictable and dangerous. So... i'd better stay away from them. Yup, I gonna die alone Yay!
I don't know what's more evil, lying to the cops with a fabricated story involving their son and sexual abuse or the fact that she let him go to prison on that lie. A vindictive nature isn't exclusive to women, but they employ it more frequently and like a craft.
Ever hear women described as honorable... or having integrity? Only when she's a judge have I heard the word honorable before her name.
@nerddg Where was the proof?
Or was there none? They just took her word for it? She just made it up?
If that's all it takes I can just make up false accusations about politicians. Say they did something unsavoury to a female sibling. And that would be the end of them.
Or I could say that a female politician did something heinous and that'd be the end of her.
That is why I have never trusted the government and the justice system. It only benefits those that can monetize it. Everyone else is screwed.
the mark of a reasonable girl is that she will find a reason for whatever she already wanted to believe. if you choose to see all that as what's happening that's your fault. it's not true. it's biased and ignoring all the benefits you get in EVERY situation... but you don't care
Just because I talk about the disadvantages doesn’t mean I don’t recognize the benefits. The interesting thing here is that you’re trying to tell me that I haven’t experienced the things I have experienced… feel free to tell me which part you think is false
you choose to talk only about the downsides... that says a lot
Probably because that is what women have issues with….
Like what’s a good day? I didn’t get raped or sexually assaulted today, yay. I wasn’t objectified because I have a vagina, yay…. I’m talking about a specific type of issues that affect a specific group of people. If that doesn’t apply to you, you are welcome to just move along. However if you are offended it is most likely because you feel attacked…
Oh stop with the exaggerated likeliness of being raped or sexually assaulted around every corner. Objectified... people will see you however they want to see you. You'll never have control over what people think in their head or how they view you.
@Screamsgutter I think people have control over how the treat others, and should be held accountable for their words and their actions.
Oh absolutely. Words and actions can be heard and seen. How someone sees you, what someone thinks of you and how you're viewed by others are internal. I guess I was thinking of a more subtle form of objectification.
Thank you, my friend, 'this', there is a healing in these words. And a man who doesn't agree with this will not be a husband of mine.
@concerned4u Wow is it really realistic to find a husband at 41?
@Vegasrunner Says the 44 year old.
@Snsl153 44 year old man is way different than a 40 year old woman. Women's value decline exponentially w/ age. Men's value go up. I think marriage is silly for a man to begin w/ but I certainly can't imagine why any man would want to marry a 40+ year old. That's nothing against them I bang plenty of the but marriage? Seems pretty unrealistic.
I'm always pleased to see people talk about this. I don't hear enough how women really have to live. The second to last section especially; I don't remember asking mens opinions on how I live ever but yet we'll always doing something wrong to them
I am going to catch a lot of shit over this BUT the lady is right. She hit the mark on everything. I know that it does not fit 100% of everything but darn close. Now come the thousands of reasons of why I am wrong. LMFAO!