Do girls regret rejecting nice guys?

[Anonymous]

Especially if the guy is very sweet and nice. Just wondering if any girl has and why you regretted it and/or changed your mind about him.
Thanks :)

[xoxoxgossipgirl]

Sadly, some girls really don't care who they hurt.
It's a good feeling when you meet a guy that is very sweet and nice but it can also get very annoying. In my opinion, I love a guy that can still be sweet but joke around. And by joke around, I mean insult each other without getting offended. Also, when it's sweet to the point they agree with EVERYTHING you say, it can be a bit tedious.
I have to admit, I rejected a few nice guys in the past. But it had nothing to do with the fact they were nice or sweet. Simply, because I wasn't interested. Yeah, there are times I look back at it and say, "Wow it would have been nice to be with him." But I think nothing more than that because regretting it would just leave me with a burden on my shoulders.

[pineneedle]

In high school i did. It wasn't that i changed my mind about him, it's more that i was really really shy and would panic if a guy asked me out or seemed particularly interested in me.
Even if i liked them, I'd say no out of the mere shock of being asked.
I'd regret it almost immediately and feel like a total idiot, and then I'd avoid them because i was so embarrassed.
I think girls do regret rejecting nice guys, but it's usually because they didn't know they were nice guys when they rejected them.

[existing_not_living]

No. I'm sorry but this "nice guys" thing is kind of getting on my nerves. Guys act like they are the only ones who never get a girl because they are being "nice". It happens to girls too. Do you know how many times I see a terrible girl with an awesome guy and wonder why I'm still single? A girl could regret rejecting any guy in general.

[TheEroticJester]

Depends on how nice. I'm the guy that'll tease and probably get you really pissed off but if I see she needs help I'll always offer (even this gets me labelled as 'nice guy' for some reason lmfao) or just go do something though recently I don't even do that I just do nice stuff for bros who need help since everytime I help a girl they take it as me being their bitch or something.

But if you're being lovey dovey always agree with her think she's a god nice that's not actually nice.

Went off on a tangent, but to answer your question, most will forget you 5 minutes after they reject you and that's just as well. Don't worry about their feelings, take care of yours

[Anonymous]

No they don't. They convince themselves that the guys they reject are creeps deep down and deserve it. Girls don't want "nice guys" no matter how many times you hear them say that. Women want guys that can seduce them and get them wet. No amount of being nice will do that.

[ironeddie]

Bitter?

[Opinion Owner]

No. I am just tired of guys thinking being nice is enough to get a woman interested. It takes more than being nice to get a guy interested in a girl, obviously it should take more than being nice to get a girl interested in a guy. It is about attraction, not about being nice.

[Opinion Owner]

As far as my comment about women convincing themselves that the nice guys deserve it just read some of the comments the women have been posting about nice guys. Nice guys are being made out to be some sort of manipulator now.

[MyUsernameRules]

Don't know why guys blame themselves for being "nice" when it comes to not getting the girl. Shouldn't being nice not be a favor but who we are supposed to be? If these "nice guys" are expecting to get girls just because they are "nice" as they say, I don't think these guys are really that nice. They are pretty much jerks instead. At least the "jerks" that they blame most of the girls for dating over them are openly jerks if they really are jerks. These "nice guys" seem to be passive aggressive jerks rather than nice. I've seen tons of nice guys having no problems with girls.

[OLDandWISER]

Young pre wall girls rarely regret it and really don't have time since they are basking in a sea of attention from men. However after they hit the wall or married a guy she regrets they then have time to think back at all the great guys she blew it with. Its the time the men get to reject them YEARS later.. Feels good..

[DaCrownlessKing]

I can understand not wanting a pushover (who would) but there are some guys who are genuinely nice and not pushover pansies but still get shafted. I don't understand feminine logic sometimes... oh well

[still_waiting]

No. I'm not gonna date a guy I don't like out of guilt. I'm just very very nice about rejecting them and I feel sorry that they might be hurt but no I do not regret it.

[still_waiting]

And usually they WANT you to feel bad. "I did this for you" "I'm a good guy" "you didn't give me a chance. "
Not so nice...

[PopMart1997]

It's not that they want you to feel bad, itsthst you SHOULD feel bad. But really, you're just cold and heartless. How would you like it if the tables were turned?

[rgb008]

No. "Nice guys" usually aren't really nice. And they're annoying.
If I don't have romantic feelings toward him, I would not pursue anything. And I'm not going to feel bad about it.

[UnicornApocalypse]

Yes, hahaha. Whenever I reject a really nice guy, later that night I sit in bed and get all mad at myself for rejecting him. But by morning my mind is on waffles instead.

[ironeddie]

Waffles. The cure for what ails you. (•‿•)

[UnicornApocalypse]

XD indeed

[Mesonfielde]

Why regret rejecting someone you don't find attractive and/or compatible? Rejection is far less harsh than leading someone on.

[zombiebabe]

a sweet and nice guy is so rare...i don't think girls would reject him unless they didn't wanna be in a relationship

[Anonymous]

I do and that's how I'm feeling right now at this moment but at the same time it's better to be honest and say ur true feelings u can't have feelings for some one u don't love

[Anonymous]

Guys who claim to be nice guys are rarely nice. They put expectations on females as if they require some servitude or recognition for being nice.