Why "Beautiful" Girls Don't Reply & How To Get a Response (Page 2)
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I agree with what you said, but I honestly don't know why Men bother with women, save all that time and energy and focus on building a great career and enjoy the fruits of your labour.
lol. thats seriously funny
And women are attracted to success (not in terms of income) and independence. One thing that drew me to my boyfriend was his determination to work and work hard!
Actually, I find that girls with bf's talk to me more because I'm no longer a threat lol. Anyways, yeah you're right. Hot girls are generally very busy and they have guys constantly hitting them up wherever they go. I recently closed my online dating account after a week of using it. So I know what you're talking about with the "hey whats up?" messages guys send.
However, looks matter!!! Hot girls do want a hot guy. Standards go up because they can. So that's another reason why they do not respond as well.
Finally someone gets it. A hot girl wants a hot guy. Like usually bigger people prefer someone close to their size. Same with skinny/ier people. It doesn't make them shallow cause they go for looks. The personality also depends rather or not they will stay or leave.
The truth is some people just don't think I am attractive. We reach for people we know are out of our league and expect them to respond and when they don't they find a way to blame them for being "superficial" and shit like that. Some of us bring it upon ourselves. Lol at dudes that get mad when a girl doesn't reply and calls her a "whore/slut." Also lol at girls that call guys pigs/assholes/jerks/superficial when they are doing the exact same thing. Just lol at people in general.
So true. I reply to everyone, with all kinds of messages but if they just say "hey", my reply can rarely be any more interesting than a simple "hi" though. Most of the time conversations that start that way dies out. I prefer having people mention something personal when they send me a message so I feel like they're actually interested in talking to me. Even a "Hey, so you're from Turkey?" works.
Totally agree and understand!
I don’t think the issue is the fact that you stop responding as crappy of a move that is. The issue is that, at least for tinder anyway, you are more than welcome to delete the match. It’s easy for you to do and it lets the guy know not to expect anything else from you. If you don’t use tinder, I’m sure it wouldn’t kill you to say “sorry I’m no longer interested” for five seconds. It again let’s the guy know not to expect anything anymore. At those points then you can block him. If it’s many guys, you can copy and paste the message.
I’d much rather know that you are done instead of leaving me confused and wondering what the heck is going on, thinking that you are just busy and stuff like that.
This is a good take. It's fairly common sense, to be honest. On this site, I've noticed there's a lot of people, girls & guys, that really seem to believe they're better than everyone else. I simply don't bother with them. And a lot of sex-crazied users, who either enjoy harassing others, or just can't help themselves. I don't message anyone initially, though a few message me, for an opinion. Less stressful, for me, that way.
Meh... I'm just not one for messages. I'm just on here to answer questions and ask them.
I'm the same too. I only message people that I know well and in irl.
I do reply but only to the people who stick out from everyone else just 'hi' or "hey" is really boring and makes me then meh I won't bother
I do the same. :)
:) yey
"talk to her around the site 1st, if she finds you or the conversation interesting she'll inbox you" ^^ more times than not... you see a lot of guys just say "HI" but just like you said, they fail to realise that she gets about 40 messages per day ^^
most of them are so generic that they become just another guy to the girl LOLOLOL they fail to ask themselves this"what sets me apart from the rest of these guys"?
most guys here are so GENERIC its funny so i agree with you and hannah's take
I completely agree with you and am so happy you made this take!
Thanks :)
Usually the personne who don't answer or block people are the people who have been ignored in real life by others or the peorsonnes who can't have a good convo with others, if not, it's so nice just to say a few words, "please don't message me" !
:)
I forgot to say, it's not about be beautiful or not, usually the most beautifull girls answer more and better than stupid uglly girls lol !
(My experience :))
Oh, poor hot chicks. Too many options is a hell of a lot better than no options. It's like hundreds of men are delivering you various sorts of food. Maybe most of them aren't very appealing, but lobster and sushi and steak are in there, as well. Meanwhile, other people starve to death, wishing for a shoe to chew on. I understand that It may be tedious, but at least throw in the contrast: not as bad as having no options.
yeah you're right. even if a girl is not beautiful, boys just jump on them if they see her online. but in real life, guys normally go behind a girl who's good looking.
I dont waste my time chasing girls around like a dog in heat never have but I imagine the reason they dont reply is because they all think there gods gift. in their eyes your below them and not worth there time so your not wort speaking to. the reason i dont waste my time with it.
Moral: 'Be Different', if you want attention. However you'll still waste your time if you're trying in wrong place.
by the way I have a doubt, who is beautiful? I think it applies on famous girls, not beautiful girls.
Yeah, I love it when a get a message from someone with good grammar and opens the conversation with a great question or comment. Anyone is more likely to reply.
Exactly & Ermm.. can I get the answer to my second paragraph? Do you agree?
Anyone can be beautiful to you, as it's subjective.
Oh it was subjective. Thanks :)
by the way great take again, TakeQueen of GAG.
Oh that's a nice title haha! Thankyou! Yeh I get the feeling I write too many :l but I enjoy sharing what I know! I feel like an old soul and most of what I know, most people don't seem to have picked up but I guess I'm just a very curious and observational person. There are many here who I believe could benefit from what I've experienced and learned from that.
Seriously you're the best one out there on posting great MyTake. Totally deserved the title. But keep in mind "It's harder to keep the Throne than conquering it." Means keep the flow & bona fides in your takes. Best of Luck!
I know, but I can't write them forever just like no Queen can rule forever. I must bear another Take writer, hehe! I guess you're a fan? Thanks :)
Fan? No
Motivator? Yes :)
I'll take that haha!
I really like and agree with this take. I was driving myself crazy trying to respond to every guy that messaged!
Well most of the pretty girls are mean and full of themselves... I actually give up on dealing with them I think they won't change and stay who they are... life is so unfair even in the virtual world the ugly ones are treated like shot while the pretty ones get constant attention and have a big ego for themselves... not all beautiful women but most of them are mean,(insert bad qualities). If you encounter a nice beautiful girl but it's just you're half lucky
I kind of get that. You try to get back to everyone and after a while it just becomes a pain.
Only thing I learned from this is to try anyway, if you fail at least you tried.
Guys send so many out it can get boring for them and we sense that boredom. It would be nice for guys to be a bit more original or send a joke to break the ice in a friendly, humorous way!
Haha, true! Too bad I stick with the familiar "Heya":P but hey, if everyone is original, then no one is!
Beautiful women are crazy.
They all stare at me for prolonged periods even after refusing to even talk and be friendly (they give brief responses). It gets me paranoid.
After all that they will not even talk to you or won't even say yes when you ask them out, then after all that they start doing it again. To me it makes no sense why women do this, really it doesn't! I could of sworn I was going to date that girl then they turn you down and after they turn you down they con't to stare at you. I mean you know when a chic is staring at you. Why they do this I have NO CLUE, really I don't!
I just ignore them.
Great job! This is often greatlt misunderstood & reactions, misinterpreted by guys
Many guys don't seem to understand this so I think it's a good thing you point this out.