@scrappygirl has a point! I don't know why people are relating this to dating sites, I didn't mean it to be that way, just guys often assume girls they find attractive are stuck up.
yeah i know know either, although according to one user on here i'm complaining when i'm actually not. i've actually shared my opinion with these people on their comments. i'm actually agreeing with kangy, i'm just saying it's not only this site but any social site that people do this. the only person i made a 'complaint' to was the person who blocked me.
thanks :) i didn't see how i was coming off as attacking users when i wasn't... i don't do that. the other person i shared opinion with i was definitely not attacking him, i was just sharing my opinion on dating sites altogether.
I experimented by creating a profile with a modest salary. Nothing. Then I changed it to my actual income which is very high. I was then quite popular with hot women. It was just an experiment though so I just logged off.
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Worse. Take. Ever.
Is this just some excuse to being a bitch?
Il pretty sure most women go on dating sites to boost their already huge egos.
My GF and I went on tinder just for the shits and giggles... And guess what I didn't get any matche; she got 10!! Neither of us are top models, but we're both attractive.
Plus, GaG isn't a dating website, who the hell cares if you're a "beautiful" girl or not... And tbh you don't reach a 6 in my book.
You can say it's not a dating site, but the reality remains, girls with hot pictures here get bombarded with guys they've never spoken to trying to chat with them, often about... nothing.
Maybe you don't have the intellectual capacity to understand. She got more atention because men are constantly looking to get some whilst women aren't. It's how things work. I didn't ask for a rating on my looks, I honestly don't give a shit. This take isn't about how I look. I much appreciate people liking what I write, not how I look.
Well, this wouldn't happen so much if women would message guys first. Men are trained to message hundreds of women in hopes of getting a response, because unless we're in the top %1, women sure aren't messaging us!
i realized long ago that what they want isn't attention they want, its to get their brains fucked out. but because other girls are constantly harassing and slut shaming them they refuse to admit their submissive sexual nature to other women, men, and even sometimes themselves, so they compensate by welcoming the kind of attention they secretly crave and then pretend they didn't want it once they get it. in a way, a bunch of pervs saying how nice their ass looks is tantamount to getting tied up like a whore, only more of a nibble here and there for their ego rather than a satisfying meal for their soul. Of course this leaves them unfulfilled and resentful, which they then take out on the very men who appreciate them, because slut shaming feminists said to.
I agree with you but sometimes girls need to be alone or not be friends with any guy whom they don't know or don't even seen in her life till now in front of her eye
If we assume that there are equal number of males and females. How can one girl get 30 messages from guys. Does that mean that most of the guys are writing to all girls and how aren't they busy replaying to another 30 messages. Something is weird.
oh i see what you mean now, we'd usually be chatting for a while though "like 30+ comments" ^^ and im sure at the point it becomes "AHHHHH!!! would those 2 please shut thee fuck up on my question" ^^ we could be talking about anything like "how to mail a letter" which then lead to a inboxed convo lol
yea dont get me wrong i call a lot of girls "cute/adorable" on GAG. but i've yet to message a girl saying anything like that LOLOLOL "i just do it for the hell of it+to let them know that i think they're cute "
most of my chats are random most of the time ^^ nothing sexual/creepy
Start putting cuss words in your comments to them. It stands out
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The only thing this proves is that dating sites really work to the advantage of the female, but are nothing but a money pit for men. Woe is you for being attractive.
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Doesn't seem like a guide to me, just telling guys not to message you. It's funny how girls think they're so beautiful that all these guys want to message them. You're not that beautiful, it's just a stupid system that us guys have to deal with.
how many beautiful girls actually use dating sites anyway? if men want a beautiful girl they shouldn't use a dating site. im pretty sure only ugly women use those. pretty women don't have problems getting relationships. one of my good guy friends uses dating sites and he is a good looking man, so i don't get why he uses it and then complains he only finds ugly women... i've told him to stop using those sites because he is only going no where. i know a beautiful girl i want to set him up with.
guys who are actually attractive should get off those sites. leave them to the uglies. anyone good looking can just date the old fashioned way.
I don't think you read the take. I never once said for guys not to message me nor did I ask for a rating on my looks. I threw in MYtake with my own experience, explaining how it's impossible to respond to so many messages and have decent conversations. I considered not putting it in there because people will assume I'm up my own ass, but I thought that I would because it's MYtake and relevant to what I'm trying to point out. This was aimed at girls who are quick to ban and assume, just as much as it was for men.
