Went out with some of my friends, had some drinks at their house, then we walked down to a small bar on the corner and that's when shit started going wrong.
My girlfriend can not hold her liqour very well. The night was fun till we about 10 min before we left for the bar. I could tell she was getting very drunk and I asked her to slow down a bit. She was started to make a fool of herself, it was her first time meeting these people.
So we go to the bar, she has another drink, but I stop cause I have to drive home. She went to the bathroom, it was locked so she pissed on the side of the bar. I was mad about that, then she said she wanted another drink. I said whatever, but I don't want one. I get back and she has 2 beers, and a burger that she ordered on my tap. I was pissed again. We are broke right now because of some shitty decisions she has made, and it pisses me off that she just spends my money without giving a shit.
On the way home she wanted to go to steak and shake. I said fuck no, you just ate, and you don't have any money for it, we are going home. That's when she started talking shit, and I told her to sleep on the couch. Well of course she gets up later and starts arguing. I told her I don't care and to get the fuck out of my room. That's when she came down hard on my neck, basically all her weight behind it. It didn't last long but it hurt like hell, and my throat is still sore this morning. This is the second time this has happened. The first time I told her if she ever did it again were done. Afterwards I grabbed her arm, threw her out of my room and told her she is moving out.
The next morning she says she doesn't remember any of it, and says she is truly sorry for what she did. But I was being an asshole too. She understands if I want to break up with her. I don't know what to do. I love this girl, but this has become a repeating pattern. I should also say that lately we argue more than we have sex. I'm tired of taking care of this girl.
My girlfriend can not hold her liqour very well. The night was fun till we about 10 min before we left for the bar. I could tell she was getting very drunk and I asked her to slow down a bit. She was started to make a fool of herself, it was her first time meeting these people.
So we go to the bar, she has another drink, but I stop cause I have to drive home. She went to the bathroom, it was locked so she pissed on the side of the bar. I was mad about that, then she said she wanted another drink. I said whatever, but I don't want one. I get back and she has 2 beers, and a burger that she ordered on my tap. I was pissed again. We are broke right now because of some shitty decisions she has made, and it pisses me off that she just spends my money without giving a shit.
On the way home she wanted to go to steak and shake. I said fuck no, you just ate, and you don't have any money for it, we are going home. That's when she started talking shit, and I told her to sleep on the couch. Well of course she gets up later and starts arguing. I told her I don't care and to get the fuck out of my room. That's when she came down hard on my neck, basically all her weight behind it. It didn't last long but it hurt like hell, and my throat is still sore this morning. This is the second time this has happened. The first time I told her if she ever did it again were done. Afterwards I grabbed her arm, threw her out of my room and told her she is moving out.
The next morning she says she doesn't remember any of it, and says she is truly sorry for what she did. But I was being an asshole too. She understands if I want to break up with her. I don't know what to do. I love this girl, but this has become a repeating pattern. I should also say that lately we argue more than we have sex. I'm tired of taking care of this girl.
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I should note, her last 2 serious boyfriends... one cheated on her like crazy, and the other was physically abusive towards her. But from what I hear, she was also physical with him quite often. That was her last serious boyfriend before me. She has had a hard life, and I have been trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but right now all I see is another fucking tunnel. I can tell she really loves me and I really do love her, but I am just tired of all her shit.
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She has been apologizing all morning, and even on her way to work. She does seem truly sorry, but again this is the 2ND TIME! I feel like if I stay I am risking getting my dick cut off in my sleep down the road... a joke, but also kind of serious... :(
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