8 Advantages of Dating Feminist Women

[Political_dude]

1) You don’t have to make the first move

Feminist women think of themselves equal to men. You don’t always have to make the first move she’ll do that as well. Who knows she may pay for your drinks and then drive you home because you’re drunk af. She’ll protect you from female rapists on streets in lonely nights.

2) You Don’t Have To Pay For Dates

Dating a feminist woman puts full stops for the question “Who pays for the first date?”. She’ll always insist to split the bill. And she won’t judge you if you don’t pay. Maybe if you’re dating a feminazi, you’ll save a lot of money because she’ll pay for you to prove her supremacy.

3) She'll make conversations lively

A relationship without lively conversations is not a relationship. If you date a feminist woman, you can always have lively debateful conversations. You can start from “How women are oppressed in the west” to “Wage gap is real and I know how to minimize it”. If you don’t want to talk politics, you can debate on sexual topics like “Is homosexuality part of nature or nurture” “Is gender change good option for transgender people?”. Believe me, there is no other interesting talk than sex talk with your girlfriend.

4) You can become stay at home dad

You don’t want to work in the office? It’s okay. Unlike traditional women, feminist women love to work and earn for there family! (Don’t call other ladies because you’re home alone) If you want to be stay at home husband, she won’t complain about it. She’d happily work extra hours on your behalf while you’re cooking food and cleaning dishes at home.

5) You can express your emotions freely

Did someone catcall you at work? Or Do you think certain community is oppressed? Or Do you want to fight with someone for no reason? Don’t worry, your feminist SO is always there to help you. You can freely share your emotions without any feeling of oppression. Feminist women are generally empathetic and they understand what you're saying. Even if you tell her you got a boner, she’ll know how it feels exactly.

6) You can be free about your sexuality

Even if you’re bisexual, gay, transsexual, sexually fluid, pansexual, animosexual, cybrosexual, moneysexual or asexual. Irrespective of your sexuality she’ll accept you, unlike traditional women who will judge you for your sexuality alone and might break up with you if you confess about it. But being transsexual actually increases your chance of dating a feminist woman

7) You don't have to worry about your weight

Irrespective of who heavy you are, she'll always love you. And won't even fat shame you. If you get fat, you won't need to worry about burning calories; She'll increase her weight to attain equality.

8 ) You don’t have to worry about condom fail

Last but not the least. Feminist women love consuming birth control pills! In my life, I’ve never seen a feminist woman who wasn’t on birth control (don’t ask how do I know) so even if you forget to bring condom with you or if it breaks due to your extra large size, don’t worry, You’re always safe 😉

[Hungry_Shark]

Feminism is bullshit.
When I read so much about feminism , i get more tempted to go MGTOW.

Promoting feminism in society is like reservation for women and then it puts even stronger basis for discrimination.

1. Nowdays, men are afraid to help women if they're in trouble.

2. Men are afraid to talk to women.

3. Men are drifting towards being MGTOW.

4. Men developing hate towards women.

5. Men know its the end of beginning.

6. Feminism says equal right for women, and then during the date, women still want men to pay for dates?

7. in the name of Feminism , women have casual sex and after riding the cock carousel she wants to marry the nice guy.

I'm not against women, in fact women have been oppressed a lot in the past.
But now its just too much.
I'm tired of hearing bull shit.

A time will come when women will tell men that men must drink few drops of their piss otherwise women will make a police complaint.

Fuck man, who wants to live in a society like this

[MelaninDoll]

Growing up I've seen men get treated worse than women because of their gender not the other way around. I've never felt oppressed because of my genitals, so when I heard about feminism and what it was about I just knew it was bullshit. My sympathy usually went towards the males, when I'm in school I see girls get away with way more things just because they're girls and when a guy did the same thing he'd be suspended or in trouble.

[MayBlythe]

All of these points combined barley reach 10% compared to the bad points of dating feminist women

[UnaKaizen]

you are so clever...

[Logorithim]

Hahahaha- are you sure you don't have to worry about your weight with a feminist?

I've had some feminist girlfriends and they weren't really open for spirited conversation that conflicted with their worldview. I didn't care, though, because for me a woman's politics isn't a criteria for dating or a relationship.

[Logorithim]

*criterion

[Anonymous]

Pretty sure none of those are true.