@scrappygirl They're full of single moms and overweight girls. I personally wouldn't trade real life interactions with anything else. If I'm going to get rejected I'd rather do it in person.
@Hannah591 I didn't mean you, personally are not that beautiful, I meant average girls think too much of themselves, they behave like average guys are out of their league. You're showing my point exactly, your take just says how many messages you get, and you can't respond to all of them, it doesn't show anyone how to message girls to get good responses.
yeah i've just seen them when my guy friends use them and I've noticed. I've never used them myself. i like going out and meeting guys. by the way i was just sharing my personal opinion about dating sites and all that. another user though i was attacking you and others when i wasn't. i wasn't attacking you or your opinion.
It looks like you're trying to find something that makes me look conceited because I was talking about beautiful girls, you obviously haven't read it all because you'd find that what you said is in the take.
There's a lot of "bots" on dating sites and such that when the person messages, the bot tries to get them to sign up on another site involving their credit card and such. They're scams basically.
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I dont understand why some people treat gag as dating site.
guys treat any social site as a dating site.
@scrappygirl has a point! I don't know why people are relating this to dating sites, I didn't mean it to be that way, just guys often assume girls they find attractive are stuck up.
yeah i know know either, although according to one user on here i'm complaining when i'm actually not. i've actually shared my opinion with these people on their comments. i'm actually agreeing with kangy, i'm just saying it's not only this site but any social site that people do this. the only person i made a 'complaint' to was the person who blocked me.
@scrappygirl I feel you've been giving good input on this take and I appreciate that! Don't worry about the other person.
thanks :) i didn't see how i was coming off as attacking users when i wasn't... i don't do that. the other person i shared opinion with i was definitely not attacking him, i was just sharing my opinion on dating sites altogether.
I experimented by creating a profile with a modest salary. Nothing. Then I changed it to my actual income which is very high. I was then quite popular with hot women. It was just an experiment though so I just logged off.
Worse. Take. Ever.
Is this just some excuse to being a bitch?
Il pretty sure most women go on dating sites to boost their already huge egos.
My GF and I went on tinder just for the shits and giggles... And guess what I didn't get any matche; she got 10!! Neither of us are top models, but we're both attractive.
Plus, GaG isn't a dating website, who the hell cares if you're a "beautiful" girl or not... And tbh you don't reach a 6 in my book.
You can say it's not a dating site, but the reality remains, girls with hot pictures here get bombarded with guys they've never spoken to trying to chat with them, often about... nothing.
Maybe you don't have the intellectual capacity to understand. She got more atention because men are constantly looking to get some whilst women aren't. It's how things work. I didn't ask for a rating on my looks, I honestly don't give a shit. This take isn't about how I look. I much appreciate people liking what I write, not how I look.
The reality is: Most girls with "hot girl" pictures are FAKE.
"Maybe you don't have the intellectual capacity to understand" ... hahaha. Whatever :)
If you think that then, you have some trust issues.
"She got more attention because men are constantly looking to get some whilst women aren't"
Oh yeah? I've seen more photos of girls with their tits hanging out and posing with duck faces than men flexing topless :)
I'm starting to think that you're rather backward.
You should've just said "How to get a reaction: sign off/delete online dating, and do it the tried-and-true way for better results. The End" lol
Well, this wouldn't happen so much if women would message guys first. Men are trained to message hundreds of women in hopes of getting a response, because unless we're in the top %1, women sure aren't messaging us!
They're not replying, ignore them. They like the attention buttttt sometimes it's too much for them. Be different!
i realized long ago that what they want isn't attention they want, its to get their brains fucked out. but because other girls are constantly harassing and slut shaming them they refuse to admit their submissive sexual nature to other women, men, and even sometimes themselves, so they compensate by welcoming the kind of attention they secretly crave and then pretend they didn't want it once they get it. in a way, a bunch of pervs saying how nice their ass looks is tantamount to getting tied up like a whore, only more of a nibble here and there for their ego rather than a satisfying meal for their soul. Of course this leaves them unfulfilled and resentful, which they then take out on the very men who appreciate them, because slut shaming feminists said to.
I agree with you but sometimes girls need to be alone or not be friends with any guy whom they don't know or don't even seen in her life till now in front of her eye
If we assume that there are equal number of males and females. How can one girl get 30 messages from guys. Does that mean that most of the guys are writing to all girls and how aren't they busy replaying to another 30 messages. Something is weird.
