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Title of this should really be, "What it's really liked in my messed up head".
It takes empathy and intelligence to see from a different point of view
Given your post, you're admitting you lack both.
I’m talking about experience. Not one woman has disagreed with this post.. but for some reason it seems to upset you. I wonder why that is? Are my experiences really that upsetting to you?
No, because unlike you, I don't generalize all in from one sex.
Might not want to project your feelings unto others.
I don’t want to start a fight, I agree that men are victimized and generalized, but the bit about people blaming clothes instead of men is a very large problem, ( ofc it’s not all men, just a few really creepy ones)
A few creepy guys, I can definitely accept.
And blaming the clothes I can also understand being a problem.
Well you do have a choice on whether you want children or not on whether to go through all that and women do live longer than men. Both sexes have their plus and minuses
@Likes2drive I'm going to live to 120. How do I know you may ask? Because I have the will to. I will myself to do a lot of things that other people would give up on.
You have nothing better to do with your fucking time? And by the way you're being mocked and berated in a shit ton of facebook and discord groups. I'm so sick of it seeing it.
That’s cool
@ronaldo75 we need to all abandon social media as a start. Its a complete and utter waste of time.
I don't have any by the way. I deleted them all. My life is so much better without it.
@jellybeanyoghurt this is a social media platform...
@Subarugirl This is a forum. Not a social media platform.
@jellybeanyoghurt well then you should talk to gag about how they describe their site "GirlsAskGuys is your social community "... not forum... social
dear god, anything but the facebook groups! woe is me!
What it's really like to be a man: Being sent to die in a foreign land in a war you don't understand.
What world do you live in... I wanna live in that world too. Because in my world you would go to jail or at least world would hate you but if a woman does it everybody laugh and if you complain people will say how hard a woman can hit? Chill!!!
being a woman from what i can tell is just amazing, where you can give birth, you are able to be a mother, a friend, a lover and a wife all in one. and anyone who tells you otherwise is just wrong.
Certian parts are amazing others are aren’t. I’m just talking about my own personal experience which turns out most women can relate to.
All very good points and well written, would be interested to see what ur thought on what it’s like to be a man would be? A one sided argued isn’t an argument.
It’s not an argument it’s a my take
Ah ok
Pregnancy is more than difficult, but women hold so much social and societal power at this point in time.
Just as long as you realize you do not speak for all women.
no of course not, just most of them.
I'm thinking that most women don't live their lives feeling like a victim.
And while the life you describe may have been MOST women's experience
in 1922 I'm pretty sure in 2022 it's inaccurate. Except for the part about pregnancy
and menopause which you can't want sympathy for because well... life happens.
Men are slaves to what their bodies do as well.
From my experience, women judge other women much more harshly than men do.
And without a doubt, the men's attitudes you describe in your post are rare and
no where near the norm. And one more thing... if you don't want to shave, don't.
Just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Most women can relate to most of what I've said. And by men's attitude you mean the last part about the men who get upset when buying a stranger a drink doesn't lead to sex? It wasn't that long ago I was in an airport bar when a man initiated a conversation with me, offered to buy me a drink which I politely refused, then became aggressive for "wasting his time" because I wouldn't give him my cell phone number... That kind of thing happens all the time.
Did you just get cheated on? lol what's going on? Talk to us
I thought I would share my experience on what it’s like to grow up being a female, give people an inside look on what it’s like.
oh ok, I thought maybe you were venting, that's the third question in a similar vein.
I’m often influenced to talk about topics that effect me, or large groups of people like me.
Fair enough, I hope this doesn't bring you down too much on a day to day basis
That sounds difficult. The Take does not tell me anything I didn't know already, but it reminds me that knowing and understanding are two different things.
Totally fcking true.
But because 58% of white women voted for Trump there’s no demand to re-enact the Violence Against Women Act and other feminist policies.
I'm sorry but some of the men in this comment section are just downright uneducated.
I read the entire post and all i can say is... daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn
:-(
personally i think women are seen to be more emotional but we actually deal with it well. Physically we are not as strong as males but we can learn to the best of our ability to strengthen up our body.
I often thought that it would be great to be a girl.
Me as well. Always wondered what it would be like to go be a punk and slap people, then say: “I’m a woman, you know it’s socially unacceptable to hit me no matter how much of an a hole I am.”
be glad that as a woman, you don't have to approach a guy or ask them out, hit them up
Men don’t have to either. How ever I did and we’ve been married 5 years now.
did you also ask him out first? ya but if a guy doesn't do that, he is very likely to remain perpetually single/celibate
That’s funny because almost everyone else I know who is in a relationship, hand the man make the first move and they didn’t have any issues…
what do you mean they didn't have any issues?
Aww poor baby. Im sorry we make it hard for you and other women
Still doing the victim thing, I see. Still complaining.
Actually I was just talking about what most women in the US experience
Is whining that you and all women are victims satisfying?
everything you wrote here screams "victim"
Than maybe you are reading it wrong
no, you wrote it wrong
No I wrote it how it is… otherwise you would see a bunch of women disagreeing instead they find it relatable. It’s interesting that you are upset with me for experiencing those things
It's interesting to me and also annoying that you find it necessary to shit all over men every chance you get
I’m not shitting on them, I’m talking about current social issues that disproportionately affect women.
Poor baby. Talk about the social; issues that disproportionately kill men some time.
I have. Like how men are 2x more likely t commit suicide
Write a mytake about it. Include the fact that mostly men die in wars to protect you.
Actually the leading cause of death for men in the United States is heart disease, followed by cancer,….
I know that, and that is not the point.
Then what is? That women aren’t required to register for selective service? You can blame the Conservative party for shooting that bill down last year.
@dysrhythmicheart I think that is a fantastic idea!
@dysrhythmicheart I am triggered because I am tired of reading about women whining and bitching about how rough they have it. Try being a man just for a month.
As someone who works in heath care, I’m surprised you aren’t a little more empathetic towards currant social issues.
I don't feel the need to support people who ignore the problems of men and pretend that the only people who have problems are women.
No one is saying that women are the only ones who have problems. Men have plenty of problems too, like the lack of a support system, being two times more likely to die of suicide, being told by society that their only real value is their ability to make money, don't even get me started on the family court... and unrealistic expectations that are being shoved down the throats of young boys as soon as they are able to walk.
No one is saying that men don't have issues, and talking about issues that disproportionally effects women as opposed to men doesn't mean that men don't have issues, it just means they have different issues.
It would have been nice if you had acknowledged that and stated it at the beginning.
Probably because I was talking about what it’s like to be a woman, not what it’s like to be a man.
still.
It just a different topic
sure.
You think men and women are the same?
I think your need to have the last work is a bit obnoxious, so no.
Actually 75% of suicides are men, which is a lot more than 2x as many women.
@Screamsgutter For women, men only count when they are providing.
I'd like to disagree, but sadly I've learned that it's rather true.
Stop saying “boys will be boys” that’s just continually pushing the narrative
I agree, people should stop using that as excuse for violent and bad behavior.
How come you didn’t say people should stop using that statement because it categorizes all men into one group?
I have and it’s obvious that is should be which is clearly the point when you consider the context