when I was younger I had a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge crush on this guy, and I still like him! he's a bigger guy but I do find him attractive! He has lost some weight in the past few years, but I always did think he was attractive! There's tons of girls out there who find bigger guys attractive, so no worries! :]
Girls like healthy looking bodies, not sloppy looking ones. Big is not unattractive as long as you are clean, decent, and healthy. Personally, I've always liked bigger guys.
Truthfully: I go on personality. If I have fun with the guy, if he is someone I can just hang out with in my pjs with. Or go to the batting cage with. I love for a guy to have a sence of humor that will care for me, you know someone I can rely on.
I am from the South so the guys I have dated were bigger, and taller than me. I don't want a bean pole. I want someone that I feel can protect me. I love that. I am 5'4 so I have dated guys who have been 6 foot and up.
my boyfriend is not big but not small...but I have dated bigger guys. & there have been bigger guys that I thought were attractive but nothing ever happened. Maybe the girl for you is right in front of you but you just havnt realized it yet. Loosing a little bit of weight may help but maybe a change of cloths or hair cut or something of that sort. I'm very paticular when it comes to guys cloths hair teeth & shoes...it don't matter much to me about weight. I hope this helps. good luck
I honestly LOVE bigger guys but can never get them to talk to me. I have no clue why I talk to hem and flirt with them too. DO bigger guys don't think they have a chance with smaller girls?
For the most part yes. I fell I'm too big for a small girl your size.. I love women your size maybe with a few extra pounds (about 130 range) but big guys feel like we have to be with the bigger girls. and that's why I asked this Q to find out if that was right or wrong but it seems like to me the girls prefer big guys... now just wish I could find those girls here where I live...lol =D
They are out there trust me. I have a friend who is like 5'4' and 100lbs and her boyfriend is 6'5' and 240lbs. but she asked him out and they have been together now for 2 years.
I don't really like guys that are sloppy fat. I can like a guy that is big as long as he is thick and has muscle tone and not just fat. I feel like if a guy is gonna want a girl with a nice body then he should have one too.
Honestly, 280 is just way too big for me. I can't see how it could possibly be healthy to weigh that much and then I get grossed out. I'm in the minority though, among my girlfriends, so I think you'll do fine.
i like bigger guys and alotta times I think they can be cuteer me and my besst friend both think so even though she is older than me, lol, but and just be sassy ya know and great around your friends be interestedd~!
I am proof that girls do like us bigger guys. I am 6-5' and 275lbs my fiance is 135lbs and she is head over heals with me. I think us bigger guys offer security to girls. It makes them feel safe to be around and with us. So, the answer is yes.
I love bigger guys. Tall, long legs, big hands, big EVERYTHING! They just attract me. I'm five nine, I've got big curves and I'm a very big, curvy girl. I love big guys because with them, I feel small and feminine and I absolutely LOVE taht feeling. Big guys are a big turn on.
Some really tiny chicks LOVE bigger men, it just depends on their personal preference. Personally, I'm 5'4 and about 150 pounds, very well endowed on top and quite proportionate but I'd much rather prefer a man with meat so that I don't feel silly when I try and sit on his lap. Haha. Anyhow you're not limited, at all.
I love bigs guys! guys are the protectors and I love they way a big guy makes me feel safe. there's nothing like being held in big man arms and broad shoulders and I'm not saying that because I'm big...im only 5'2"!so sont worry bout droppin 30lbs...just find the right girl!
The biggest thing for me is I like guys who are funny. Do I care about looks? Yes.
I want a guy who can protect me. i.e. not too scrawny where I feel like I have to protect myself. BUT I want the guy to care about his looks- like plays sports or works out- lives an active life.
So would I date a 400 lb guy? probably not- But you look proportionate. You are tall- which is GREAT and 280 for someone that tall seems pretty normal.
Honestly I LOVE big guys :DThere's something about them that is reallyy attractive :) I'm 5"11 so I love guys who are taller and bigger. No one likes them shorties.. haha The taller the sexier :D
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you're taller so if you start working out it won't take much time to lose till then love yourself . if you get involved and stay involved in the right things with the right people you can't lose.trust me I'm 30 and people really wanna be around someone who is fun to be around. you will be surprised who is into what. I'm not really into bigger guys depends on how it looks on them. some can do it and some cant
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I don't see a problem with it. Most big guys are adorable! I would hate to be judged because of my weight & height, so it's not fair for others. I am sure girls will go crazy over you!
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It really depends on the guy and how he carries himself.
