What would happen if I try again on my crush after she rejected me?

[Anonymous]

It's been almost a year after she rejected me. We were very good friends since then, She has said how much she likes to talk with me and misses it. But after my asking out and she rejected it, she removed me from her life including social media. I really like her, I want she in my life. So if I try on her again, what would happen?

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I think I did a mistake in my description due to bad writing skills. it should be like this.

We were very good friends. She has said how much she likes to talk with me and misses it. Then I asked her out.

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She said don't feel about me that way. I told her how her rejection hurt me. After few days, I found out that she has removed me from social media. This is like a year ago. I love her. I want her back. what she would think if I try on her again now?

[Anonymous]

Do u want her as a gf or friend? I don't know that's hard cause most of the time it gets awkard u can try talking if u want to be friends if u like her tell her again she could say the same response mostly if we reject u it's cause we don't have feelings for you or circumstances make us think if we could pull it off As a couple , it happened to me I was intrested in a guy in hs he was older than me we stopped going to school and then we finished and I never saw him recently we contacted through fb and I live in a different place it's not that far but either way if he liked me he would want to see me and he didn't and he has a baby so I wasn't ready for that so he said he liked me and he wanted to go out with me I said no even tho I did liked him before and i found him attractive still I rejected him. I felt he wasn't into a serious relationship plus he wanted me to be with his baby. I didn't take it serious, but other guys have told me they like me and he blocked me wouldn't message me at all I wanted to keep talking to him as friends but I guess tHat wasn't good enough I feel bad , I wanted to keep talking to him. Other than that guys want to know me right away and I say no sorry my feelings don't match urs. And they keep insisting I just say no if they don't get it I then stop talking to them if they want to talk as friends depends on the person I'll keep talking if not then I won't talk to them either

[Asker]

I want her as my girl friend. I want to take care of her forever. I love her

[Opinion Owner]

As a friend? The only thing u can do is try talking if she won't reply or nothing then there's nothing she can do.

[justanordinarygal]

If you really love her and want her by your side then do Everything you can to get that girl. If you want someone or something you have to fight for it.. nothing comes easy:) And who cares if she says no? Just keep on telling her that you care and keep on being an Amazing friend. I would definitly fall in love with a guy that doesn´t give up :) Do it for yourself.. and good luck :)

[Asker]

I got stabbed in heart once I'm really afraid that it will happen again. because it f**king hurts a lot. My life was a complete bizarre for last year. I can't concentrate on my work

[justanordinarygal]

I know that feeling, trust me..
The least hearbreaking thing to do is forgetting her but really? is that really what you want? No you want her back. Sitting in your room and loving her will not bring her back, the ONLY person in the world who can actually do something about this situation is you okay? I know it hurts like hell being rejected but trust me, you will feel much better getting some answers. My advise is confession. Just spill it out, dont be afraid of saying too much. You have to fail to succeed right? Whats the worst thing that could happen? her saying no? A mature woman would definitly give a guy a chance.. If she rejects you then she´s not worth your time and energy.. And would you really like to have a relationship with someone that rude? And for your own sake.. defeat your own fears, it´s not that scary. that feeling afterwards is much better than your confusing feelings right now :)

[Asker]

what you suggest me to do?

[justanordinarygal]

Chat casual with her in the beginning.. And after some talk try to "ask her out".. But more like "hey wanna hang out someday".. And don't go to the movies or a restaurant.. Maybe picnic or a boat trip, something out in the nature :) and when the time is right, explain everything to her.. Say that you do this for yourself, and it would be fun if she gave you a chance and if she's not willing to take ur friendship to a new level then be sure to say that its fine.. :) good luck!

[Asker]

she removed me from her life including all the social media. So what can I do?

[Thomas22222]

I know I'm not involved with this thread but you have literally have gave me motivation to get out there and get the girl that I like I have been rejected by my crush recently and I have thought about it and I do still like her so I'm going to push on and get her for good I know you haven't gave me advice directly but I have just been reading this feed and you have inspired me I want to say thanks

[pinky100]

no.. i wouldn't. BY NO MEANS! if she deleted you and cut from social media that's a big warning sign that she doesn't want to be contacted.. come on-a year!!! its a very long time.. she could find someone by then or she is interested in other guys.. sozzz :(.

