What it's really like to be a woman (Page 6)

[dolemite89]

I can’t imagine being ur husband having to listen to ur feminist whining all the time, u always remind me of this clip 🤣🤣

https://www.youtube.com/embed/L-gbacsUKpc

[Ryfyle]

Recently divorced then. Man, how quickly things change.

[Ringstretch]

I would imagine it's very difficult, demanding and stressful. The world would be a better place if women were in charge

[bigslab]

Different women have different upbringings and lifestyles likewise different men have different upbringings and lifestyles

[Anonymous]

If you are being abused, this is not the place to report it in a series of increasingly manic rantings.

[Exterminatore]

😂😂😂😂😂

[krin_m]

Hopefully the society is changing for better by addressing these issues. Or at least, that is my hope!

[Jamie05rhs]

Good take. Thanks for sharing.

[Subarugirl]

Thank you

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome! :)

[UsernameXLTX]

Only certian type of women feel this way and we all know the type.

[FriesPlz]

@usernamexltx Post wall trash is the term.

[TrillXHippy]

I don’t know and never will know what it’s like to be a woman

[anton_dee]

Humans have created a world filled with eternal sufferings.

[TallAnon]

My general solution is: Stop caring about what others think.

[ragooo8]

This is completely sexist

[Subarugirl]

And unfortunately true.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

For it to be true , may be true for you as pov.

[ragooo8]

Try being a man in this society. There's a reason why male suicide is so high.

[Subarugirl]

You do realize that females attempt suicide more than 2x more than men do right? Men are just more successful because they chose more violent methods…

[Subarugirl]

Neither is good.

[ragooo8]

When wkmen do it its a cry for attention. When men do it then it's by very practical painless as possible means like a gun, hanging, carbon monoxide, toaster in the bath. Not more violent, more practical

[Subarugirl]

How do you know that? Is that a proven fact or is that just your opinion? Also more effective method of suicide are typically more violent and if you look at the statistics of the method of suicide you will see that men are more likely to chose a more violent method. You will also see that men are less likely to seek medical or mental health treatment.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol it's nothing to compete about 🤣

[Subarugirl]

@Aakash_Hangargi no it’s not a competition it’s facts.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Its information for sure but not a fact

[Subarugirl]

@Aakash_Hangargi actually I have studies that would say other wise.

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1121551/

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3539603/

[ragooo8]

By violent you mean successful. You slash your wrists or take pills its less likely to succeed and most women that attempt suicide know this. Shooting yourself in the head is vey practical.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Varying data cannot be considered as fact , fact is something definite and constant that doesn't vary

[Screamsgutter]

The fact is that men kill themselves about three times more often than women do. Leads me to believe those men weren't screwing around when they wanted to end it.

[Subarugirl]

And I am sure that we can all agree that blowing your brains out with bullet is more violent method than over dosing on pills.

[Screamsgutter]

Yep, more violent and more likely to succeed over a pill overdose, especially when the fatal dose for most drugs aren't exactly known unless you deliberately look it up, then will still differ from person to person.

There was a time when ephedrine was easy to get here in the States (gas stations often sold it to truck drivers, but not anymore, at least not where I'm from), and after I don't know how many years of loving that crap, I built up quite a tolerance to it. Since I was using higher and higher doses to get the desired effects from the drug, I thought I'd give its lethality a better look. According to sources I read, a lethal dose of ephedrine ranged between 580mg and 620mg at once (what was sold around me were 10mg pills). Turns out just to feel something from them I was doing 800mg at once, seven days a week. That's 80 pills at once. I don't take it anymore, and I have no idea what higher dose would've finally knocked me out for good. So yes, overdosing on pills is of much less certainty.

[Subarugirl]

@Screamsgutter are you in therapy? It might be a good idea

[Screamsgutter]

I was seeing a therapist I guess ten years ago for depression, so not exactly a stranger to it, but it's been a while. Gave me some antidepressants, of which the first two didn't work, but the third was a charm (Pristiq - it was like brand new then). Got less depressed, then after making sure I could go off the meds and still be as less depressed, I did. That was five years ago.

"... well, maybe you should go back to one". :) Beat ya to it.

[Subarugirl]

@Screamsgutter actually I was going to just recommend a counselor not a therapist. Mental health is important

[Screamsgutter]

What kind of counselor?

