Why don't girls feel comfortable when they get a ride in my car ?

[Anonymous]

i'm somewhat confused by this behaviour , i've had 2 very similar encounters with girls after leaving a bar/party . i don't drink much like 1-2 beer but still go out to bar so often drive my car as i live outside of town and no other way to get in .
anyways been 2 times i have given girls a ride in car and each time things just got weird and they start making comments worrying that something bad is going to happen , what if he does this to us etc and they seemed really out of line and if they trusted me that little why did they get in car to begin with .
now the first encounter involved 2 girls from back home and i knew one them fairly well , gave them a 10 minute ride to a gf's house after leaving the bar one night and they got annoyed when i took a shortcut down a sideroad instead of the main highway .
the second encounter happened last night as i was leaving a bar in a small city , 2 girls who were also at same bar but that i didn't really know asked me for a ride as they couldn't find a taxi , so i gave them a ride also maybe 10 minutes or less . and when they first got in all kinds of weird comments and such , if you try anything etc . but they felt better as ride continued and seemed to like me once i dropped them off .

i'm confused by this as car is a like new 2014 chevy cruze , windows are not tinted , no loud scary music , car is clean , i'm not a big guy , don't smoke in car and no alcohol bottles , and both times it was a pair of girls so they weren't even alone in car . it to me seems like a really safe looking car and atmosphere to be in .

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon for people to be killed for making the poor decision to go with a stranger (even men)... Sometimes drunk people make decisions too slowly and end up in situations that happened befthey didn't really think through.

[Asker]

I guess but its like a small town. who gets killed here after getting a ride with someone they already know , we live in the most boring and quiet town , nothing ever happens here , some people don't even lock there doors ? a casual ride through town although late at night seems rather low risk to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Bad things happen in small towns too... It's even possible they some may have had past bad experiences from being trapped alone with someone, like childhood sexual abuse.

[falafelany1]

I would not be comfortable having someone drive me if they were drinking. Period.

[Asker]

there issue didn't seem to be with me having a beer or not , like worried for there personal safety

[falafelany1]

Being worried about their safetly could be because you had something or things to drink. I would be worried.

[been_waiting]

They're drunk so they have no filter. but all girls in that situation would probably be thinking those things regardless of what the guy is like.

[Asker]

the girls from last night eventually said I was a nice person when I dropped them off , but at first things were very weird , they felt better after they talked to me