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No, I think guys care 'too much' about physical appearance. Women do all of the things you mentioned because that's what guys want to see.
It's because the media crams perfection down our throats.
True, but in real life, most men don't reinforce this belief! Its often OTHER girls who reinforce it!
Because society puts more of an emphasis on our looks
I think men care too much about women's physical appearance.
Too subjective to generalize. Some do, some don't. I love the ones that like, forget they have a personality. Those are always interesting.
yes and since We created a society where women are valued and preferred according to their appearances and postures..
i think we all just want to look good. no mater what the gender
I'm a perpetual victim to being scared of my weight, bur other than that not really.
lol yep girls care about physical appearance way too much for a lot of reasons.
They just do it in first see :D but really they mostly don't care about it :D
Yes. I obviously do... now that is not any sort of promise that I am going to change my ways, but at least I am aware of the problem right? xD
Dude, do you know any guys that are OCD?
I guarantee you, they will have similar obsessions in terms of keeping up appearances.
Doesn't guy care too much about girls' physical appearance also. Thais just human nature in general, unless the girl's personality just outshine her looks
i care, alottttt,... and yet still feel i need to improve some more on my appearance.
I think they care too much about a Guys Confidence.
Yes. a lot of advertisements (with models) make it difficult for a woman to be happy with what they look like. I think if they were given more compliments it would make it a lot easier for them.
yes we do
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We all care about phyiscal appearance.
I'm talking about caring about physical appearance too much!
Most women are insecure that's probably why.
True, but why are they insecure? What makes them insecure? I say the media and other women. Men don't do that very often!
I can't answer that question for you.
Men are more visual, so it makes sense
"Men are more visual"
Define visual. Also ask yourself: how important are looks to men? Are looks more important to women, or just as important?
Because guys don't care about looks as much as the media would have you believe.
i think they care about looks more. Honest opinion, dont hate
I would never hate you for expressing your opinion. I'd hate your opinion, but I wouldn't hate you!
Look at all the rate me question girls ask. They seem to care way more then we guys do.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/search?q=rate+me
We care because most of you do. We care because most of y'all have this obsession with double D's and stick legs and perfect hair.
That assumption suggests that you are still relatively sheltered and naïve.
I said "most of" because I know one of you white knight types could come in and say "not all men!!!"
In 10 years you'll understand.
"We care because most of you do. We care because most of y'all have this obsession with double D's and stick legs and perfect hair."
Of course, of course! Because you are TOTALLY a guy, and you DEFINITELY know that most of us do. I'm a guy speaking from experience. Girls care too much about their own looks, and the looks of guys. Don't blame men for that. Most of us don't care that much about our looks, now do we?
I'm not saying you personally, but have you even been around most men?
"depends, is she hot?"
"why are girls so scared of being fat all the time?" "ew fat chicks"
"she should not wear makeup, I like my girl natural" "ew acne"
"I like curvy girls" "gross I mean curvy as in big boobs and butt not fat!!!"
"she's too skinny"
"she dresses too slutty" "I like it when a girl wears tight clothing"
Yeah, becasue we dont say the things I just posted. Becasue we're socialized to accept your flaws
"gross she doesn't shave her legs" "what do you mean you dont love my back hair"
"Becasue we're socialized to accept your flaws"
You are? Women don't nag men and hold them by high standards? They do, we just won't tolerate it. A friend of mine just broke up with his GF because she was complaining about how he should cut his hair, and get eye surgery!
"depends, is she hot?"
"why are girls so scared of being fat all the time?" "ew fat chicks"
"she should not wear makeup, I like my girl natural" "ew acne"
"I like curvy girls" "gross I mean curvy as in big boobs and butt not fat!!!"
"she's too skinny"
"she dresses too slutty" "I like it when a girl wears tight clothing"
you've got men all wrong poppunk. Of course i've been around most men. I'm a man!
A lot of these are DIRECT quotes i've heard from guys at school. Take Nash Grier for instance. I'm glad you're not like that, but a lot of people are
And i'm sorry about your friend, but i've never heard of something like that before
"A lot of these are DIRECT quotes i've heard from guys at school."
Those are boys, NOT MEN! Most of them don't know WHAT they want form a girl!
but understand, what happens when someone's young shapes them and their self image forever. I was verbally abused a lot as a younger child and still carry feelings of worthlessness because of it. Most of what you believe comes from when you're young. So if boys at a young age are telling girls what they need to be, that's the standard they'll more than likely forever hold themselves to.
People change. Its just SCHOOL. School kids are infamous for being immature, even high schoolers. People change, its a natural part of life. You have to let the past go, and give the future a chance!
but it's easier said then done. You don't know just how many of my friends have come crying to me because of something a guy said about her appearance. My ex made fun of my legs, and he was my ex for gosh's sake. He was the one who's supposed to not care, dating me and all. I dont get how you can say guys dont care about looks when this is my experience
THESE ARE SCHOOL BOYS NOT MEN! How many times do I have to tell you this?
so getting older excuses your actions? really?
"so getting older excuses your actions? really?"
XD ROFL Where did this come from.
Getting older makes you more mature, and improves your decision making skills. Teens have a reputation of having poor decision making skills. You should know that.
Women care too much about each other's appearance.
i'm a guy and i care about my physical appearance
Its what the media has influenced us -.-
Girls are judged on their appearance, makes sense.
Yeah, so what.