Guys are either too aggressive to downright stupid. Case closed.
check the way i do it ^^
*yawns
lmao it not the cat pic but whats written in the comments below it
but if you did read them and yawned "sorry for wasting your time" ^^
Gag is not a place for guys to sweet talk to girls.
lmao isn't it a place to get unbiased opinions for the most part?
but naturally speaking there are going to be individuals who think alike which leads to "private chats" ^^'
Yes ninja (sorry your name is too long ass to type.)
All my chats are strictly platonic and i have had people msged for advice. Not for a normal convo for leisure.
oh i see what you mean now, we'd usually be chatting for a while though "like 30+ comments" ^^ and im sure at the point it becomes "AHHHHH!!! would those 2 please shut thee fuck up on my question" ^^ we could be talking about anything like "how to mail a letter" which then lead to a inboxed convo lol
yea dont get me wrong i call a lot of girls "cute/adorable" on GAG. but i've yet to message a girl saying anything like that LOLOLOL "i just do it for the hell of it+to let them know that i think they're cute "
most of my chats are random most of the time ^^ nothing sexual/creepy
I don't want to be recognised by my looks or origins. If people can't get past that. It's A block or no response.
i've never started a private chat with something like "OMFG YOUR SO CUTE"
i've only started 2 message of the 20 in my inbox for what it counts LOL
Good for u
@Nature_is_Biased lmao asking or telling me that?
she seems pretty cool to me ^^ + i have nothing against her for now lolol and i've be on gag for a while
Nice to get recognition from a stranger, I'm a bitch here. I embrace my inner bitch if it means being truthful.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_yXF29mHag ;LOLOL ^^
Excellent advice. This is why I tell guys to be "interesting" to girls.
Another reason why women are not polygamy by nature. Men will never complain about having too many women.
It's being TOO NICE.
Start putting cuss words in your comments to them. It stands out
The only thing this proves is that dating sites really work to the advantage of the female, but are nothing but a money pit for men. Woe is you for being attractive.
Doesn't seem like a guide to me, just telling guys not to message you.
It's funny how girls think they're so beautiful that all these guys want to message them. You're not that beautiful, it's just a stupid system that us guys have to deal with.
how many beautiful girls actually use dating sites anyway? if men want a beautiful girl they shouldn't use a dating site. im pretty sure only ugly women use those. pretty women don't have problems getting relationships. one of my good guy friends uses dating sites and he is a good looking man, so i don't get why he uses it and then complains he only finds ugly women... i've told him to stop using those sites because he is only going no where. i know a beautiful girl i want to set him up with.
guys who are actually attractive should get off those sites. leave them to the uglies. anyone good looking can just date the old fashioned way.
I don't think you read the take. I never once said for guys not to message me nor did I ask for a rating on my looks. I threw in MYtake with my own experience, explaining how it's impossible to respond to so many messages and have decent conversations. I considered not putting it in there because people will assume I'm up my own ass, but I thought that I would because it's MYtake and relevant to what I'm trying to point out. This was aimed at girls who are quick to ban and assume, just as much as it was for men.
Very interesting. So why do message them then? What's the purpose?
@scrappygirl They're full of single moms and overweight girls. I personally wouldn't trade real life interactions with anything else. If I'm going to get rejected I'd rather do it in person.
@Hannah591 I didn't mean you, personally are not that beautiful, I meant average girls think too much of themselves, they behave like average guys are out of their league. You're showing my point exactly, your take just says how many messages you get, and you can't respond to all of them, it doesn't show anyone how to message girls to get good responses.
yeah i've just seen them when my guy friends use them and I've noticed. I've never used them myself. i like going out and meeting guys. by the way i was just sharing my personal opinion about dating sites and all that. another user though i was attacking you and others when i wasn't. i wasn't attacking you or your opinion.
It looks like you're trying to find something that makes me look conceited because I was talking about beautiful girls, you obviously haven't read it all because you'd find that what you said is in the take.
Im not even sure if those profiles are real
What do you mean?
There's a lot of "bots" on dating sites and such that when the person messages, the bot tries to get them to sign up on another site involving their credit card and such. They're scams basically.
I just fell in love with you!
#rhetorical
Interesting article, thanks for sharing.
I love this take.
Did you just invited some guys to talk to you? Lol
Nope.
Ok... srry my opinion!
I agree with this.