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when I was younger I had a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge crush on this guy, and I still like him! he's a bigger guy but I do find him attractive! He has lost some weight in the past few years, but I always did think he was attractive! There's tons of girls out there who find bigger guys attractive, so no worries! :]
i wouldn't personally mainly because I'm only 5'2" and 115lbs
Love the girls who are in the 5ft range.. short girls are my weakness between 4'11 and 5'3 :)
Girls like healthy looking bodies, not sloppy looking ones. Big is not unattractive as long as you are clean, decent, and healthy. Personally, I've always liked bigger guys.
Truthfully: I go on personality. If I have fun with the guy, if he is someone I can just hang out with in my pjs with. Or go to the batting cage with. I love for a guy to have a sence of humor that will care for me, you know someone I can rely on.
I am from the South so the guys I have dated were bigger, and taller than me. I don't want a bean pole. I want someone that I feel can protect me. I love that. I am 5'4 so I have dated guys who have been 6 foot and up.
my boyfriend is not big but not small...but I have dated bigger guys. & there have been bigger guys that I thought were attractive but nothing ever happened. Maybe the girl for you is right in front of you but you just havnt realized it yet. Loosing a little bit of weight may help but maybe a change of cloths or hair cut or something of that sort. I'm very paticular when it comes to guys cloths hair teeth & shoes...it don't matter much to me about weight. I hope this helps. good luck
I honestly LOVE bigger guys but can never get them to talk to me. I have no clue why I talk to hem and flirt with them too. DO bigger guys don't think they have a chance with smaller girls?
- 5' 3' 110lbs.
For the most part yes. I fell I'm too big for a small girl your size.. I love women your size maybe with a few extra pounds (about 130 range) but big guys feel like we have to be with the bigger girls. and that's why I asked this Q to find out if that was right or wrong but it seems like to me the girls prefer big guys... now just wish I could find those girls here where I live...lol =D
They are out there trust me. I have a friend who is like 5'4' and 100lbs and her boyfriend is 6'5' and 240lbs. but she asked him out and they have been together now for 2 years.
I don't really like guys that are sloppy fat. I can like a guy that is big as long as he is thick and has muscle tone and not just fat. I feel like if a guy is gonna want a girl with a nice body then he should have one too.
Honestly, 280 is just way too big for me. I can't see how it could possibly be healthy to weigh that much and then I get grossed out. I'm in the minority though, among my girlfriends, so I think you'll do fine.
i like bigger guys and alotta times I think they can be cuteer me and my besst friend both think so even though she is older than me, lol, but and just be sassy ya know and great around your friends be interestedd~!
I am proof that girls do like us bigger guys. I am 6-5' and 275lbs my fiance is 135lbs and she is head over heals with me. I think us bigger guys offer security to girls. It makes them feel safe to be around and with us. So, the answer is yes.
I love bigger guys. Tall, long legs, big hands, big EVERYTHING! They just attract me. I'm five nine, I've got big curves and I'm a very big, curvy girl. I love big guys because with them, I feel small and feminine and I absolutely LOVE taht feeling. Big guys are a big turn on.
my boyfriend is much bigger than me..but tall and built.
Some really tiny chicks LOVE bigger men, it just depends on their personal preference. Personally, I'm 5'4 and about 150 pounds, very well endowed on top and quite proportionate but I'd much rather prefer a man with meat so that I don't feel silly when I try and sit on his lap. Haha. Anyhow you're not limited, at all.
I love bigs guys! guys are the protectors and I love they way a big guy makes me feel safe. there's nothing like being held in big man arms and broad shoulders and I'm not saying that because I'm big...im only 5'2"!so sont worry bout droppin 30lbs...just find the right girl!
The biggest thing for me is I like guys who are funny. Do I care about looks? Yes.
I want a guy who can protect me. i.e. not too scrawny where I feel like I have to protect myself. BUT I want the guy to care about his looks- like plays sports or works out- lives an active life.
So would I date a 400 lb guy? probably not- But you look proportionate. You are tall- which is GREAT and 280 for someone that tall seems pretty normal.
Honestly I LOVE big guys :DThere's something about them that is reallyy attractive :) I'm 5"11 so I love guys who are taller and bigger. No one likes them shorties.. haha The taller the sexier :D
you're taller so if you start working out it won't take much time to lose till then love yourself . if you get involved and stay involved in the right things with the right people you can't lose.trust me I'm 30 and people really wanna be around someone who is fun to be around. you will be surprised who is into what. I'm not really into bigger guys depends on how it looks on them. some can do it and some cant
I don't see a problem with it. Most big guys are adorable! I would hate to be judged because of my weight & height, so it's not fair for others. I am sure girls will go crazy over you!
It really depends on the guy and how he carries himself.
Personally, I find bigger guys very attractive.
im 5'9 240 but I'm yoked I look more like 190-210 I wear it well