Plenty of feminists feel entitled to men approaching them, often *because* of their feminism.

Again, some feminists insist men pay *because* of their feminist leanings, other feminists pay not out of generosity, a noble will or supportive nature but out of negative feelings; they treat men buying them things as a kind of attack on their personhood. Can't say I'm a fan.

"Lively" means agree with her worldview or else. For something like: “How women are oppressed in the west” well shit, why don't you just ask me when I stopped beating my wife? Because that's what that question is. I disagree with the premise. Lively enough?

The stay at home dad isn't realistic. It's not a matter of their ideology, other than rare exceptions women in general *especially feminist ones imo* statistically don't think highly of house husbands. It just doesn't work the same way, it's something basic, something fundamental, like sexuality, it's not a path that should be recommended to men.

I can only express emotions she tolerates. For example, you can't suggest that you as a male feel victimized if it undermines women's victimhood status. With feminist women more than any other you need to frame your pain in feminist terminology or you're out. The only way you're allowed to express negative feelings is to frame it as consequence of patriarchy or something to that effect. Furthermore, I've seen many women give permission for men to cry but will also add the modifier "just don't be a blubbering cry baby" apparently not realizing it basically negates the permission.

I wonder about sexual freedom among feminists, most women don't accept bi-sexual guys, also I find that even though ideologically they feel compelled not to reject people on such a basis feminist women still don't *feel* the same just because their ideology demands they should.

They're all on the pill, okay, yet there's still those that would lie about it and sabotage the rubber, feminists are not above that -- and it's the feminist that would insist that you as a guy have no rights or choices in that situation despite being the one being victimized. Yes, many are on the pill, but you are at her mercy when it comes to if there's going to be contraception or not. Strange how there was feminist backlash against the male pill.

[Anonymous]

"Irrespective of who heavy you are, she'll always love you. And won't even fat shame you. If you get fat, you won't need to worry about burning calories; She'll increase her weight to attain equality."

Your satire here is not even funny because it is not even feminist stuff this is SJW stuff. I am a feminist. But I am a "healthy normal weight fit humanbeing" who doesn't like overweight people because it simply shows you are lazy 95% of the time and 5 % of the time it is because prior health condition.

BUT...
I made the first move before, and I always pay for myself in the first two three dates. I don't expect men to pay, and if necessary i can pay the whole check as well. I got pregnant with my ex even though I was on bc pills, and I didn't even force on him to have the kid even though I wanted. I respected his decision and I got an abortion I do believe i make the conversations lively not only i am feminist, i am an educated and interesting person who has traveled quite a bit, read quite a bit and all.

ALSO

Yeah you can be free about your sexuality, and i respect whatever you are, and i dont care where you stick your penis But i have preferences as well. I dont date bisexual men. Just a preference.

I think your satire is off the charts, not even funny and I am not even sure why it is on the "hot" list. Total junk.

[Political_dude]

Did I mention it's a satire anywhere in mytake?

[Political_dude]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fat_feminism

You're not true feminist if you think fat people are lazy

[Opinion Owner]

I am not “fat feminist”

You’re sending something else, commenting something else.

Yes fat people are lazy mostly. They can fuck their heart i dont give a fuck. But i avoid dating them. Equally for bisexuals or black men.

That’s dating preference it has nothing to do with feminism.

Yes you mentioned it is satire in your answers to one of the comments. Also one should be stupid to not get your sarcasm.

However, aren't you the one who wrote the take “dating preferences are not racist” at some point? If it were you, keep yourself consistent a little.

[Political_dude]

Yup I did. Thanks for keeping watch on me, pink Anon.

[lumos]

These are all mostly true for me, except for 4 and 7 (partially). I wouldn't mind my man being a stay at home dad IF I made enough money to support our own family. And even then, for the sake of stability (what if I suddenly lose my job?) I would urge him to at least try to do something on the side, maybe work with something you can do from home. And as for 7, yes, while I don't think weight is all that important, I do think health is important. I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend put on som extra pudge, however I'd still prefer it if he maintained a somewhat active lifestyle and did his best to eat healthy. So when it comes to looks I don't care a whole lot, but I do care about the possible health issues that could arise from gaining too much weight.
And 8 is a bit of a weird one, because technically you should ALWAYS care about a condom fail (or not using one), even when she's on the pill. The pill is not always 100% effective, even when it's successfully taken at the right time. Sure, there's no reason to become hysteric, but you should keep it in mind that even the pill might fail (not to mention the potential for STDs, which sometimes go symptom-free).

