Girls, do you use Tinder to actually communicate, or do you just like the attention from guys? (Page 2)

Jimrat86 · 2015-08-11T13:38:14Z

Recently (just about a week ago) installed the Tinder app. I'll list my experiences thus far: 1. Girl swiped right on me. We got to talking for a couple of days. When I mentioned the idea of meeting up, she dodged the question jokingly. It was at this point that I just gave up and stopped talking to her. Also note that talking to her was like pulling teeth because she took forever to respond to me. 2. Girl swiped right on me last night. Had a convo with her. Once again, responses were short and took a while. It amounted to me having to do all the work talking. Eventually just gave up out of frustration. 3. The rest. Girls seldomly swipe right on me as it would seem so far, but even when they do, they either never respond or just stop communicating. Girls, do you have a Tinder (or comparable dating app)? If so, if you swipe right, do you do so with the intentions of actually communicating? Do you just like the attention from men? Please keep in mind that I do not suggest anything sexual, or talk in a manner that is creepy or inappropriate with them. In fact, I am quite polite and act interested in what is happening in their lives. If not, why would you swipe right (an indicationg of possible interest) in the first place? My friend uses this app and he gets dates all the time. Also, I do not think I'm God's gift to women, but I also know I am not ugly. Thoughts?

Jimrat86

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When I was on it I liked talking. But I usually ended up trolling the guys because they werent really interested in anything but sex

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Anonymous
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I only really get on tinder because it's so convenient and if I'm bored it's a great app to waste time lol BUT when I do converse w/ guys you have to understand (maybe I'm just speaking for myself) but us girls probably get way more matches than guys. So we are constantly getting messaged by the opposite sex and even invites left and right.

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I don't have tinder but if you have a dating app there is nothing wrong with that

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Anonymous
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I usually only use it out of boredom if I'm honest but when I do talk to a guy I only keep talking to him if he is fun to talk to I get bored easily with small talk

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Anonymous
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Girls ( including myself too ) use tinder for validation and boredom. Its flattering when you have a lot of guys compliment and wants to interaction with you.

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Most girls like the attention

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- Jimrat86
  
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  Shocking...
  
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- checkyesjulietx
  
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  Totally and utterly shocking
  
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- Jimrat86
  
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  As if they don't already get enough of that IRL? They seriously need more?
  
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- checkyesjulietx
  
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  maybe some of them don't get much in real life so they want validation. But some of them know they are good looking and just want to milk all the attention they can get :/
  
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Anonymous
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Try a site that you have to pay for. You may find you meet more people who take it seriously.

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Anonymous
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I don't use tinder because it's all fake

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- Kirah
  
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  This, 90% of users are bots.
  
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sarah2343 Follow
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they usually want to just hoop up

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esme97 Follow
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I don't have tinder so I don't know

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