What are the signs she just wants a friends with benefits situation (FWB) / no strings attached sex situation?

[Anonymous]

As the question states, what are the signs a girl just wants a friends with benefits/no strings attached sex situation?

[BertMacklinFBI]

she should tell you that's what she wants. girls that don't want it won't ever mention it. girls with some decency will tell you they just wanna use you and abuse you. the ones that don't tell you, expect to feel like you're just being used and abused lol.

[Asker]

So if they don't state it up front do I assume that they're out for a relationship of some sort?

[BertMacklinFBI]

well in my experience girls straight up told me they just wanna fuck :P they had the decency to at least tell me because they don't wanna not tell me and have to go through the relationship ropes you know? so if she doesn't tell you then its most likely because its not in her interest but if all she is trying to do is treat you like a fuck buddy then that's most likely what it is. she should bring it up though. most people are comfortable enough with the person to ask them if they just wanna be FWB. they don't ever try to hide it because then it could lead nowhere lol.

[Asker]

Okay so I had a chick come on super strong about sex (which I agreed to), but was doing a lot of stuff that indicated she wanted more - asking me a lot of personal details, telling me a lot of personal details about herself, making comments that indicated she wanted more than a friends with benefits scenario (at least I thought?) but then she said we're just friends - so was she implying we're just on a night stand thing or did she really lose interest that quickly?

[BertMacklinFBI]

if she said "we're just friends" that could mean 2 things, she got embarrassed of what you may think the sex was about so she's keeping her guard up or she really meant it that you two are just friends and its a hook up only. she can share details about herself if she wants, that's all on her. she can ask you too, you don't have to answer.

if she lost interest its because she's seeing other friends with benefits too, most likely. if she this you up again its because the sex was good and you're considered a decent option to go to.