[lumos]

Miiinus the heavy satire, that is.

[SirRexington]

Why is Beyonce on the strong woman poster? I hardly count her as a respectable feminist.

1: feminists still want the man to approach her. They have admitted that. Whether it's to cry rape or not I'm unsure.

2: most women regardless of political alignment tend to either understand that both should pay or have no problem paying.

3: conversation is great, if the person you are conversing with actually has valid arguments and doesn't call you a misogynistic sexist when you disagree with her.

4: what if I don't want to be a stay at home dad? And if I do I don't need to meet a feminist woman to do so. Women can be career driven regardless of their ideology.

5: I already express my emotions freely. Never had a problem doing so.

6: 90% of those things don't even exist.

7: feminists are some of the most judgmental people on the planet. My weight will definitely affect her judgement of me as many are vegan or whatever. Those that aren't and are fat still want a hunk for a boyfriend.

8: don't most young women take birth control?

In the end this was a fun article and I enjoyed responding to it! Have a lovely day/night.

[ovoxo_]

1) No. This isn't an advantage since they're loud and obnoxious and approach you like a man. big turn off.

2) No. This is a complete lie. Feminist are complete hypocrites when it comes to dating and topics that don't benefit them (ex: entering the draft)

3) No. What man honestly wants to sit there and gossip about these topics like a woman? Tbh if I'm involved with a feminist hearing her talk is the LAST thing I want.

4) No. If men had a problem with working we would have complained about it like feminists do a long time ago. Being a stay at home dad is for white knights.

5) No. Again I have no interest in gossiping about drama like a female. Plus, unless we're talking about how "oppressed" she is I don't think she cares what a man has to say.

6) (I'm straight so I'll just skip through this point)

7) No. Normal women don't fat shame either. It's women who are usually subject to fat-shaming, not men. So this isn't a valid point.

8) No. Feminists abort babies they don't use birth control. So you're not any more safer with her than with a normal girl.

There are no advantages to dating a feminist. If you want, I could start naming disadvantages though.

[ovoxo_]

* 8)

[Douma]

Good question. I think we should go back to nature , the good old days with less money because all problems are from the rich including woman who want and expensive femenism life style with expensive comandments since they are from the rich and political aware of benefits from being rich in our society and profit of it and use and abuse man for that purpose. It is time woman remember they have periods and become normaly pregnant without the use of condom what is horrible that man must use plastic to insult them to pleasure a woman.

[Political_dude]

This isn't a question!

[Douma]

Yeah , to me it is a question , like how advantage would it be dating an feminist.

[snowangle]

#7 is bull, but I see you're just trying to be funny there. The rest of the points are more or less valid. I'm a feminist woman and I've made the first move, paid for dates, am always an engaged conversationalist, and don't judge men for opening up. Also I'm usually on birth control lol. But yeah, I don't really see why men are against dating feminists, unless they don't feel that women are equal to men. And I wouldn't date a guy who didn't agree with feminism anyway. I will raise my future children equally, regardless of sex.

[AD240pCharlie]

I would definitely date a feminist like Christina Hoff Sommers.
A feminist like Anita Sarkeesian, Emma Watson, Kat Blaque? I'd rather date a 90-yearold.

[RedRobin]

I hate it when people hate on feminists SOMETIMES. There are some things that I think are a complete waste of time for frminists to be pushing because they make women look stupid and really bad. These are good points though.

I agree with all except the last 3. Most people care about sexuality, whether or not they're a femanist. As long as you're dating someone who has the same values regarding weight, it should be ok, i. e. if you don't care about your weight don't expect to date a gym buff. Not all women are willing to get an abortion

[Molkabz]

Feminism is higher than you'll ever be. You will never reach full growth if you don't give people of opposite sex the same treatment as yours. And you will never be able to live in a society as mixed as ours without being open to other people's beliefs and opinions.

[Political_dude]

5 Reasons Why We Still Need Feminism ↗

[wagsingle]

YOU GO GIRL! The problem is sexist men have totally misrepresented feminist as man haters, or wanting an unfair edge. No true feminist would expect or demand the so called special treatment women have gotten, while fighting for equality. That's just lies sexist pigs like Rush Limbaugh vomit onto the airwaves. I doubt I could date a woman that wasn't a feminist. though I just might have to help her see that she really is or should be. Women who aren't feminist go in the same category as gay republicans. Not suitable dating material.

