This made me realize how glad I am that I'm a guy. I don't have to worry about "running out of time" to start a family. Worst case is that I never find anyone, but the more worst case scenario is that I'm a slightly older dad. Glad I don't have a clock ticking.
Your take was so long and confusing its making me hungry...3: What does he want
A cheese burger with fries and a sprite.
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Some of this is bullshit and I haven't been in a relationship either. Some girls I've had throw themselves at me but the moment I show interest back even if it's subtle or just a little bit then they back off and act like I'm the one being clingy and needy.
That doesn't work with people whoa, ctually want a relationship -- for obvious reasons. It might work for a one but not anything with depth. So if you can get sat digging relationship with that behavior that says more about you than anyone else.
@RationalLioness how many women have you dated though? Why don't you actually practice what your username says "Rational". We are simply offering a males point of view on this subject and you just reject it and say we're immature with out offering an explanation as to why. Do you actually agree with this post? If so why? Honestly though, you're immature for not coming up with an explanation as to why you think we are the immature ones. It is a forum, is it not?
My issue with a lot of these posts happen to the blatant retardation within a lot of them, including yours. If you're really that stupid and need to have it spelled it out to you---that his comment was completely off base due to the fact that this whole Take was about the Take Owner KNOWING what she wants and simply saying that people in a relationship should better communicate with each other--then I'm sorry that you're a dumbass.
Your "male POV" happens to be VERY infantile and superficial--there doesn't seem to be any depth from the majority of the male posts or the fools are basically disagreeing because they haven't experienced what she's talking about. THAT is irrational.
I haven't experienced racism. Am I foolish enough to say that it doesn't exist because I haven't experienced it?
@rationallioness no you simply dont understand the post because you're thinking of it from a womans point of view. read the take from a mans point of view. someone who is trying to date, care for, love etc women. its not helpful at all and summing it up it said absolutely nothing except she does not know what she wants she just knows that she wants you to want her or she will leave.
@RationalLioness How many women have you dated though? Don't even say that has nothing to do with it. I'm a man I'm telling you that some women are like that. Just as some men are like that. The fact of the matter is. Yes she offered her take, if she didn't want people on here having opinions on her take then she shouldn't have posted anything in the first place. You can call my opinion superficial all you want but it's an opinion if you don't like it, here's a tip. Delete your account. Delete you account from life as a matter of fact. People have opinions in life whether you like them or not. You calling someone a "dumbass" really shows how great of a person you are. If you don't like an opinion don't say "Well you're a Dumbass". That is childish move on your part. It's obvious that you still have some growing up to do. there's apparently is no getting through to you, so what I said doesn't even matter. Anyway I'm not arguing with you. You just need to accept that people have opinions.
@MrChadeo920 Some wo/men are like that. OF COURSE. No duh... lol. And no, I don't have to date women because that does have NOTHING to do with it.
I have no problem with differing opinions so you can stop that dumbass-umption. I don't know where the retarded crap you're assuming is coming from because it's not true.
I do (have an issue with opinions) when they have NOTHING TO DO with the Take or when they've misinterpreted (the Take). If I have a Take about relationships and you're on my Take talking about cheeseburgers... wtf are you doing there? Or if you're calling out the Take Owner when YOU were the fool who made the mistake?
This opinion is saying something that the Take Owner is saying NOTHING about. The stupidity is strong within you, clearly.
you assume im thinking with my dick but at no point did i mention sex now did i? nor did i mention GETTING women i mentioned KEEPING them. but again you dont know anything about that because you are a woman who isn't interested in women that way.
@RationalLioness you're impossible. I can truly tell how professional you are. The odds are against you anyways. If you have 20 people disagreeing with you eventually you're going to have to start saying "Well, maybe it's me." People are offering their take about the owners take. They're not talking about cheeseburgers. If the take is about relationships, then people are going to offer their take about relationships. Whether you like it or not. It's simple. I do have a brain and clearly it's more rational then yours. Over and out.
I'm going to paraphrase this whole thing in 10 sentences:
1. If you like me, tell me. ( Effective Communication: Redundant ) 2. If you tell me you like me, mean it. ( Honesty: Redundant ) 3. If you meant what you said, stick to it. ( Honesty: Redundant ) 4. If you're sticking to it show enthusiasm for it. ( Effective Communication: Redundant ) 5. If you're enthusiastic about it wouldn't you already be talking? Redundant. 6. If you're already effectively communicating is this a thing? Redundant. 7. ( Effective Communication: Redundant ) 8. Ironically this falls under Effective Communication, but sure, Honesty. (Given) 9. If you're showing enthusiasm as cited wouldn't this be... a given? Redundant. 10. ( Effective Communication: Redundant as per "Reassurance" > Listening )
So what women want apparently is 3 things: 1. An effective communication channel with her partner. 2. Some honesty. 3. An enthusiastic partner.
