Why some nice girls get ignored - my take on it

jennifer_bloom
Why some nice girls get ignored - my take on it

There was a high profile medical student in my school that must have had dozens of girls he could have dated and he married a decently looking but highly normalized person with seemingly extremely ordinary personality characteristics and plain and unassuming anatomical attributes.

One day I had an unintentional conversation with her even though we were strangers and I realized she was one of the nicest people I had ever met and it was immediately obvious to me why this doctor chose to be with her. Any person who respects God and spends his whole life trying to heal hurting people is going to treasure genuine kindness involving gratitude, openness, trust, appreciation, empathy and authenticity.

The reason many nice girls are ignored, is that their kindness is plastered by superficial concerns and is not authentic or sincere, they are nice not because they care but because they guy is good looking, or they want him to like her, or they want his time or money or body, or they pretend to be nice for personal gain, or their kindness to the man and his friends or family comes at the cost of disrespect to themselves or their families or jobs, etc… Like the fake who pretends to be a nice guy for dates, the fake who pretends to be a nice girl for romantic advantages, is not liked by good men.

Why some nice girls get ignored - my take on it
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