[cherryphi82]

Hm. Yeah, I definitely think you're mocking feminists here. Although I don't identify as a feminist, I've been called one (and feminazi, too) on these site more than I can count. I don't pay for dates, I don't take birth control pills, and I don't drive drunk dates home. I also don't always make the first move or think my husband has to be a stay-at-home dad. And how would I know what it feels like to have a boner? Much of these are just stereotypes.

[Political_dude]

Tbh it wasn't my basic motto. When I thought of writing this take, I was going to keep it real. You can see the basic points (Expect 8) are actually true and description is sarcastic. I don't know why i turned it into satire

[cherryphi82]

I don't think they are. According to your view, feminists seem to be overbearing butches who swallow birth control pills and accept everything about you as long as it fits into some skewed, pseudo-enlightened perspective.

[Political_dude]

Alright. You're free to judge :) (but feminist actually swallow birth control pills)

[UnaKaizen]

you wouldn't drive a date home if he was drunk?

he said she 'may'

[UnaKaizen]

itd be mean not to lol

[cherryphi82]

@UnaKaizen No, because I wouldn't date people who get drunk in the first place.

[UnaKaizen]

most people get drink once in a while.

[cherryphi82]

@UnaKaizen Lucky me I don't date "most people".

[UnaKaizen]

lol ok fair enough. i misunderstood. sounded like youd just refuse if he was drunk. not like you really just dont find yourself i that situation, ever :)

[ADFSDF1996]

A woman doesn’t have to be a feminist to have all those benefits. I know plenty women that aren’t feminists who have those benefits. That being said, I prefer to date a woman that isn’t a feminist who has all those benefits. In regards to number 6, I have to make it clear that I’m straight.

[Iron_Man]

The values of dating a feminist well here's one when you have a problem at customer service with the manager you don't have to go in there to argue just send the feminist in there and she will do all the work for you. And 9 times out of 10 She'll when your case for you

[Political_dude]

👌👌😂😂😂

[Iron_Man]

Thanks

[GodHatesKaitlin]

lol basically.
They're stubborn. They're the kind of people that you can't have a logical argument with, because they like to ignore logic that they don't like. (Along with Flat Earthers, who just ignore all logic)

[martyfellow]

I’ve never known a femnist who wasn’t trying to playit both ways so usually it’s still up to you to make the first move and pay for dates most of the time...

Not only feminists are generally using birth control these days actually.

I don’t agree with most of the Take. The only advatage I can see is that your expectations are going to SO low that any sort of relationshp that develops will be such a surprise that you’ll feel wonderful!!

[Gadas]

You're title is incomplete. It should have ben
"8 advantages of dating feminist women if you're a pussy"

[2opaz]

*downvote*

[Redrocket69]

Lol thats why feminism is bullshit... you can talk about "equality" all day long but the bottom line is no woman will actually legitimately respect a man that is ok with being a stay at home dad.. All the "equality" is one sided.

[UnaKaizen]

Boo.

[englisc]

I can't tell whether this is even serious or trolling, either way it's funny.

[Political_dude]

It's called satire dude.. it was supposed to be funny

[samhradh_leannan]

Birth control pills, IUDs, etc. do not protect against STDs. Condoms are always important.

[Red-Blaze]

I can't tell if its a joe or not, the end makes it look like its a joke, the rest looks pretty real.. i.. i.. i... i dont know XD
HELP?

[Political_dude]

It's a satire depending on your taste. :) If you read only points, they'll make sense but if you read description then you'll understand the humor

[Red-Blaze]

Well played then, well played XD

[Stiglg]

Believing in equality has nothing to do with competence and how sexual you are. People are not equal in every way. There are sissy men and there are very strong women.
My girlfriend is most certainly a feminist and I still:
1) have to make the first move
2) there is no way I'm going to be a stay at home dad

I guess the rest is true but i was never worried about condom fails... get on the pill people. 99.9 is pretty damn good.

[torken]

I dont think this applies to feminists, i think it applies to low-maintenance girls.

Especially your last point, strictly speaking, feminists are against having the sole burden of birth control. its not very equal.