Girls, Do girls find it attractive when a guy they like can fight?

[Anonymous]

Like he's a trained fighter so he "actually knows" how to fight. he's not some guy who wins streetfights and thinks he's badass and tough. This guy can take guys way bigger and stronger them him even though he's only skinny and cut/toned.

he's not aggressive in everyday life, just in the ring/cage where he trains or if he had to defend himself on the street. Otherwise he's nice and gentle, you honestly would never guess he could fight.

is it attractive in general, or just attractive in the he could protect you kind of way, neutral, or turn off.

Yes its attractive in general when a guy can fight

Yes its attractive mainly because he can protect me (or something along those lines)

Yes its even more attractive because he's nice and gentle but can be a fighter when he needs to

Yes its even more attractive because he's nice and gentle but can easily protect me like a "tough guy"/ "fighter" would when he needs to ( or something along those lines)

Its neutral, im indifferent

Its a turnoff

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+1 y

Fighting is the last resort, he doesn't flare up and try to fight at first notice, he's a gentleman and he tries to resolve it that way but if it seems to be esculating or its a situation where the only way to stop it is to fight or prove your toughness/ability to stand up for yourself or the person/people involved, he makes it known that he's not a pussy without exactly getting in peoples faces, and if it turns into a fight, so be it. But he's professional about it, he's not guna go over do it.

[Lindy1357]

I think it is attractive to feel that your man could (potentially) keep you safe, but not completely necessary. My boyfriend actually is a trained fighter (BJJ). I find it most attractive when a guy avoids fighting to the best of his abilities and of course is respectful, calm, and composed... Not aggressive and egotistical. I get REALLY turned off when my boyfriend gets his feathers fluffed and talks about fighting or physically harming people, even when those people are asking for it.

More energy should be put into being kind, caring, intelligent, helpful and if anything being a conflict resolver. Being able to defend yourself is important for bot males and females.

[Deezyy]

What girl doesn't like feeling like their man can protect them? I think it's even more attractive when both the girl and guy can double team a scumbag, not THAT'S love! lol. Anyhow, any man who's down for his woman or at least defends her honor gets my respect. A man fighting for his woman is chivalry at it's finest, though I wouldn't encourage any "animal behavior" or put someone I love in a harmful situation, unless someone is looking for problems or some psycho wants some trouble and finds it with the wrong person, then I think it couldn't hurt to teach him a lesson as long as this "trained fighter" doesn't overdo it or kill the guy. Cause then that'd be bullying.

[Asker]

Read the update, that basically describes him in confrontations.

[Deezyy]

Nothing wrong with that!

[Deezyy]

Like I said, I think it's romantic.. it's a crazy world out there more likely than not, we will all encounter some type of situation so good for you on being protective.

[kxera]

E: Its neutral, im indifferent

It doesn't mean anything to me. If he can fight then that's a plus if someone tried to attack, but it's not a want. I'm not into fighting, so for them to just be able to do it means nothing. It is cool though if they do like martial arts or Muay Thai.

[simplyadorable]

a guy nice guy can swoop me up my feet (wait whats that phrase again? lol, i forgot!) but with confidence and will to fight for me will make me fall for him even more.
I'd be proud to be with him and not worry coz I know he truly care for me that fact he puts his pride and his life (only in dangerous situation). It just means his nice but not with a weak heart that is too coward.

so I picked the 3rd one

[simplyadorable]

*nice but not weak at heart

[spuitkaas]

Kinda indifferent. The only thing that would be nice is that he could teach me how to fight, because I would like to learn that. I know some kickboxing, but that's not super handy in a dangerous situation.

[Anonymous]

I guess the good thing about it is security or whatever. The thought of fighting actually scares me and guys who think its so cool/fun to beat the shit out of someone disgust me. I don't like violence.

[Asker]

Dont worry he's not one of those guys. If thats the only solution, he takes care of his business, when he has him, he stops, and usually helps him back up, and goes on his way... he's a gentleman :)

[Asker]

Like read the update, that describes him.

[complicated_soul]

Yes but if he uses it for everything, like in arguements, or if someone punches him once and in return he sends the guy to hospital... then no.

[Asker]

Oh no, like i said in the post he's nice and gentle.

[Asker]

Oh and one punch from him could send a guy to the hospital if he went full blast with it. But he would stop when he had him. But he would actually try not to hot someone that hard in a street fight unless it was life or death, prevent murder, abduction, something along those serious lines.

[Asker]

*try not to hit someone

[complicated_soul]

Yeah, then okay.
I just would like it if he would not use physical strength as the first thing.

[Asker]

Oh no, thats the last resort, he doesn't flare up and try to fight at first notice, he's a gentleman and he tries to resolve it that way but if it seems to esculating or its a situation where the only way to stop it is to fight or prove your toughness/ability to stand up for yourself or the person/people imvolved, he makes it known that he's not pussy without exactly getting in peoples faces, and if it turns into a fight, so be it. But he's professional about it, he's not guna go overboard. If all that makes sense.

[Asker]

*people involved

[complicated_soul]

Oh yes. Understood. Then, he is cool. 😎

[vickiezalez]

I think it's hot but I've always been wary of such guys. My grandfather used to hit my grandma so there's that history.

If he truly was sweet and gentle then he'd be truly attractive

[PrettyBama]

That's a skill that's rarely used. He needs employable/marketable skills.

[Asker]

Im only asking about this skill and trait. I know others matter more

[PrettyBama]

Yes. So in comparison. This one means nothing.

[Pepperoninchihuahuas]

yes but to protect the ones in need.. thats a full on turn on.. im a martial artist too!

[Lynda_The_Devil]

Guy that I'm dating at the moment was in a fight on the beach against a bunch of drunk idiots. He got hurt but he managed to protect me and we walked away safe.

Didn't help that he wasn't wearing a lot and was barefoot I guess. He's very into bodybuilding and I think being very muscular helped him when though he's only 17yrs old. No one though came to help him and just watched. That pissed me off as he was very outnumbered. But you're right that it's a turn on knowing your guy can fight and protect you if he needs to.

[Pepperoninchihuahuas]

@Lynda_The_Devil I must simply say you're one lucky dame.! ❤️

[Lynda_The_Devil]

Lol. Yeah I guess so. A lot of muscle looks sexy especially seeing it displayed in a fight.

[ShaeNielson]

Yes, it's hot as hell when a guy CAN fight (no, that doesn't mean hitting everything that movies, or getting aggressive out of nowhere)

[Lynda_The_Devil]

Completely agree. A guy who can protect us is very sexy.

[ShaeNielson]

@Lynda_The_Devil Sure is, it doesn't matter that I can protect myself too, it's just hot.

[Lynda_The_Devil]

Yeah I totally agree. Seeing him in action showing off lot s of muscle mass is what does it for me.

[ShaeNielson]

@Lynda_The_Devil I agree

[Lynda_The_Devil]

Thank you 😀

[MissNowhere]

Couldn't care less. Indifferent.