Do girls prefer douchebags over nice guys? (Page 2)

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Well... I bet all o u have heard this phrase "Nice guys finish last"... in many cases it's kinda true... James Bond's a douche in a way... but Let's admit it guys we all wanna be like him in real life... anyway back to the point... y is it that the ladies like the douche... y's the nice guy always friendzoned? It's happened 2 me many times.. I consider my self somewhere in the middle...

trashleythompson · Answer

A d-bag is a waste of time. I'd want to spend my time with someone who isn't afraid to tell me how he feels. I want a nice guy who actually has feelings.

kittykatbrat · Answer

I am a serial dater who likes bad-boy-players as I see myself in them
and we are instantly on the exact same page of sex and fun without
emotions or attachment.

This lifestyle and way of thinking doesn't make either one of us douchy.

Tokana · Answer

Just be yourself and find out. If she doesn't like you, then all the better for you to find someone who will accept you for who you are.

Personally though, I've had a lot more fun and success being a douchebag.

Yellowbone · Answer

No. We're attracted to adventuresome, fun guys that can give us a challenge over boring guys that give us the same shit everyday. Unfortunately, douchebags tend to be the former & nice guys the latter.

Arthurred · Answer

Here we go again, if I had a dime for every time I heard this, to answer your question I don't know girls can be a mystery but my guess is some girls are blinded by physical attraction or are just plain dumb..

kangy · Answer

i still prefer nice guys douche bag- i will run for the hill

2point0Katt · Answer

Confident nice guys have my vote. Not players, not douche bags, and nothing in between.

bellahastings · Answer

First of all there is no such thing as the friendzone.  Just because you are nice to a girl, she is not obligated to want to date you or sleep with you.

Horuseus · Answer

Good guys mostly get friendzoned and then they have to listen the girl they love, when she is talking about her douchebag crush and complaining why he acts like a douche.

PrincessCastle · Answer

I like nice guys, because I prefer guys with a nice personality over guys who look 'hot.' The only reason girls like douches is when they are really attractive anf/or there's something, like a one-time thing, that they did that's really nice. I don't really know about the majority of girls, but I like nice guys. Hot douches are overrated.

Sweet_Coco · Answer

Girls like a gentleman with a little touch of bad boy swag to him. Try and be nice but not too nice, because when your too nice girls will label you as "BGF" best. guy. friend

HanoiRocks · Answer

Neither.. girls prefer guys with confidence. :P
You can either be nice or a douche and have confidence. lol
Confidence is what girls look for.. it just happens that douchebags tend to have more confidence than "nice" guys.

AthleticMom · Answer

If I may answer this a bit more comprehensively I suggest that gals are attracted to a personality that's either a bit opposite to their own or one that SAYS what she wishes SHE could say

yellowmamba024 · Answer

It depends on who you are asking. Some prefer douchebags, some prefer nice guys. Some pretend to prefer nice guys, but they prefer jerks.

Winterblade200 · Answer

Well it depends some may and some may not depends on how they were raised to think of boys and they're beliefs

usernameismyusername · Answer

You hear the saying " A woman marries a man thinking she could change him"?

nikistar22 · Answer

I don't prefer assholes over nice guys.. I just happen to go for the super hot ones and hey turn out being crummy. I never learn. On to my next mistake. :0

normalice · Answer

girls prefer cute guys. it just so happens than the jerks are usually the cute ones. "nice" is girl-code for "not attractive".

beautifulangel76 · Answer

I like nice guys. Girls who like bad guys like them because of rebellion and because of what they have to offer.

kstarholland · Answer

I really don't go for the douchbags unless there is something about them that like. if not and they are really douchbags I go for the nice guy

JackKerouac77 · Answer

I want sex and candyyyy, yeahhhh

RoyalBlue87 · Answer

For their fantasies and to have dine while they are young they prefer douchebags but as they get age and seek for marriage and start family they want nice guys then.

Lena19 · Answer

Honestly I go after the nice guys and my boyfriend treats me with respect.

crystalt70 · Answer

Nope. I want a nice guy with confidence and humility. A fine balance makes for a great man.

Anonymous · Answer

Off course we do only to have fun unless we find that cute very acttractive guy who willing to be gentlemen do anything for us that's when it's get real. I don't know what nice guys to u cuz don't want to do what she wants sound like a Fuckboy would do

GlitterGirl456 · Answer

I want a freakin prince. But am I gonna get a prince? No. Because that's life. I'd go for someone in the middle.

