Always there for my girlfriend but she's never there for me, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I have been together for some time now, I'm always there for her regardless of what it is she needs. When she's low I'm always there. Helping her constantly has got me feeling low and I'm reaching out for her to be there and she's not. She'll try to cheer me up by saying a joke or something, I'll smile and that'll be it for a few days. She told me that she can't deal with my roller coaster but not blaming her, just this roller coaster has been caused by the way she's been yet I don't have a heart to tell her out of fear I'll lose her.

ANYTHING will be appreciated, Thank you.

[Flourish]

YOU NEED TO TALK TO HER. It's a cliche, but it's true, communication is key! At least give her a proper chance to make it up to you. This could definitely be caused by her bipolar disorder. Sorry this is happening, but the only way to get through it is to be open and honest. Good luck. Would you look at mine please? Thanks! www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1312996-was-it-more-about-me-or-the-parents

[lumos]

How busy is she? What is the cause of her feeling low?

[Asker]

I'm not sure how busy she is if I'm honest, I feel like this is something I should know but she never wants to talk about her day. I've asked her several times why she feels low and she just says "I don't know". She is bipolar which is a huge factor, and I'm almost positive she has stopped taking her medication. I don't want to force her to take it, though.

[yulbsari]

You need to trust your feelingd and RESPECT YOURSELF! Don't be a slave for her attention! It's a black hole that will suck you dry! You deserve to be treated better... if she won't... move on...

[Asker]

Moving on would be hard but as you've said. I need to respect myself. I'll see how things unravel. Thanks.