[Asker]

she is still a single. when we were friends, I know how much she missed me. She always runs to me to tell all things happen in her life. So, why she didn't wanted to contacted by me? she left me without even letting me know

[pinky100]

it doesn't change situation.. she wants to go single. Maybe she treats you as a friend? she doesn't want to. that's the answer...

[Asker]

don't girls want someone that really cares and loves for them? they say appearance is not the first priority right? I was there for her almost 3 years. I asked out she cut me from her life totally and went. how it can be such easy?

[pinky100]

yes we do.. but if a girl put you in a friend zone she will only want a guy care for her as a friend.. believe me i experienced something like that.. where guy blocked me on facebook.. that's obviously a sign-HE DOES NOT WANT TO TALK TO ME.. look, this girl does not want to be with you. I am telling you as a girl.. if she cuts you out, come on!

i know its hard when you care for her... and she did that.. but believe me i been with a guy for 9 month looking after him etc and we split up.. he cut me from his life too.

Look do not dwell.. nothing you can do! Take it easy!:) P. S. That guy found a new girl..

[Asker]

after so much things we have done. talked how and why she able to leave me without letting me know?

[Asker]

and she didn't blocked me, but has unfriend me?

[pinky100]

well its the same it doesn't matter:block or un friend. that clearly shows she doesn't wan to talk to you and maybe to shy or something else going there why she did it.. point it-she doesn't want to.. besides i know it's hard.. read my message and you'll see i been in same situation. You just have to get over it!

[Asker]

at the moment that is also my major concern. may be she liked me but there was some other reason she couldn't say me yes. Then she may probably in pain now. I wanna make sure she left me because she genuinely disliked me. do you have any ideas?

[pinky100]

exactly and she just thought that by cutting you off it will make things better.. i do not know that... if she would? why she would not contact you? strange, isn't it? no, you have to ask her...

[Anonymous]

After you confessed your intent, perhaps she realized that a platonic friend she will never be to you. Consequently, she foreclosed on the friendship to avoid your persistency and unwelcomed advances.

[Asker]

can you simplify that?

[Opinion Owner]

After you asked her out, she realized that the friendship would never be the same. You want to be more, and she does not. Thus, she ended the friendship to avoid additional, uncomfortable situations of you asking her out again.

[Asker]

after like a year will she be open to consider me again?

[Opinion Owner]

That may be. Perhaps the answer depends upon why she rejected you in the first place.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't bother, let her come to you if she is interested in more than friendship.

[Anonymous]

She probably removed you from social media because she felt uncomfortable, especially if you kept flirting with her after she rejected you. That would mean she does not want you to ask her out again.

It sounds like she misses being your friend. I think you should try to be her friend. Hang out with her more. If she flirts when you hang out, then maybe you can try to ask her out again, but until she shows very obvious signs, I don't think you should try to be anything more than friends.

[Annybell]

She's reject you again. She misses being friends.
Since she removed you from social media she obviously became uncomfortable and wanted you to get over your crush because she's not interested.

[Asker]

I still do not understand why she removed me from social media. She didn't even said to me. What do you mean uncomfortable? if I show her how much she means for me, will she consider?

[Annybell]

I don't know why she was uncomfortable. But that's normally the reason someone does that and also to give you the chance to move on and stop chasing her.
Even if you show her how much she means to you, you can't force someone to like you romantically which is what you are trying to do.

[Asker]

don't girls want someone who genuinely cares for them, who can understand and listen to them?

[Annybell]

Yes, but they also want a lot of things.

[Amygreen]

I think you should give it a little new time since you two haven't talked in a while don't just throw it at her you what I mean? (:

[Asker]

noo.. tell me more (:

[Amygreen]

Okay so since she just came back into your life you don't want to drive her away again like hang out with her talk to her just as friends then slowly bring up how you feel about her and see what she says I think she just needed time to figure things out now do you know what I mean jellybean? (:

[Amygreen]

Maybe the whole jellybean thing was a little weird sorry lol

[evellion]

Maybe you should read the replies on your first question. She isn't interested in dating you. Drop it.

[Blueeyes81]

The same results.

[Anonymous]

Not worth it man