And here I was completely worried about real-life adult issues like say "Ambition" and "Vision" and showing signs of viability or a sense of responsibility, a willingness to endure, etc. Guess not. Not that those are things you'd learn super quick when you're actually in a relationship or ( eharmony. com/dating-advice/about-you/what-women-find-sexy-about-men-the-top-ten-list/#. VVFt3vlVhBc ) what eHarmony, or even a general newspaper ( torontosun. com/2014/08/28/10-unexpected-things-women-find-attractive-in-men ) would show for. Because these are things that adults do.
1) Some guys need to be told WHAT a lot of women like to do. So even though many of her points are repetitive, she's using examples to show what she means to make herself clear.
2) Rational people who aren't intolerant as you seem to be would understand that OBVIOUSLY there is MORE to relationships besides what she said. But what she said is still part of it.
3) You're an asshole. And if you get shot or hit by a truck, good.
yeah, thats what you'll go for though. concious mind goes like "me? a shallow materialistic gold digger that loves dard triad sociopath playboys? i like only nice guys!". "subconcious mind goes like, johhny dep gurl! lets get these pats wet!"
well good for you i guess. but your writing suggests you somewhat live in your own bubble than in the real world. but i guess that can be good some times... .
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Yep... agree. =)
But those rules are for the people that have grown out of puberty - i. e., almost no man. xD
Hahahahaha
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hahahaaa you are so right.
Hahahah @Eiffelgirl21 , but 5 guys so far don't seem to agree... Hahahaha
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Oh damn you're mean! :-P
Hahah No, @Prof_Don... I said MOST, not all.
But I guess guys agree they fit into that category of 'most'... and retaliate by down-voting.
This made me realize how glad I am that I'm a guy. I don't have to worry about "running out of time" to start a family. Worst case is that I never find anyone, but the more worst case scenario is that I'm a slightly older dad. Glad I don't have a clock ticking.
No one runs out of time you can always adopt
Your take was so long and confusing its making me hungry...3:
What does he want
A cheese burger with fries and a sprite.
Some of this is bullshit and I haven't been in a relationship either. Some girls I've had throw themselves at me but the moment I show interest back even if it's subtle or just a little bit then they back off and act like I'm the one being clingy and needy.
yes. familair with this. bottemline is, act like an inddiferent son of a gun, thats what they like these days, douchebags.
Yeah that's usually how it goes. The ones I've shown less interest in have more interest.
That doesn't work with people whoa, ctually want a relationship -- for obvious reasons. It might work for a one but not anything with depth. So if you can get sat digging relationship with that behavior that says more about you than anyone else.
Satisfying not sat digging
I like to think I have a better understanding of what women need rather than what they want at any given moment. Or maybe I'm wrong.
Awesome take. You've put a lot of effort and thought into it. =)
can you imagine if guys wrote out these shit?
i can't even count how many times I've seen women write about what they want.
we dont care.
Basically she doesn't know what she wants she just wants to know you want her
Basically wrong. Are a lot of you guys incapable of grasping basic sense?
Actually no this take pretty much said nothing worth mentioning or helpful.
She had a problem with opinion. Almost any male opinion. I'm almost certain there's daddy issues involved
@RationalLioness how many women have you dated though? Why don't you actually practice what your username says "Rational".
We are simply offering a males point of view on this subject and you just reject it and say we're immature with out offering an explanation as to why. Do you actually agree with this post? If so why? Honestly though, you're immature for not coming up with an explanation as to why you think we are the immature ones. It is a forum, is it not?
@MrChadeo920
My issue with a lot of these posts happen to the blatant retardation within a lot of them, including yours. If you're really that stupid and need to have it spelled it out to you---that his comment was completely off base due to the fact that this whole Take was about the Take Owner KNOWING what she wants and simply saying that people in a relationship should better communicate with each other--then I'm sorry that you're a dumbass.
Your "male POV" happens to be VERY infantile and superficial--there doesn't seem to be any depth from the majority of the male posts or the fools are basically disagreeing because they haven't experienced what she's talking about. THAT is irrational.
I haven't experienced racism. Am I foolish enough to say that it doesn't exist because I haven't experienced it?
@rationallioness no you simply dont understand the post because you're thinking of it from a womans point of view. read the take from a mans point of view. someone who is trying to date, care for, love etc women. its not helpful at all and summing it up it said absolutely nothing except she does not know what she wants she just knows that she wants you to want her or she will leave.
@RationalLioness How many women have you dated though? Don't even say that has nothing to do with it. I'm a man I'm telling you that some women are like that. Just as some men are like that. The fact of the matter is. Yes she offered her take, if she didn't want people on here having opinions on her take then she shouldn't have posted anything in the first place. You can call my opinion superficial all you want but it's an opinion if you don't like it, here's a tip. Delete your account. Delete you account from life as a matter of fact. People have opinions in life whether you like them or not. You calling someone a "dumbass" really shows how great of a person you are. If you don't like an opinion don't say "Well you're a Dumbass". That is childish move on your part. It's obvious that you still have some growing up to do. there's apparently is no getting through to you, so what I said doesn't even matter. Anyway I'm not arguing with you. You just need to accept that people have opinions.
