What it's really like to be a woman (Page 4)

[skyeee_]

both the genders have their own problems, but fax mytake

[YesIWouldLikeFries]

Ignore the world. Do what you want to do. Don't conform to what society says.
Why anyone listens to what the government says or other governing bodies say is a puzzle to me.

Who says you have to be a certain way. Don't. Be who you want to be.

[Shamalien]

So many disgusting stereotypes in this... get a better hobby

[TheFlak38]

What it's really like to be a woman:

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Brutal

[Sangrilam]

@Subarugirl Your Comments Please ! Like every Man is not decent same not every woman is Innocent

STOP PLAYING VICTIM CARD !!!

[Sangrilam]

@Subarugirl And he quoted a Very Right Pic here ! 10/10 to @theflak38

[HormoneGuy]

What about the woman in Afghanistan being oppressed by the Taliban?
Shut up about your "oppression" and help people with real oppression.

All woman reek of hormones that are trying to turn men into radical feminists bent on destroying the world.

[Subarugirl]

Terrorism is a different topic… I think there are som other mytakes on it if you look

[HormoneGuy]

there not terrorists. In Afghanistan woman can't go outside without a burka. They can't go into someone else's house without a husband accompanying them. Their forced into marriage at 13 or 14.
Woman can't get jobs, hold positions in government, or even go to their friends house.
I presume your in the USA. While yes you definitely are oppressed, your oppression is nothing compared to some others.
Be grateful for what you have, and if you want more, then go run for office to change the world.
Be grateful that in the USA you can run for government as a woman without being scarred of assassination or armed terrorists threatening your family.

[Subarugirl]

The Taliban aren’t terrorists?…. Wow okay. I never said that other women aren’t oppressed or that people in different places have it worse. I mean take a look at what’s going on in central Africa and in Kenya.. but you can’t fix issues with out talking about them. Sweeping issues under the rug doesn’t fix them.

[BrickBiggems]

The human condition is suffering, no matter your biological hardware. The core of it in my opinion is the fact that (men and women) judge right and wrong based largely on what they want and what benefits them the most.

[AviatorTom]

As a Man, I don't know what it's like to be a woman. And do you know what, I don't really want to know. Let men and women have relationships so they can learn about each other, as individuals. And let's stop making generalities about them.

[Lookingforthetruth]

lol if you think women care about learning about men (if you are not in top 20% of males). You are a utility to help with survival and to be disregarded. Women lose attraction for male's when they open up about their feeling and problem.

[SamIam96]

wow. Your attitude seems toxic. And you blame men for your bad experiences. Have you ever contemplated your role in what happens to you?

[Subarugirl]

I was 6 years old the very first time I remember being sexually assaulted. Should I have been wearing different pajamas, what that my roll? Or maybe it was my fault because I was sitting on my grandfathers lap, and that was leading him on…. You tell me?

[SamIam96]

I'm sorry that happened to you. It's truly awful. 20 years is a long time to suffer. I hope you get the help you need.

[ManHater]

Sounds like a Femenazi who is hating on women. That's okay gut your cunt and install a cock.

[ie_amour]

your hairline is beginning to withdraw. get that checked out. no one hated on women here. they’re acknowledging how fucked our experiences are due to biological and societal effects

[ManHater]

@ie_amour you deserved it. It never was Adam and eve it was Adam and jhon.

[Ghostluck]

Ha, it's no better being a man. The grass is not greener on the other side. For all your complaints about what you go through as a woman, I can assure you we have our own list of problems on this side of the fence.

[cosmodusty]

right? yeah being female sucks, so does being male
can we just agree that life sucks sometimes lmao

[Ghostluck]

@cosmodusty 100% facts.

[RationalMale]

Waa waaa waaa. Let me play the world's smallest violin for you.

[Subarugirl]

I think you mean over half the human population...

[lrina]

@Subarugirl men have it harder in most places and no one gives a shit. so it's not fair if you're always complaining about women's struggles but never mentioning how hard men can have it sometimes.

[RationalMale]

@lrina I'd say both genders have their struggles but I appreciate your comment.

