Why do I feel emotionless after a heartbreaking split with my girlfriend?(please read the whole description)? (Page 2)

DanteSparda · 2014-05-07T23:58:24Z

Hey G@Gers, I'm a 21 year old College student and I've recently broke up with my girlfriend who I've dated for over 1 year. I loved her with all my heart and she was everything to me. Before our official break up, she told me she does not love me anymore and she still have feelings for her ex BF. When she told me that, my heart stopped and I cried my eyes out. I just couldn't imagine my life without her and seeing her with someone else.When we actually broke up, she told me she didn't want to have a future with me and I shouldn't wait for her.If I was a bad person, or if I cheated on her, or if I disrespected her, I can say "Forgive me." But this was totally different. Not wanting a future with me is just... game over. There's really nothing I can do or say about that. So I had to let go of her and I felt like I was alone.How weird... after 3-4 days, I feel emotionless. I feel no pain at all. I'm not happy or sad. Is this normal? I heard many people say that it will hurt for weeks or even months. But it was only been 3-4 days... Why do I not miss her? I try to keep myself busy to not think about her, but I should still feel sad whenever I think of her once in a while.. But I feel so emotionless.. Can anyone tell me why this is happening to me? Is this Normal? Or is it just me?

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