[eyiphoneuser]

Ok I understand some points. But body hair issue is much worse for men

[Subarugirl]

I don’t see men being shaped for not changing their legs or underarms.. when is the last time you saw an add advertising body hair removal on a man’s legs or underarms? Because I don’t think I’ve ever seen one.

[eyiphoneuser]

But madam you ignoring men's chest, abdomen and back hair and it's removal.

[Subarugirl]

Not at all women are judged wayyy more harshly for that then men are.

[eyiphoneuser]

Women don't have hair there... at least they're fortunate.
And it would be acceptable to have natural female leg or underarm hair if more and more women opted to keep it somewhat natural.
You know most women keep their legs/underarms so shaved bare that we men who aren't used to women being much personal/close end up believing that women naturally have so bare skin... that's what we see everywhere even in TV/movie/magazine.
And we beleive it might be that women have natural bare legs since they naturally have bare face /torso and thighs

[eyiphoneuser]

Maybe. But men are judged and even are unable to get into relationship since women don't want such men who could grow back /chest or abdomen hair.

[Subarugirl]

Lol according to who because my husband has both and I think he’s sexy AF

[eyiphoneuser]

In general especially in the USA or society that's influenced by the American society men with chest and stomach hair isn't liked and back hair is seen as really disgusting Neanderthal trait.

[eyiphoneuser]

Your husband even has hairy back?

[Subarugirl]

Everyone has back hair, and yes he does

[eyiphoneuser]

🤔 everyone has back hair? Are you talking about hardly visible peach fuzz? ...
I was talking about actual coarse and long back hair..

[eyiphoneuser]

And I was also talking about some real coarse dense chest and stomach hair.. thats what women dislike and judge

[Subarugirl]

my husband has both and I like it, a lot of women do

[eyiphoneuser]

Ok maybe your husband has actual coarse long-ish dense hair on his back and front chest too.
But I still wonder what made you say that" everyone" has back hair. Seriously... not even every man has back hair , and obviously women don't have back hair naturally as they don't have chest or stomach hair.
Women in general have lower leg hair and sometimes they have visible forearm hair too that's it.
I personally feel more women should at least at some point let their leg /arm hair be natural and visible so that we men realise that women do have somewhat visible hair on lower legs too and they're not so bare bald skinned as we expect/see them all the time. We'd be then used to seeing some leg hair and wouldn't expect it to be dolphin smooth then

[eyiphoneuser]

Which country are you from and met actual women who happen to like not only hairy chest but also like hairy back? Because I haven't known any

[Subarugirl]

I live in Oregon and worked at a pool for almost 3 years. Yes everyone has chest and back hair some just have more than others

[Bricealan]

I'm calling you correct on all counts.

[TrueConfection]

I'm not a victim.

[dustybiker]

I agree with you. This doesn’t portray every woman perfectly. I forgive that with respect to the askers personal experiences though.

[Subarugirl]

Neither am I, but there is a difference between being victimized and being a victim.

[TrueConfection]

I agree that the two are not the same. Everyone has been victimized at some point though, that doesn't define what being a woman is like.

[TrueConfection]

@dustybiker I agree. We all react to situations differently. I personally refuse to be a victim.

[Subarugirl]

not always, however human are the product of their experiences.

[TrueConfection]

Well, I'll just agree to disagree on that.

[Subarugirl]

It's a matter of nature vs nurture. If you look at the physical and psychological impact that neglect and abuse has on a child and the effects of that abuse has on their development there is a clear difference between the development of children who were not abused and those who were. It's a matter of science that has been researched for decades. The impact of what are considered social norms and what behaviors are deemed appropriate and "acceptable" vs what are not are being learned by babies before they can even walk or talk. They have as much of a subconscious impact as much as they do a conscious one. What you experience, what you live through and how you deal with it shapes you as a person whether you know it or not.

[TrueConfection]

Are you talking about women or babies?

[Subarugirl]

Babies grow into women. Either way it's a good example of how what a person experiences effects them, consciously and subconsciously. A woman who has been molested or violently raped will carry that experience around with her for the rest of her life, whether she wants to or not, it effects her.

[AugustReliable]

both women and men suffer in this world... stop this crying

[Aurora1010]

I love being a woman

[bowenw]

Thank you for sharing.

[Violetsunshine6]

the comment section is a joke

[jellybeanyoghurt]

Triggered are we? 😂😂😂😂

[Violetsunshine6]

it is a joke because I'm laughing at the triggered guys?

[MrCommodore]

Interesting read, it's true.