[lrina]

i'd have to agree, they each have their own entirely separate struggles that are often difficult for the other gender to understand

[Subarugirl]

@lrina no one said that they don’t and I have spoken about male specific issues, this topic how ever is about female specific issues.

[RationalMale]

But instead of actually citing anything you went for vague emotional appeals. In real life men are just as likely to be victims of domestic violence as women, for example.

[lrina]

@Subarugirl tbh some of the problems that you claimed for females to have aren't even relatable for many females, and just the way you worded things really made it seem like you made male issues seem less important/not as bad.

[westy_1]

Subaru Girl, you are so right on! Wish you'd kept going. I was just getting riled up because all that you wrote is true. Write on. There is so much more to be said.

[Asad1ONE1]

You actually meant "What it's really like to be me".

[Subarugirl]

If that were true don’t you think more women in the comments saying that… no. Most of the comments I’ve gotten from women are in agreement as opposed to a bunch of guys getting mad at me for what I’ve experience.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yea I was exaggerating lol

[Asad1ONE1]

Every man and women thinks differently though.

[Tstrbrainer]

If you don't want to shave, don't shave, but don't expect all guys to find that attractive.

And be smart, but don't expect men to find that attractive.

And don't accept drinks unless you want to have sex with him.

[Still-alive]

that last ones pretty stupid bro... just saying...

[Tstrbrainer]

Why? Why should I buy her a drink if I don't wanna bang her?

[Still-alive]

the expectation of 'banging her' shouldn't come from just buying her a drink dude lol wtf

[Tstrbrainer]

I meant alcohol. Different people have different expectations, it's better a woman not accept free drinks from someone she's not attracted to.

[Still-alive]

those expectations are stupid

[Tstrbrainer]

I have to protect my time and money

[Tstrbrainer]

You are free to have no expectations, so why should it affect you?

[Still-alive]

you can have expectations but i would applaud any self respecting woman who just shunned you right after you buy them a drink lmao. would be hilarious

[Tstrbrainer]

Bro, that's why I said women should have the deceny to not accept drinks from someone they don't wanna have sex with

[Subarugirl]

I think men should have the decency to not expect sex for buying a random person at the bar a drink they didn’t ask for.

[Tstrbrainer]

You can always decline, right?

[Subarugirl]

Like you said, different people have different expectations. If you really wanted to protect your time and money you would be more wise about who you chose to spend it on.. for example not some random chick at the bar.

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, it's pretty known that men want sex, right? I see a random chick I wanna bang and I offer her a drink. If she doesn't feel the same, she can decline. It's simple

[Subarugirl]

Like you said, different people have different expectations. I don't automatically assume every man who talks to me or is polite to me wants to get in my pants. Regardless of a man's intention, buying me an 8 dollar drink that I didn't ask for isn't going to buy his way into my pants and if you think that it should, you should revaluate your mentality other wise you are just setting yourself up for failure.

[Tstrbrainer]

So what is the reason you think a random guy is buying you a drink?

[lightbulb27]

Sounds quite awful at times. Just the monthly mood and physical stuff is enough.


Maybe time to turn off the expectations.

[DaySpring]

Good read. I will try to take inventory of my own behaviors and do my individual part in making the world better for women and ultimately all people.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

No one says “boys will be boys” and it’s harmful that you would tell people that that it’s a thing. Stop perpetuating toxicity.

[Subarugirl]

I’ve heard it used countless times

[BrickBiggems]

In my experience that phrase is very rarely used. I find it worrying that people now days are pointing to that phrase and say that it's wrong. Boys acting like boys is not inherently wrong. Just as girls acting like girls isn't inherently wrong. I think it's more important to focus on the specific behaviors that are wrong rather than generalizing.

[nycres]

Oh I've heard it plenty. While there's some truth to it, it is not an excuse for disrespecting women (or worse)

[AllThatSweetJazz]

I’ve really only ever heard it used by feminists trying to claim there’s a problem or in jest. No one says it in the context that feminists assert.

[I_Can_Help]

It can't be THAT bad, princess :)

[invalid1]

Some women project their personal issues as women struggles as a whole...
Nevermind, I am just a misogynist.

[jshm2]

Nah kiddo, that is just your cynicism and projection of what it's like "to be a woman".

[Subarugirl]

I’m just talking my personal experiences