And you're wrong Opinion Owner. But that's okay. Most of your posts lack sense anyway.
This post isn't about HOW TO GET wo/men. It's talking about WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU GET someone.
Stop thinking with your dick and use the head on top.
@MrChadeo920 Some wo/men are like that. OF COURSE. No duh... lol. And no, I don't have to date women because that does have NOTHING to do with it.
I have no problem with differing opinions so you can stop that dumbass-umption. I don't know where the retarded crap you're assuming is coming from because it's not true.
I do (have an issue with opinions) when they have NOTHING TO DO with the Take or when they've misinterpreted (the Take). If I have a Take about relationships and you're on my Take talking about cheeseburgers... wtf are you doing there? Or if you're calling out the Take Owner when YOU were the fool who made the mistake?
This opinion is saying something that the Take Owner is saying NOTHING about. The stupidity is strong within you, clearly.
Get a brain.
you assume im thinking with my dick but at no point did i mention sex now did i? nor did i mention GETTING women i mentioned KEEPING them. but again you dont know anything about that because you are a woman who isn't interested in women that way.
@RationalLioness you're impossible.
I can truly tell how professional you are. The odds are against you anyways. If you have 20 people disagreeing with you eventually you're going to have to start saying "Well, maybe it's me."
People are offering their take about the owners take. They're not talking about cheeseburgers. If the take is about relationships, then people are going to offer their take about relationships. Whether you like it or not. It's simple. I do have a brain and clearly it's more rational then yours. Over and out.
"I don't have any real relationship experience, but..."
... ?
"How to be a mom in my perspective. Sure I've no children and only babysat once but..."
The fuck?
You don't have to have experience in that particular area to knowledgeable about it. It HELPS, but it's not always necessary.
What she said is true.
@rationallioness
I'm going to paraphrase this whole thing in 10 sentences:
1. If you like me, tell me. ( Effective Communication: Redundant )
2. If you tell me you like me, mean it. ( Honesty: Redundant )
3. If you meant what you said, stick to it. ( Honesty: Redundant )
4. If you're sticking to it show enthusiasm for it. ( Effective Communication: Redundant )
5. If you're enthusiastic about it wouldn't you already be talking? Redundant.
6. If you're already effectively communicating is this a thing? Redundant.
7. ( Effective Communication: Redundant )
8. Ironically this falls under Effective Communication, but sure, Honesty. (Given)
9. If you're showing enthusiasm as cited wouldn't this be... a given? Redundant.
10. ( Effective Communication: Redundant as per "Reassurance" > Listening )
So what women want apparently is 3 things:
1. An effective communication channel with her partner.
2. Some honesty.
3. An enthusiastic partner.
Huh. Surprise!
And here I was completely worried about real-life adult issues like say "Ambition" and "Vision" and showing signs of viability or a sense of responsibility, a willingness to endure, etc. Guess not. Not that those are things you'd learn super quick when you're actually in a relationship or ( eharmony. com/dating-advice/about-you/what-women-find-sexy-about-men-the-top-ten-list/#. VVFt3vlVhBc ) what eHarmony, or even a general newspaper ( torontosun. com/2014/08/28/10-unexpected-things-women-find-attractive-in-men ) would show for. Because these are things that adults do.
If you're a teenager sure this shit makes sense.
says the guy who can't get any
@Eiffelgirl21 Is it the pot or the kettle?
You're not using common sense. That's okay.
1) Some guys need to be told WHAT a lot of women like to do. So even though many of her points are repetitive, she's using examples to show what she means to make herself clear.
2) Rational people who aren't intolerant as you seem to be would understand that OBVIOUSLY there is MORE to relationships besides what she said. But what she said is still part of it.
3) You're an asshole. And if you get shot or hit by a truck, good.
Never take advice on women from women. People, in general, don't know what they want.
That's pure stupidity.
👍 never been in a relationship before, so nice take.
Cool story, sis.
Sounds like something that should be obvious to everyone using common sense.
Too bad most people don't rely on it.
Yeah I agree.
Yes all of the above But Respect should be on both sides.
What do women want? In the words of Chris Rock... Everything. 😂
One more thing
He ha to pay for everything and do everything for you nothing for him
tall, handsome, killer confidence, big dick and money. thats what women need.
That's not what I need.
yeah, thats what you'll go for though. concious mind goes like "me? a shallow materialistic gold digger that loves dard triad sociopath playboys? i like only nice guys!". "subconcious mind goes like, johhny dep gurl! lets get these pats wet!"
I'm nothing like that.
well good for you i guess. but your writing suggests you somewhat live in your own bubble than in the real world. but i guess that can be good some times... .
I do not live in a bubble, I live in the real world where everything sucks.
out of all this ur missing choice cause thats the main thing choice
You should rename this, "What Everyone Wants."
Probably, I was thinking about that before I wrote this. That I imagine guys can relate to this too.
Nice takes😊
But this works for everyone lol😃
This is so true.. Awesome take