Anonymous · Answer

Most girls go for the looks. Its pretty sad (most deny it) ask a guy the same question, nice girl not so attractive, not such a high status... or a girl thats attractive with a high status. Ask yourself, same thing.

Anonymous · Answer

They like a NASSHOLES. Nice guy with the right asshole qualities. The asshole qualities being confidence, assertiveness, spontaneous, self driven, high self esteem, doesn't need to babysat with reassurance, takes charge.

Anonymous · Answer

When a dude whines about girls not wanting "nice guys" then I would certainly prefer the douche - any day.

Anonymous · Answer

sadly the douche bags are the ones for a reason get more girls.. i dont know but something attracts us to them.. i know completely stupid! but i think that at a point as we grow up we prefer nice guys to be with:)

zombiebabe · Answer

nice guys obviously!!! douche bags are such a waste of time

Anonymous · Answer

She has to find you attractive. You can't be overly nice or it comes off creepy. Just be yourself and if the girl finds you attractive too then great.

bubble_tea · Answer

I've never dreamt of being James Bond's girlfriend.. so nice guy for me, I guess.

MJas16 · Answer

Always the nice guys. Skme guys I've known who are really attractive ruined it with their douchbag attitude.

Yeahhbro · Answer

Girls always go for guys that are confident, funny, aggressive, dominating and naughty. Have you ever seen a nice guy with those traits? Yup

Tomsta · Answer

In my experience 'Nice Guys' even ones that are assertive and have an opinion have NO luck with women

girl111m · Answer

I prefer nice guys because if a guy has a personality like too snob or player i would actually see him ugly even if he is hot.

Brenden4202 · Answer

How about a man that treats his girl right but doesn't take any shit demands respect and will easily fuck up anyone who doesn't abid by that.

Klaatu51 · Answer

I doubt that most girls are after conservative military dudes :-(

Renee17864 · Answer

I prefer nice guys but douchebag kinda guys seem to have more confidence which is really attractive.

Pinkbeauty · Answer

nice guys have my vote but not mean rude immature or inapropreit ones

stevephillips706 · Answer

Girls want someone who is nice but dosent let them walk all over them

LuvsMusic13 · Answer

I like nice guys but I don't usually think of guy friends like that anyway so maybe that's why

blondfrog · Answer

The stereotypical woman wants a guy who is nice to her and protects her, but mean and douchy to others.

songofthesparrow · Answer

I like guys who are sweet + protective ( not overly protective) with some bad too them.

cheonsongyi · Answer

Nice guys are better because douchebags will be douchebags... :3 Forever and always.

Jbunch · Answer

No, here's the real deal: Girls prefer exciting guys, over boring guys.

sdsdilan · Answer

Generally douchebags have so much confident , seem fun and dangerous. it is just fantasy. But i prefer a nice guy for marriage.

Asiyah · Answer

Nice guys dont finish last  How can they come last if they dont enter the race?  Any girl would choose a nice guy but they should remember to have confidence

Anonymous · Answer

What's your idea of being in the friend zone: not getting laid or having girls legitimately stay permanent friends with you?

pakrulz · Answer

Girls want just the right kind of jerk, the one they think they can change!

Anonymous · Answer

Here's my take on it:

johnvanjohn · Answer

third category: handsome prince on white horse, bad ass, with a horse cok, a mansion, with the dark triad but also tender and poetic when needed.

lifeistooshort111 · Answer

Well, isn't it really a high school thing where 'bad boys" are IT? I think the more mature women become, the less they're attracted to this type.

WaterNymph611 · Answer

I don't understand where this stereotype of girls preferring douches over nice guys came from...

GoldCobra · Answer

For the most part yeah, except when they reach their late 20s i believe. Just my opinion though

Radicalbabee · Answer

There's Many Fish In The Sea, Personally Me I Want A Nice Guy Cause DoucheBags Hurt Girls & Make Them Feel Bad You Shouldn't Change Just Because Someone Brought You Down Just Be You ☺️

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i like boys i find physically attractive with certain mannerisms

Princessofpersia · Answer

I hate when guys say girls go for the jerks. That's just stupid and a way for guys to just give up.

Anonymous · Answer

I used to like douche bags a lot and can't believe how stupid I was. Nice guys all the way now!!!

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